1. My name is Li Hong, my name is very tacky, yes, I come from the countryside.
I was born in a rural area and my parents are not well-educated, but because my mother likes red, I named me Li Hong.
The phenomenon of patriarchy in rural areas is very common. Fortunately, I am lucky and I was not born in such a family.
I am an only child. Although I am a baby girl, I am also the darling of the family.
In the original rural areas, education conditions were backward, and few people were admitted to university.
But I am indeed one of the exceptions. Yes, I am not willing to be left behind, not willing to do so.
Parents used to think that girls can't go too far, and finally they can find a better condition near the family to marry.
But I don't accept my fate. I want to go out of the countryside, and I don't want to stay in this small valley forever like my parents.
With my own efforts, I walked out of the mountain village and stepped into the university campus.
2. On the day of college entrance, my parents sent me to school together. The moment I stepped onto the campus, my parents' eyes seemed to brighten up.
My parents stood blankly at the gate of the campus, scanning the place where I was about to live for four years with their bright eyes.
Finally, the eyes of the two fell on me. At this time, I looked at my parents.
I saw the wrinkles in the corners of my mother's eyes, the clusters of white hair on my father's head, and the bright eyes of my parents.
At this moment, I felt the affirmation of my parents, and my heart became extremely firm.
Parents are short-sighted, they have never seen a wider world.
However, they tried hard to put me on their shoulders to support me to see farther away.
On the way my parents drove me back to the dorm, my parents always looked around, as if they had never seen anything.
is like Liu's grandmother entered the Grand View Garden .
On the way, there are many alumni. Among them, some of them wear beautiful clothes and some wear patches.
3. Although my dress is unremarkable, it is extraordinarily comfortable. Just like the bias given to me by my parents, it wraps everything around me.
During college, I dared not neglect any time, just to prevent my parents from worrying, just to have my own world in the city in the future.
After graduating from university, I entered a state-owned enterprise with excellent results.
During my work, I work hard and take responsibility seriously.
Until one day, at a company party, I met Wang Chenxuan, the deputy manager of the sales department.
He is handsome, grew up in the urban area, and has good family conditions.
and capable, he was promoted to a deputy manager in just one year after graduation.
During the conversation with him, I discovered that he and I are still alumni and direct seniors.
I seem to be a little confused, he seems to have a kind of magic that attracts me deeply.
From that day on, after the two of us got to know each other, the exchanges became more and more, and a little ambiguous.
4. This gave me an illusion, "He likes me!" I have been dreaming about the day he and I confessed.
Unfortunately, after three months, he still didn't do anything, and I doubted myself again.
Maybe he doesn't like me, after all, I don't have any advantages, at best, I just work a little bit harder!
When I deliberately neglected him, I always feel empty in my heart.
While he was there, chatting with me became more frequent and the topics of the chat became more intimate!
The same illusion that came back to my heart.
So, when I finally couldn't help it, I spoke first.
Yes, I confessed to him! Who knows, he agreed on the spot!
and also said to me:
"I am brewing a confession ceremony for you, I did not expect you to confess to me first!"
He hugged me and said:
" Wow, don’t even think about running away if you are hooked!"
I clenched my fist and hammered his chest, saying:
"Wow, you, are you premeditated? Stay angry!"
5. He rubbed my hair and said affectionately:
"Yes, I saw you at the first company party, and then I thought about how to move You got it.
even thought of a confession ceremony. Don’t worry, the confession ceremony, I will definitely make it up for you in the future."
With his left hand, he put the head rope around his wrist.
He lifted his left hand, brought the headband to the tip of his nose, sniffed, and made a look of enjoyment.
In this way, we formally established the relationship.
The company does not allow company romances, so our contacts have always been private.
When the time was right, he asked his parents to discuss our marriage with my parents.
Although his parents are from the city, they don't have the slightest attitude of being superior.
I was a little worried that his parents were not easy to contact. It seems that my worries are unnecessary.
