One of the watersheds of long and short choice
Love is a series of processes in which men and women are actively initiating and women are passively accepting. Marriage is a sign of long-term mate-choosing relationships. Whether or not they can enter marriage is largely determined by the performance of both parties in mutual inspection. The occurrence of
sex is the focus of the investigation process. Don't take it lightly.
Due to women's natural desire to be strong, it is difficult to be interested in crept innocent boys, and for those old drivers who have been driving for many years, they feel deeply unable to control them. So, it must be very necessary to control the time, node, and frequency of the relationship between the sexes.
Generally, boys who have a certain level of sultry sisters tend to make girls move. This kind of boy, starting from WeChat chat, will begin to engage in various ambiguous, provocative and even molested girls. As the relationship deepens, when the two are dating, boys will start a series of "inadvertent touches" on the girl: touching the hair, pulling the handle, supporting the waist, and even patting the girl's ass.
A watershed in the level of sultry sisters is whether "confession" occurs. Old drivers generally do not confess this part, or joking confession (for example: if you want to behave well, I will accept you as a concubine balabala...); small drivers are generally Will solemnly confess. Here, we don’t talk about small drivers, only old drivers. After all, old drivers are still girls’ favorites.
As mentioned earlier, the essence of love is the mutual trials of both parties. Then, the old drivers have to conduct a necessary assessment for girls in love, that is, the pinyin abbreviation "TD" of "push down", which means push down to have a relationship on the bed.
This assessment subject is very important, it is a key part of determining the attributes of the relationship. In fact, at the beginning of love, many times, the boy himself does not know whether he will marry this girl in the future. He has to go through a series of assessments on the girl before he can confirm. One of the forks in the "short-term relationship".
If a girl does well in the exam, she is likely to marry the boy she currently likes; if the girl fails the exam,You have to think about marrying someone else, at least you won't marry the current boy happily.
1. Exam time and examination room
After the two parties have established a romantic relationship, daily communication is nothing more than appointments for meals, shopping, and movies. This is the daily life of couples. But there is a kind of appointment, which means that the exam is about to come, that is: due to objective reasons, you need to spend the night outside, or although it is daytime, both parties need to live together in a private space alone for a long time (usually more than 2 hours).
Most exams are at night; most exam rooms are hotels or homes where both parties are alone. As for the timing of the test, depending on the driving experience of the old driver, some boys may dare to move you the first time they meet; some have known each other for ten and a half months; some start in one or two months. The earlier the exam time, the more it can explain two points: 1. The opponent's rank level; 2. The opponent's short-term choice intention. Of course, which is the specific point of these two points, it is not easy to distinguish, just review your homework with peace of mind.
The test signals are as follows:
“I’m tired of shopping in the morning. Let’s take a break at my house in the afternoon (no one in his house)”;
“May 1st, I will take you to Changbai Mountain for a tour”;
“Ten o’clock in the evening” There is a movie (he knows that the dormitory closes at 11 o’clock in the school)”;
go shopping for dinner at noon, sprinkle vegetable soup on his pants, and then ask to open a hotel to change his pants A situation).
2. Exam content and answering skills
Let’s take the exam of "May Day, I will take you to Changbai Mountain for a tour" as an example. You think boys really want to appreciate the virgin forest of Changbai Mountain Are wild boars running around with bare butts? No, he actually wants to admire you with a bare butt! ! !
Since you have been together for more than a month, it is possible that physical contact such as holding hands, hugging, and kissing has occurred. Therefore, after entering a private space (such as a hotel), he is likely to initiate hugs and kisses to you. At this time, the girl should pay attention. The boy's path is generally to hug first, and then kiss and kiss.Then, depending on your level of resistance, start a press kiss or a wall kiss. All in all, it starts with light physical contact and then intense kisses. With a violent tongue kiss, he will start touching up and down, typically touching his chest, butt and lower body, from touching through the clothes to reaching into the clothes to touch.
Slight physical contact, such as shoulders and face is okay. Once you start pressing and kissing, you will begin to answer the questions. How to answer the question?
is just one word: Resistance! ! !
judges the degree of resistance based on the degree of his violation of you and his own feelings. Especially when the lower body is violated, the fiercest resistance must be started, including but not limited to: yelling, calling for help, slapping him and even slapped him with a photon on the ear.
Here girls remember, don't worry that fierce resistance will cause the other party to get angry. Because in order to prevent a man from marrying a woman who "everyone can do it," he will use himself as a bait to repeatedly test the girl to see if his loyalty meets his own requirements.
Go on, under your hysterical resistance, especially after you slap the other side fiercely, at this time the average man will stop, and you can’t stop it. Congratulations, I guess you met a criminal. NS. After
stopped, there were two situations:
1. He was angry, turned his head to the side and fell asleep, or opened another room and ran away. Then ignore you, or send a message to condemn you. For example, "Unexpectedly, you are so excessive", "I think we should calm down and think about it again", or after experiencing this time, I won't contact you much anymore.
