Zhang Ailing said: "The way to a woman's heart is through the vagina." When a woman begins to desire and enjoy sex with a man, she is not far from falling in love with him.
Love can often make a woman sink, even if she is very sensible at first.
For men, sex is the most direct and ultimate expression of love, but it is difficult to stun your head to protect a love. No matter how high it is at the beginning, in the end sanity will slowly return.
In the movie "Men and Women", Shang Min and Hong Ji meet in the snowy Finland , and have a moment of joy in the warm sauna in the snow-covered forest. When two lonely souls meet, their bodies are tightly entwined.
I thought it could be eternal in an instant, and never met again, but finally met again.
In the end, the woman fell in love with the man and abandoned the family for him; but the man flinched,Return to the family and protect his wife and daughter.
At the end of the movie, they were scattered in the snow again, one of them collapsed and cried, and the other couldn't help tears while driving.
They have loved, hearted, had affectionate hugs, warm and lingering sex, they are also unforgettable.
But the choice between men and women is different after all.
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Li Shangmin is a strong and independent woman engaged in the fashion industry. While working, she takes care of her son with autism .
In the eyes of her husband, she is a vain woman who refuses to accept her son's autism;
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She is also responsible for the work of a fashion agency, and she dresses brightly every day.
And Hongji is an architect who chooses to work and live in Finland for his daughter who is suffering from depression.
His wife was irritated by her daughter's illness and her spirits were also volatile.
He carefully gets along with his wife and guards his daughter. He is a responsible husband and dad in the eyes of others, but he is always silent, even looking at a face without emotion. It seems a little dull, numb. Two people like
met because of their children in Finland in the snow and ice.
Shang Min does not have the usual brilliance, a plain face is full of loneliness, smoking one by one.
and Hong Ki is as indifferent as ever, although he helped Shang Min to take her to the children’s camping base,He was silent all the way.
They were trapped because of the heavy snow. In the sauna surrounded by ice and snow, passion burst out in an instant, short-term joy, and passionate lust to resist the heavy daily life.
is because of depression, loneliness, and lack of love and warmth.
Some people say that a good relationship is a "power bank". Your uneasiness will be comforted, your vulnerability will be cared for, your emotions will be shared, and your loneliness will be understood.
Unfortunately, many real marriage relationships do not have such an effect, but only increase distress.
I have seen many people who are very lonely in marriage. The loneliness in marriage is more desperate than the loneliness of a person.
The loneliness in marriage is like a drowning person, clutching a piece of driftwood, knowing that he will sink sooner or later in the vast invisible sea.
And the loneliness of a person is more like a person walking alone at night,Although afraid, after all, there is still hope to meet a warm beacon, or a person who is equally lonely, to accompany him.
The extramarital affairs in the story are never uncommon in reality. It is like a person who is about to drown and meets another person who is about to drown. On the vast sea, just glance at each other Read all the sadness and despair.
They are destined to be overwhelmed by the warmth and joy after boarding an inch-large and warm island for a while There is no resistance.
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Hong Ki appeared in Shang Min’s world time and time again. Shang Min asked him whether he found himself deliberately or met him by accident. Hong Ki smiled and said half and half.
He keeps appearing in her world, sending her messages, taking her to dinner,Chased her on the train on a business trip.
Pulled out of the heavy and suffocating home, he became clear in front of his suffocation, forgetting his responsibility and life, and he became clear in his heart. The big boy of, released all the sensitive and delicate under the indifferent appearance, and even acted like a baby to Shang Min.
In this charming spring dream, Shang Min slowly sinks.
Her independence was disintegrated a little bit, she insisted on going out to see Hongji late at night, and bravely admitted to her husband that there was someone outside, saying:
, you span I can’t forgive me, and I can’t forgive myself.”
She is ready to hold her heart in her house, but she never goes home. The doorknob stopped for a moment, turned and left, giving up the relationship.
Men are always easily emotional,But they will slowly become sensible in the face of reality; women tend to be sensible at first, and then slowly sink in the feelings, so that they want to desperate.
In an extramarital affair, a woman is the first to be emotional, and it is also a woman who is broken. The same is true for Shang Min.
In the world of love, the beauty and brokenness of women come from the eternal desire for love.
In fact, in this era, women are becoming independent and sober like never before.
Many men complain about the reality of women nowadays. When they get married, they must first look at the house and car tickets, and pay too much attention to economic conditions.
But in fact, the reality of a woman is on the surface, and as long as she feels that true love is coming, all the frames will slowly fall apart.
And the reality of men is deep into the bones. For love, for sex, men are not stingy. They are less socially restrained, and they dare to rush forward if they are moved.
If you really want to marry and live back home, it must be weighed on the balance.
When facing men, women are always cautious, sober, restrained, and weighed. But once the true heart is really moved, there will be desperate loneliness.
Unfortunately, few men in the world can catch the bravery of a woman unless she is cruel in his actual interests.
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One year later, in the icy Finland, Hongji and Shang Min met again.
Shang Min saw Hung Gi taking his wife and daughter at the restaurant, and the family was talking and laughing. She hid in the bathroom and cried silently, crying to twitching.
Hongji saw Shangmin walking hurriedly out of the restaurant,Get in a taxi. He ran out instinctively, trying to drive after him, but stopped under the silent gaze of his daughter.
What men need is to understand and want to be seen.
When Hong Ji and Shang Min were in love, they said: "I always feel that I am alive as if it is unnecessary. I have been like this since I was a child." With the wife like the little girl, she supports the whole family alone, taking care of the sick wife and daughter.
In this contribution and responsibility, he feels that he exists and is important.
No one saw his fatigue and loneliness. Only after meeting Shang Min did he feel his real existence and need.
Two people who are also struggling in life and taking care of sick children, take care of themselves in each other's vulnerability and loneliness.
What Hongji wants is to be understood,Seen, needed.
He is an ambiguous person who can never be decisive.
Because the wife loves him too much, he married his wife; being with Shang Min also feels the fragility and need of each other; in the end, he chose to return to the family because the wife and daughter could not leave themselves.
As a woman, Shang Min, no matter how strong and independent she looks, she wants to have a short rest and shoulder after all.
In the heavy rain before, Hongji accompanied her to find her son, and when he heard the child wanted to go to the beach, he turned around and drove to the beach. Shang Min snuggled against Hong Ji by the beach and said: "It was a great blessing that you were by my side at that time."
Fragile, take care of her like a little girl.
This is the story of Hong Ki and Shang Min, the story of you and me, the story of every man and woman.
Women should never overestimate the love of men,Not to mention the enthusiasm for sex, and fantasies about an eternal story.
If you want to have good love, passionate sex, then understand a man, but never rely on him.
Learn to be like a man, just let the sincerity and enthusiasm of that moment illuminate your lonely life and draw the power to live well.
After all, love gives people the power to live, but we live not because of love.
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