Compared with boys, girls are more likely to have an idea: they can’t let him get me so easily, or they will lose money.
So I just made it and did it, and a lot of unpleasant things happened. How did
come into being? Does it make sense?
In modern society, is this kind of psychology still useful?
I scribbled, you just look at it.
The difference between male and female
Female is defined as the sex of the individual who produces the egg.
The definition of egg is: female reproductive cells.
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Isn't this the circular argument ?
If a brand new creature is found and it is confirmed that it is sexual reproduction, how to tell which is male and which is female?
can first exclude a few options:
can not be based on the shape of the genitals, this should not be an essential difference.
cannot be based on which party is responsible for pregnancy. I clearly remember that the hippocampus is the male responsible for pregnancy.
cannot be based on the strength of the body. Although I have no examples, I feel that there should be species with stronger females.
The suspected options are:
The reproductive cells with large size, quality and high nutrition are eggs, so the number of eggs is usually smaller because it is more difficult to produce, and the quality is not weight.
Sperm has almost only genetic material, the quantity is easy to increase, and the weight is not qualitative.
But I guess there are creatures with relatively equal male and female reproductive cells in nature, but I don’t know that there are biologists in the readers who hope to give me advice!
The comparative advantage determines that the greater the difference in the division of labor between the sexes, the better, so that both parties can be more proficient in their own division of labor.
Females pay more on reproduction, and gradually become more on fertility, pregnancy, and care.
For example, in humans, almost all women are responsible for pregnancy and childbirth, and most women are responsible for bringing children. Women pay a lot more for their offspring than men. A lot of effort is even unavoidable because of body structure and social traditions. .
It is reasonable to think about it. After all, hunting is physically exhausting and dangerous. It is best to let men with lighter duties take the responsibility.
So in the primitive matrilineal clan society, it is very easy to understand that men are tool people.
Gambling between men and women
Women have very limited germ cells and have to pay a lot for pregnancy and childbirth, so women tend to keep their eyes open and pick a man responsible.
The number of male germ cells is very large, almost unlimited. There is no hard responsibility for pregnancy and childbirth, so males tend to show mercy to increase the possibility of gene continuity.
Once a woman chooses to reproduce, she has to bear a heavy burden and it is difficult to get rid of it. Therefore, women need to be more cautious about sexual relations, or marriage.
But men can choose to be unrelenting, and may choose to deceive and betray.
The game has just begun-women’s demand for responsibility towards men has contributed to at least two things. One is to allow more and more truly responsible men to reproduce more and more offspring, and the other is to allow irresponsible men to learn lies and lies. deceive.
The game continues-in order to distinguish between the really responsible person and the liar, women need to increase their ability to distinguish, improve their patience, and increase the threshold.
Trust Game
In order to distinguish lies and sincerity, women need to use all means to find people who are trustworthy and trustworthy; men have to use all means to gain trust.
This is a question of trust.
When we see the soft, wide, hard and wide variety of popular variety shows on TV during prime time, the company's stricter warranty replacement policy promised to its own products, the store's self-degraded status is willing to fake one pay ten...
is the core of gaining trust, It is taking the initiative to give up one's own advantages, and take the initiative to give up one's own advantages that make the other party feel uneasy.
From this perspective, it’s easy to understand that girls prefer honest people with stable jobs and decent families.Such a man neither has the habit and ability to mess with flowers, nor the courage to bear the consequences.
For men, what does it mean to give up the advantage?
Make solemn promises, hand over economic power and valuables to girls for safekeeping, hold a grand ceremony in front of relatives and friends to announce marriage, obtain certificates, and be subject to legal and moral supervision...
Everything is to give up men Own advantages, give up men's own retreat.
When women are forced to give, the sense of security comes from men’s commitment and voluntarily cutting back.
This is very easy to understand. Only by protecting the interests of the weak and restricting the ability of the strong to do whatever they want can we promote the benign cooperation, such as protection of workers, minors, protection of women, protection of the disabled, and protection of military personnel. , All so.
Finally
There are many ways to give trust, one of which is widely used-prepay.
Although many women in the new era are pursuing physical equality between men and women, in most cases, men pay more in their lives to compensate for inequality in reproduction.
The evolving requirements of "willing to spend money generously" and "willing to pay time" are quite controversial.
Today I came back from get off work at 22:10 in the evening. I was exhausted. I wrote this word during lunch break and odd time, and my thoughts were often interrupted.
After the sweetness of more than an hour today, it has eased a lot, but let’s finish it. We will talk about more interesting topics later. The content has been written a little bit, but considering the space issue, it has not been included.
Women must demand a reasonable return for their contributions, and men must also provide such compensation.
But where are the reasonable boundaries?
Please see the next issue: conspicuous sunk cost .
is over!
This is the 290th written article by Rubbing Renren. It is another small part of his ordinary and boring life, and it is also his little progress.
Welcome to the public account "Kneading Renren" to play with me.
Thank you for reading, thank you for enjoying.
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