Suddenly found out that raising your own parents was your own biological parents but adoptive parents. Will you look for your biological parents?
I have lived with my parents since I was a child...
This is what a good friend of mine told me, a family of four, she has an older sister who is 12 years older than her. Because my elder sister is much older than her, she came out to work earlier, and the conditions at home were not very good since she was young, but her life was quite comfortable, and her parents took good care of her.
The family conditions are not very good. Fortunately, the parents are more industrious, and the days are getting better and better than before. The family of four enjoys a good time, but God always likes to tease people, and suddenly one day her mother passed away. She didn't have time to meet, but when she came home from school, she felt a cold body. She explained that when she talked on the phone in the afternoon tomorrow, she was fine. Why did she receive the phone call at night because it was the news of her mother's death! She really can’t figure it out...
Then she was already preparing for college entrance exams. Like me, we are all boarders. We live in school and we only go home on weekends. The incident happened suddenly, so in the end her mother didn’t leave. I was able to see the last side, so I left quietly, leaving my father and two sisters...
All said that children without mothers are like grass roots. Sometimes I think this sentence is quite right, because I am also a single parent family. The children without the protection of their mothers seem very helpless and pitiful... Whether it is me or they are all independent, so independent that you can't even imagine what they look like when they act like a baby. When you first met them, you didn't see anything wrong with them. Usually they looked very fresh and easy-going, but when you get to know them, you will find that their hearts are actually very fragile.
Back to the subject, my friend, she heard from others shortly after her mother left that she was not the biological child of her parents, but the child adopted by her parents when she was young. It’s incredible! how could be? Parents have treated themselves very well since childhood, and they have not shown and made any distinction between their biological and non-natural daughters. They have raised her for decades and sent her to school.
Once we chatted, I just asked casually, haven't you thought about looking for your biological parents? Ask them why they didn’t want you to give you away more than 20 years ago. She said there was no need to look for it.After all, twenty years have passed, and they haven't come to find me either! They just gave birth to me and did not nurture me. I don't need to know how they are doing, maybe they are doing better than me! Besides, I also have my own father to support. If I find them and find that their lives are worse than our current life, should I be filial to them? In fact, the current state of life is quite good, so just treat the parents who raised yourself as your own biological parents and be filial. After all, it’s not easy to raise me since I was young. Maybe one day, when my father gets old and I am alone, I might think about it...
It’s been several years now, and we still keep in touch, and occasionally get together, she’s fine too. There is no more text about finding your biological parents.
There are many things like this on the Internet. You give birth to a child and don’t raise it. When the child grows up and has a successful career, he will look for it and tell her that we are your biological parents. That’s why I have to give you to others to raise and so on...
As the saying goes, it’s good to be born without raising, you can pay back if you have broken your fingers, you can get back if you raise your head before you are born. I think the girl's thoughts and practices are very good, and she didn't do things out of nothing to prove that the father beside her is not her own father. However, I think those who chew their tongues are also very annoying...
Harm, life is like this, full of all kinds of regrets, watching other people's stories, savoring one's own life, and suddenly I feel very moved by the destiny.
If it were you, what would you think of such a thing? Let’s discuss it together [Laughing] [Laughing] 
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