Both parents are discussing marriage. The situation is calm and calm.
6. And his parents proposed a method that made my parents very satisfied.
His parents proposed to hold a wedding in the city, and then hold another banquet in the countryside of our hometown.
After all, some old people and children in rural areas are inconvenient to go to the city. In order for them to participate in the wedding, they set up a banquet in the countryside.
Soon, we got married. He Xitang brought to the company to share this joy with his colleagues.
The company does not allow husband and wife to be in the same company. Because he has fewer prospects, I voluntarily left the company.
One month later, we started to prepare for pregnancy. Fortunately, we got pregnant once.
After getting pregnant, my mother-in-law moved here to live with us so that I can take care of me.
My mother-in-law took care of me in every possible way, she didn't let me do anything, and even my underwear didn't need to be washed by myself.
During this time, my mother-in-law did not allow me to make up, so my skin became a little dry, and my mother-in-law would only let me use some natural cosmetics.
The reason is still fear that stimulation is bad for the body.
After not using cosmetics for a period of time, I also became lazy, too lazy to make up, too lazy to clean up.
7. However, when I was four months pregnant, something incredible happened.
Yes, he cheated. Although no actual evidence was found, there is no doubt about his mental cheating!
On that day, my mother-in-law and I returned from shopping in the supermarket and walked to the door of the unit and saw Chenxuan.
There is a woman next to him tying him a tie, and he is putting a hairpin on the woman.
I just wanted to get angry and walked forward, but my mother-in-law stopped me.
At this time, my mother-in-law and I walked forward together and walked to them. The mother-in-law asked:
"Chen Xuan, who is he?"
Before Chen Xuan had time to speak, the woman said first:
"Auntie,Hello, I am a friend of Brother Chenxuan, you can just call me Xiaocha! "
turned his head to look at me and said:
"Sister, you are Brother Chenxuan's wife!" It's great, I really envy you with such a husband!
I said embarrassingly: "Uh, nothing!
8. Later, the mother-in-law said, let's go upstairs together!
So, a few of us walked into the house together, and the mother-in-law hinted that I was going to cook, and she went to chat with Xiaocha. God.
I finished this meal with inner depression, who knows, during the meal Chen Xuan either said that the dishes were salty or weak.
and Xiaocha sneered:
"Sister, haven't you cooked before? Do I cook at home?
My dad said that my cooking skills are almost catching up with the five-star level. Let me cook for everyone in the evening! "
I looked at her and ignored her and ate her own.
The mother-in-law seemed to have discovered something, and after eating, she gave me five thousand yuan, indicating that I would go out to play for three days, or go back to my hometown. It’s okay to stay for three days.
I thought at the time: “They want to send me away, and even worse, they beat the child and kill them!
In this way, I returned to my natal family and after talking to my mother about this matter, my mother told me to trust my mother-in-law.
9. Three days later, the mother-in-law really called I ended the call, but I hung up. I still don’t believe them.
Then the call came to my mother. My mother and my mother-in-law talked with gusto.
After the call, my mother told me :
"Look, what am I talking about, trust your mother-in-law." "
I asked my mom what happened!
My mom told me again.
It turns out that after I left, my mother-in-law praised Xiaocha for being smart and sensible, and kept making things difficult for Xiaocha.
As a result, Xiaocha couldn't stand it in two days and ran away secretly!
And on the third day, I gave Chen Xuan a bit of advice, and said that if this happened again, my mother-in-law would not recognize Chen Xuan's son.
I called me after I was done, but I ended up hanging up.
and is now on the way to pick me up, and Chen Xuan is ready to take the blame.
Friends, I sincerely feel that my mother-in-law is pretty good, but about Chenxuan, should I forgive him?
If you change this matter to your mother-in-law, what do you think she will do?
Others say that there are only zero and countless times of stealing fishy, so this time, should I trust Chenxuan?
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