The fiance's 10-member family group actually discussed how to make my belly bigger...

I feel sick when I think about it! I want to throw up!

My prospective in-laws actually discussed our sex life with my fiancé, and taught him not to wear condoms to make my belly a big gift!

is a 32-year-old leftover girl who is retiring from marriage, I am not a 32-year-old leftover girl who is retiring. My mother thinks so.

I thought about it, probably from the age of 27, 90% of the topic between my mother and me was about how to marry me, I met hundreds of men, I have been on the local matchmaker's official account, I am a VIP on various dating sites, and my mom took the photos to the blind date...

In short, all the ways to date you can think of I have basically tried them, but none of them has been successful in the past four or five years. Until last winter I met my current fiancé, and we met at a company annual meeting.

Oh, yes, I forgot to introduce it. I was an event planner. At that time, my fiance was the matchmaker for their company’s annual meeting.But I have never thought about other aspects, so when I first contacted him, I was only on business.

Because their company’s annual meeting is quite large and they have invited many partners, they have to do a lot of preparatory work. It's very much, I didn't feel the nerve, but the fiance said he has liked me since then.

Maybe this is fate? There hasn’t been a suitable blind date for so many years, but a chance at work just touches it. After the annual meeting, he often asked me to watch movies, eat, or even go shopping with him. Even though I was a straight daughter, I knew what this meant, and others were good at work and were able to work well, so we fell in love.

The love at this age must go straight to the marriage. We talked for more than a month for the Chinese New Year, so I met both of my parents. He was very satisfied. From my parents' point of view, I only need to bring home a healthy man with two legs. They are happy, but I obviously felt uncomfortable when I went to his house...

His home is also in the province, but it is in a relatively remote village. I didn't dislike the countryside, but when I went to his home, I obviously felt his parents' malice towards me.

They made a large table of dishes with a polite surface,But both inside and outside the words are in yin and yang, saying that their son is capable and marrying a big city wife, saying originally wanted him to marry a girl from the village, the big city girl was squeamish and spoiled.

I was awkward listening, but after all, it was not easy to pull my face when I came to the door for the first time, so I still try to keep smiling as much as possible. After that meal, the only information I got was: I can enter their house, but his house has no money.

To tell the truth, I planned to break up at the time, not because of the money, but because his parents were too unspeakable. But on the way back, my fiancé kept coaxing me, saying that his parents couldn't talk because they liked me and feared that I would not look down on the conditions of their family.

After I got home, I also communicated with my parents about this. My parents said that is a good thing that their family is worse than ours, so that in the future, my status in the in-law’s family will be more secure. , And the fiancé has already bought a house in the city, so it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t live with his parents in the future.

I believed my parents and fiancé's nonsense at the time, and didn't care about it. After all, it was not his parents who lived with me, but I did not expect that this was the beginning of the trouble...

After meeting the parents, everyone got together to talk about engagement and betrothal.My parents are already lucky enough to be able to marry me, so they don't have any requirements in this regard. They just follow our local custom, the betrothal 10w8, plus three gold or whatever is OK.

At that time his parents also agreed, although what they said is still awkward, saying that has already bought a house and sold iron. This time, even if he sells his pants, he will help his son marry his daughter-in-law and will not treat me badly. , Marrying a big city daughter-in-law is their ancestor Shangji De and so on.

I just didn't care about it when they couldn't speak, but things changed after they started preparing for the wedding in recent months.

When my fiancé and I went back to his house for dinner, suddenly changed his parents’ dinner table and said they couldn’t spend so much money, and the big and small weddings had to be spent, and the gift was halved for 5w8. I certainly disagree, how can I change it if I say it? Moreover, this number is our basic standard, and it is by no means a wild asking price.

His parents were even more ugly at the time. They said that my parents were selling their daughters, that I had a house and I was greedy, and that people in big cities swindled money from small people, etc. I can’t remember the original words, anyway. It's Sapo's virtue, the logic is so strange that it is unreasonable.

and the fiancé also secretly talked to his parents this time,On the surface, I still want to give me 10w8, but suggested that the honeymoon should not go, and the wedding photos should not be taken, and everything for the wedding should be kept simple to save money.

I lost my temper and slammed the door and left. My fiance chased me out and said good things to me. He said that he would discuss it with his parents again, and said that I had no deposit and paid me a mortgage. I was wronged and so on. The attitude was super good, so my heart was softened.

I cried silently when I came home that day. On the one hand, I felt that I was too embarrassed to negotiate the price with his parents. It's really ugly to try to eat; On the other hand, I found that the first hurdle of this marriage is "talking about money does not hurt feelings".

I made an appointment to watch a movie with my fiance after get off work that day, he went to the toilet and asked her to use his mobile phone to get a ticket on WeChat. It's easy to handle. It was my prospective mother-in-law who sent the message.

I clicked in and read their chat history. It was disgusting. The fiance actually told us about our sex life in the family group! And the prospective mother-in-law actually taught him how to make me pregnant without a condom, "raw rice and cook mature rice".

I took two recordings with my only sanity and trembling hands, and then my fiance returned. I hurriedly calmed my mood and forced my composure to watch the movie that day.

I am going back to his new home to live with me and he has a special relationship at night. does not matter sooner or later who will have a baby.I asked him if he wanted to make any ideas? He was angry that I had taken the wrong medicine.

I really can’t help it anymore, and said I read his chat history and said I knew about the conspiracy between him and his mother, and then I took my recent grievances He spoke out with anger, put on his clothes and left his house before he could react.

He didn't chase it out. I guess I don't know how to explain it, but when I got home, I found that he had sent me a WeChat message.

I still explain when I get married.

Naturally it was insomnia that was so bad for me to get married, but I didn’t think it was so complicated when I got married. Encountered such a confused in-laws.

That night I carefully thought about what the bride price means, why his parents had such a dirty idea for such a small amount of money, and why I was furious because of tens of thousands of dollars. Later, I wanted to understand a little bit: I thought that what can be solved with money is not a problem.Unexpectedly, money itself is the biggest problem in marriage.

To put it mildly, his family’s fault is poor. If you want to make my stomach bigger, no one wants me to "lost the bargaining chip". Let it be slaughtered. I thought that the money was not that important and I could compromise, but only then did I want to understand, means that the two native families do not agree with each other...

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Now I have a lot of things to deal with. I continue to persuade my parents, unsubscribe the banquet to recover the loss, and explain countless times to my relatives and friends... Actually I don’t know how much noise these things will cause, but I am not afraid, I am sure that my choice is right.

I used to be anxious about age and worry about people who do not love, but now I know that making myself comfortable is the most important thing.

came to submit this article to tell girls not to urge marriage,Just walk with a family that is not so suitable. Of course, if the sisters have good suggestions, I can put this farce to a beautiful ending, and I hope they can tell me!

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