The slower you reply, the more boys will love you

Text/Sister Ai

I don’t know when it will start, and this kind of argument is popular:

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For example, when you are chatting with a boy, you must not take the initiative to find him, it will look like you are boring, like a dog;

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span , And don’t reply to the message too quickly. Even if you are idle, you can wait a few seconds, scan your circle of friends and then reply to him, so that he will know that you are important and will treat you better.

Many girls really think they are right. They believe in one sentence: If you take the initiative, you lose.

But is this really the case?

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Fear of losing face, afraid of being treated as a licking dog, afraid of embarrassment if you can't chase the person you like; afraid of being chased, the other party thinks you are too easy to chase and don't cherish it.

But if you like someone, you don’t dare to contact each other because you are afraid of them. You really won’t be embarrassed, but you also lose the opportunity to communicate with each other.

If the other person doesn't know you and doesn't know you, how could he like you?

When someone comes to chase you, if you just want to look good and want to increase the difficulty for him to pursue you, you will not respond actively to him. In fact, there is a big problem.

How long he is willing to chase you is not directly equal to how deep he likes you.

Chasing a person is to see the response, and he will have the motivation to continue. Mario still has gold coins on the way to save the princess!

If you take the initiative for a long time, you will really get tired. If you have not been able to give him enough response, you are likely to lose someone who loves you because of your high attitude.

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while two people have been identified relationship, the process of getting along even without arrest themselves, suppress their own His enthusiasm, pretending to be indifferent just to exchange his attention.

You should know that when you are in love, you have to talk about love. Feelings are created and deepened in the communication between you and me,

If you can't even actively chat with him or actively interact with him, then you still have a relationship. What's the point?

Girls want boys to return to themselves in seconds, to prove that the other person cares about themselves, but doesn't the other person need to see your response?

The message sent out is delayed in receiving a timely response. This feeling will not be good for men and women.

It’s been a long time,It is bound to discourage the initiative of the active party and affect your feelings.

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Don’t think too much about what some love mentors say. If you are too proactive, you will be looked down upon by the other party. It will expose your own needs and turn you into something like a dog licking.

You know, The most important reason why many people have a bad relationship with each other is that they dare not take the initiative.

Because I believe in the initiative, I lose. Because I am afraid of being passive in the relationship between two people, I have to wait and wait for the other person to take the initiative.

But I can say that taking the initiative is the performance of the strong in the relationship.

Because taking initiative is actually a form of self-confidence, I dare to take the initiative, which means I think I’m good enough and I’m confident that you like me.

In the relationship between two people, I actually dominate. If I want to take the initiative, I take the initiative. If I don’t want to take the initiative, I won’t take the initiative. You make you develop a habit, and occasionally you don't want to take the initiative, but you will not get used to it, and you can't help but come to me.

Active or not is just a tool to squeeze the opponent, which means nothing.

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strong heart,Take the initiative, you can find what you like, so you will also be the master of the relationship.

Don’t be too passive, you can only sit on the tall towers stupidly, waiting for the legendary Prince Charming to appear—— _p5

p5p It is very possible that he doesn't even know that there is a person like you in the castle, and where is the motivation to overcome the thorns and save you!

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