Speaking of how to understand a person, I think of an ancient saying: watch his words and observe his actions. It means that we want to know a person, and we can judge it through the other person's words and actions.
But some people say that you don’t judge a person by what he says, but what he has done. It is true that actions are more testimony than words, and can better represent a person's true attitude towards you.
But language definitely has its influence. After all, a person who is unwilling to even talk to you seriously and talks about you perfunctory, of course, the other party does not take you in his heart.
As a woman, our minds are very delicate, and it is easy to be affected by a behavior or even a sentence of the man, which will lead to gains and losses.
Indeed, a man’s attitude towards us, whether the other person pretends or really likes us, can be seen through the state of two people chatting.
Look at the opening remarks of men chatting with you
As an emotional counselor, I dare not say that I have read countless people, but at least I have been in contact with a certain opposite sex, because I have encountered someone who really likes myself. , There are also men who pretend to like themselves, so I know the difference between them.
There was a boy who chased me. He was willing to treat me as a marriage partner. At first I thought he really liked me, but later, I found out that I was just a fish he raised, or Say the spare tire.
He doesn’t find me very often, occasionally two or three times a week. Given that he is a few years older than me, I thought it was because he was mature and restrained himself, but he didn’t know that he didn’t like you so much, but he was just older. I am anxious to find a suitable marriage partner for myself.
How do I know that he pretends to like me? It's very simple. In most cases, when he finds me, 's opening remarks are to give me a love package or send me the same chat topic, and he hardly shares his life with me.
He doesn’t care,I have met guys who really like me. The other person will look for me every day, and there will always be different topics when they look for me. Even if they don’t, the attitude is very serious, at least one sentence or a few words in the opening.
At the same time, he rarely chats with me during the day, and always finds me at night, even when I have something to find him during the day, he only responds to me at night.
In fact, a man really likes you, he will always think of you and care about you, no matter day or night, how can he stand to contact you only at night?
Look at the topic of men chatting with you
I don’t know if readers who read this article have ever personally summed up the experience of dealing with men, I found that those who are really willing to talk to you The boys you are dating will more or less talk to you about some of their childhood experiences in the early stage, and some will directly show you photos of their childhood and pictures with family members.
At the same time, they will also want to look at your previous photos. The man who is more caring about you will also be more active. He will take the initiative to understand your world, including your hobbies, and even he knows you love When reading books, he is still willing to go to the library with you to read books and accompany you to do what you want to do.
These are all the boys who really like you and want to go with you. Conversely, if a boy doesn't like you, his focus will definitely not be on you. If you take the initiative to tell him about your past and some stories that happened to you, not only will the man not want to listen to you, he will also be bored with you and even want to leave you.
Boys don't like you but pretend to have a good impression of you. The typical performance is that the other party and you will go straight to the topic when chatting. This topic can be said that he is really close to your purpose, maybe about work, maybe he Physiological needs and so on.
In short, the topics he chats with you are based on his own needs, and often rarely involve feelings, especially the topic of how you feel, because he doesn’t really like you, but just pretends to like you, so he doesn’t care. What happened to you,Is it happy or sad today?
Of course, the boy’s chat performance after quarreling with you, did he communicate with you to solve the problem, or he knew that you were uncomfortable, and would not speak clearly with you to solve the problems and conflicts between you, and even Asking you to take the initiative to find him to solve the problem can prove the truest attitude of boys towards you.
In fact, love is not pure now, is mixed with too many material and physical requirements, and it is really rare. Therefore, it is reasonable to meet a man who pretends to love you. Women don’t have to be too sad. If you are lucky enough to meet a true man, Just do it and cherish it.
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