People often say: Men are tired of a woman, usually starting from the body, but women are tired of a man, but often start from the following two states.
The first one is to become discouraged
The grief is greater than death.
In the TV series "Do You Know", Minglan and the little father-in-law are in love each other. The little father-in-law once swore that he will not marry him, but he cannot be the master of his own marriage. Minglan was ridiculed by outsiders for her wishful thinking.
If the little grandpa could come forward in time to speak for Minglan when Minglan was being discussed; or he could understand Minglan’s grievances and forbearance, and truly understand Minglan; or he would be willing to do it for Minglan. Lan and his mother argued hard, so Ming Lan would not be disappointed by him.
In " Ruyi's Biography ", Ruyi and Qianlong's childhood sweethearts fell in love with each other and formed a young couple. Ruyi loves her young man with one heart.
But the emperor is not her alone after all. He has three thousand beauties in the harem, and he gradually neglects Ruyi, doubts Ruyi, and hurt Ruyi.
When we were young and in love with each other, there was always something to say, but in the end, we were tired of seeing each other.
Ruyi no longer had any expectations of the emperor, until in the end, he broke the oath and broke with Qianlong completely.
Not everyone can wait forever. ,After all, someone will leave with disappointment and boredom.
The second is to become silent.
Cousin and cousin-in-law met on a blind date. Although the two of them often chattered after marriage, they had a good time.
Last year, during the epidemic, his cousin was at home and became obsessed with games. He often played games with voice in the middle of the night. The cousin persuaded him to play less, but he refused to listen.
Later, the cousin found out that he and the girl in the game had added friends, chatting often, the cousin had a big fight with him, and finally ended the quarrel with the cousin deleting all the contact information of the girl.
Once, the cousin cooked porridge in the pot and told the cousin to look at the pot and she went back to her family to do something.
But the cousin played a game after another and completely forgot what the cousin told him. When I remembered, the kitchen almost burned.
After returning home, the cousin and the cousin quarreled again. When people were angry, they could tell any unpleasant things. The two revealed each other’s scars. The cousin threw the cousin’s cellphone in angrily, and the two began to fight. , The furniture has been smashed almost all the time, and the cousin can't be clamored for a divorce.
They stopped until the neighbors in the neighborhood came to the fight.
After this quarrel, the cousin lived in her natal house for more than half a month, but her mother-in-law came to persuade her to go home.
Later the cousin came over to admit his mistakes in three days, and the two were reconciled.
But after returning home, the two of them did not stop arguing. There was a small noise in two days and a big noise in seven days. Every time they quarreled, they said they wanted to divorce.
until one day,The two finally stopped arguing, and everyone thought they finally figured it out, and they had to live a good life.
Unexpectedly, half a year later, my cousin came back with a divorce certificate.
In fact, there is a change that is more serious than quarrels and complaints, and that is silence.
often clamor for divorce, not really want to divorce, but hope you can persuade her; when you want to break up, you have to send a large paragraph to tell the other party, often not really want to break up, just want to Tell the other person, I am angry, you come to coax me.
The true departure is often silent, without quarreling or entanglement.
It’s better to be a long-term joy at first sight.
Love needs to be managed carefully. Not only must the other party’s efforts be seen in the eyes and in the heart, but also in practical actions.
Any relationship will encounter difficulties. Only by active action, more thoughts, and active communication can we step through the hurdles and protect the happiness full of fireworks.
So when a girl shows these two attitudes, it means that she is tired of you. If a boy wants to maintain this relationship or marriage at this time, he must reflect on his mistakes and correct them sincerely. Maybe there is still a chance. , Don’t wait until you really lose it before you know you regret it.
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