In this case, congratulations on successfully defending a short-term relationship. But at this time, many girls often make a mistake because they like the boy. When the boy is so indifferent, he will feel that he is not good, and then go back to apologize to the boy or ask for contact. So, it is equivalent to pushing down again after climbing out of the fire pit.
A boy who really has a long-term relationship will not get angry because you slap him, maybe he will be a little emotionally annoyed at the time. But afterwards, I will send you a message and apologize. Because after passing the exam, he subconsciously laughed: finally found a girl who would not give me a cuckold, hahaha~
This is equivalent to your taekwondo sparring teacher,You kicked him to the ground with a kick. He was in pain, and he would surely think in his heart: That's great, he finally became a disciple, and my hard work was not in vain.
If you kick the other party to the ground with one kick and the other party swears at you and wants you to die right away, it is definitely an emotional reaction of a thief who wants to steal your wallet and fails to succeed.
So, when you don't want to have a relationship, if you desperately guard all your actions, you will give yourself extra points in the other person's heart. Of course, what I am talking about here is to slap the opponent, which is an exaggeration, which means that you have to resist desperately.
2. After your hysterical resistance, the opponent retreated. At this time, both parties are often in an awkward situation. At this time, if the boy takes the initiative to send you a message to apologize to you, admit that he is not impulsive. So what should the girl do at this time? Remember, take it as soon as you see it, don't take this opportunity to make trouble or make a fuss and fly home. He apologizes to you, and you can reply: "Well, it’s okay. Sorry, I was impulsive just now, did I hurt you? My tutor is very strict. Although you are a very good boy, I like you very much. , But this kind of thing really can’t happen.”
This is equivalent to mothers disciplining children who don’t want to do their homework. If the child doesn’t do homework, the mother beats him up. If the child hides behind the door in desperation and cannot come out, he will continue to play. Resist, then the mother must adhere to the principle and continue to exert high pressure on him until he succumbs; if the child admits his mistakes and corrects, then the mother must promptly comfort and encourage him, it is your son, you beat him, of course it is distressed.
Same reason, after rejecting men. If the other party apologizes, you should also apologize and explain to the other party. The purpose is to convey to the other party "I reject you because I am relatively loyal, not because I don't like you." The other party looks down on me, I'll forget it". But remember, you must be softened after the other person's attitude is subdued, and when the other person cannot be angry, your attitude will soften.
In the process of getting acquainted, falling in love and getting married, the above exams will not only be one time, but multiple indefinite exams. Some girls may ask, am I so decisive every time? Do you really have to be XXOO until you get married?
Not too!
There is a fundamental rule here,That is: depending on the man's long-term relationship sincerity and resource investment, and synchronizing the equal value to deepen the intimacy. Let’s look at a gradual word order:
Keywords for the man’s long-term sincerity in investing:
Ambiguous ridicule, appointments, small gifts, public relations, Chinese gifts, meeting parents, big gifts, engagement and betrothal gifts, adding names, Married, long-term support.
The keywords that the woman allows for intimacy:
Accept ridicule, go to appointments, not dislike minor physical contact, confirm romantic relationships, couples' arms around their shoulders, kiss their faces, hug, tongue kisses, touch them, and sleep naked together No relationship, borderline sex, real sex, continuous sex, tricky sex, pregnancy and childbirth.
A principle in long-term relationships is to exchange equivalence as the relationship progresses. It can't be that the other party is still in the stage of being ambiguous and teasing you, you can allow him to kiss your face. It's not all time to see your parents, and you still won't let him hold your hand. Of course, there will not be a rigid equivalent formula, everything must follow your feelings, the so-called emotional intelligence ability is used at this time.
3. Test scores and qualifications
The logic behind this test subject in men’s subconscious mind is:
1. Well, I will do everything possible to fix this girl, if the tightness of her waistband is less than mine If expected, aha~, then I will use it as a short-term wild cannon, and maybe I will hit the target once and shoot a son.
If your final exam results are as above, congratulations, your qualifications for further education are: you can marry another man except the man in front of you, and the man's inner feeling for you is contempt.
2. If the tightness of her trousers belt is equal to or about the same size as I expected, um, then I am going to fight for a long time. I don’t believe it. I can’t get a real son if I can fight for a lifetime. Come.
If your final exam results are as above, congratulations, your qualifications for further education are: marry the man in front of you. The relationship between husband and wife will be smoother in the future.
3. If the tightness of her trousers belt is much greater than I expected, and I will go bankrupt and can't beat her, I wipe it, then I have to run away. Damn, this is a hundred years with Lao Tzu's spare tire~
If your final test score is as above,Congratulations, your qualifications for further education are: the man in front of you will leave you with a high probability; the man in front of you will become angry. If you break up, you are likely to incur revenge. At least you won't give him a good impression. Men have a grudge against you.
The above is what girls need to understand deeply. Sexual presentation, or tepid and appropriate, is actually an art, and appropriate presentation is the key to your cultivation.
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