Author: Omi Text collation: Xing Juan Editing and typesetting: Ma Cui Guanli
Xiaoming's quotations:
Through the bridge between the subconscious and our subconscious, we can bridge the subconscious.
Hello everyone! I am honored to have this opportunity today to share a little bit of my learning experience.
1. Learning this thing is not too difficult for me.
I once posted a video on Toutiao, that is, analyzes this collection of Xueba elements , I summarized the Xueba elements into four sets.
- IQ.
- driving force.
- Efficiency.
- target.
In fact, this is also the most direct experience that I have learned over the years since I was young.
Let me talk about how this thing is used in the study of " Xiaoming's psychology course ".
First of all IQ, I think everyone should be similar.
may be different when you are young.
However,Most women say that they have been silly for several years, and I don’t know what the time limit is.
Anyway, after middle age, people have a decline in all aspects, including physical strength, energy and IQ, which are mainly reflected in memory, so IQ is a flaw, and there is no way to force it. I basically gave up on this aspect.
Then there are driving force, efficiency, and goals . Let me talk about them one by one.
2. What is the driving force, and the use of
driving force actually means that maintains a lasting driving force during the learning process.
In fact, this matter may not be easy for most people. Because there are so many messy things in adult life, it is easy to distract us.
So in this situation, we need to find what we are most interested in.
At the beginning, I started with the new psychoanalysis class of Teacher Xiao Ming. At that time, I took three days of online class.
The most interesting part of this lesson lies in teacher Xiao Ming's strong logic ability, he can teach these lessons in a very orderly manner.
I don’t know if you can understand it. What does order mean?
means that some teachers lecture for a long time, and you don't know what the main idea is. But Mr. Xiao Ming made it clear through a timeline of the history of new psychoanalysis.
But one of the most important ways to maintain my motivation at that time was to talk to others immediately after listened, because I have many friends who are interested in psychology.
At that time, I posted a resume on a job hunting software,In fact, I had almost no basis in psychology at the time, and I didn't even pass the second-level certificate of psychological counseling. I just wanted to try how much the career of psychological counselor is worth.
I just pretended to write a resume.
At that time, I was hired in two places. One is a psychological consultation shop on Taobao, and the other is a local consultation agency in Chengdu.
After finishing, I just finished listening to teacher Xiaoming's new psychoanalysis class at this stage, talked about the psychoanalysis context in these two places.
There are some things that I can't remember during the first time. Go back and look it up. I'll talk about it a second time when it's over. If you feel that you are no longer proficient the second time, just talk about it again, and find someone new to talk about it again. Talking to the other friends in the organization at that time, basically after two or three times, the context became clear.
Because I wanted to be a counselor at the time, I had never dabbled in this profession, but I have always been very interested in psychology.
So this thing gave me a strong driving force at the time.
Xiaoming's quotations:
Dream is a key to understanding psychology.
3. Let theory connect with practice
Later I began to study Xiao Ming children’s micro-organizations and other micro-universities in depth, including later educationThen I walked all the way to the current disciple class.
I have participated in the disciple class for four years. During this period, will constantly look for points of interest to me, and tell other interested people about the relevant knowledge of my points of interest.
For example, the leader of a unit, or a project manager, or someone who has organizational and management needs. In the process of talking to them, it is very easy for me to find their thinking loopholes and management loopholes.
This point can give me a lot of driving force, allowing me to always maintain a sense of freshness and desire to explore this piece of knowledge.
To put it briefly, how does maintain a driving force and efficiency?
Relatively speaking, the driving force is simpler. The efficiency I understand is to sort out the order of this knowledge.
Teacher Xiao Ming has arranged the order for us very clearly during the lecture. What we have to do is to follow the order of Teacher Xiao Ming and bring it into the practice of our lives, to practice, Combine theory with practice.
Because knowledge is equivalent to order, but when we maintain order, we will encounter many details when we operate in reality, and these details must be operated by ourselves.
On the one hand, can deepen memory .
The second aspect is that allows us to accumulate our own experience , and this experience cannot be described by any teacher, even through our simple notes I can't really grasp the back.
We can only master this experience if we experience it ourselves.
Xiaoming’s quotations:
5span is the ability to understand our personality and the state of dreams.
(to be continued)
Original Official Account: Heart Partner (ID: xhbeap)
.
