After 9 years of marriage, I realized that I am a picker! My wife married a big green hat and married me. I have been wearing it for 9 years.
I found that after this cut, there was no big noise! You did not expect my revenge.
"Are you sleeping? Today Wednesday!" I put down my phone at 11:30 at night and asked sideways.
"Hmm!" His wife tapped as a response.
I know my wife this is a tacit approval. My wife and I mutually agreed on every three days, which is a romantic moment for our husband and wife. In the eyes of outsiders, I am a good husband who works hard to earn money, and my wife is a virtuous wife who is hardworking and thrifty. In fact, my wife and I have long been strangers, only for the sake of my son, I barely managed to maintain this family. It can be said: "The relationship between husband and wife is over, and it is all dependent on my baby." Because I don't think she is my wife for a long time, she is just my tool person.
I am welder Jiang Jie. I was born in a small county town on the bank of the Huai River. There are three brothers. I am the second child of a poor family. After graduating from high school, I didn’t go to university, and I followed my uncle to work in the shipyard on the bank of the Huai River. At the beginning, I didn’t know anything. I could only start as an apprentice. The apprenticeship was sad and tired. , In order to deeply appreciate it.
In the end, I can't make a lot of money. Because his family was poor and he did physical work in the shipyard, he was still unmarried at the age of 26 and became an older youth in people's mouth. But my parents were so anxious that they asked people everywhere to introduce me to someone.
Later, my aunt introduced me to a girl from her village who was the youngest daughter of their village party secretary. When I heard that, there were 10,000 daughters who didn't want to go. How could the daughter of a village cadre fall in love with me, a poor boy, and it would be a shame to go on a blind date.
Mom insisted on persuading me to go, saying that my aunt had told the wife that she would be unhappy if she didn't go, and her aunt would also be ugly.
The woman’s family background is second to none in the countryside and she looks outstanding. I am very shy and inferior, so I didn't dare to look at her too much. After that, I thought to myself that it must be no show, so I went to work in the shipyard. However, I never expected that the woman actually agreed and accepted the meeting gift from my parents.
When my mother called me at the time, I jumped up with excitement. The wedding was done hurriedly, but fortunately, my parents-in-law didn’t ask for more gifts, but they also married a lot of things. At that time, I thought in my heart that it is the cadre's family background, that is, the consciousness is high and the realm is high.
Later, I heard rumors that my wife Yang Moujuan had gone to school and talked with a boyfriend and was a college student.
I have doubts in my heart,Just ask auntie. My aunt did not hide: "Don’t listen to other people’s nonsense. She talked about her boyfriend, but she graduated from college and married a college classmate, so she doesn’t want her anymore. Your wife is a little irritated, and her family is afraid that she can’t think about it, so she is so anxious. Marry her. Otherwise, you can pick up the bargain with your kid! You have found the treasure! Don't laugh secretly!" I think it's the same reason.
From the day of my wedding, I secretly swear that I will cherish my wife in this life. It didn't take long for his wife to become pregnant, and the family felt more happy.
One day I was welding steel plates with my master, and my mother-in-law called and said that my wife had accidentally fallen down at her mother’s house and was about to give birth prematurely. She is now in the hospital. The shipyard was not far from the county hospital. By the time I arrived, the production had already ended. Fortunately, both mother and child were safe. Holding the big fat boy in my arms, I was immersed in the joy of being a new father, and tears came out of my excitement.
Whenever I am exhausted, thinking of my wife and son at home, all my sufferings have disappeared. No matter how hard I am, I don’t feel tired.
Two years later, my wife gave birth to a daughter, and I was promoted to a welder, and my monthly salary grew to more than 7000 yuan. Although not a lot, I I only left 800 yuan for living expenses, and then I called my wife the rest of the money, and let her freely arrange the life of the family.
I also deliberately browse some on my phone when I am free.Knowledge about getting along with husband and wife. Knowing that husbands and wives not only live together, but also need to have emotional exchanges. After I usually get off work, even if I'm tired, I will spare some time to call my wife and ask for warmth.
I don’t usually go home, and everything in the house is controlled by my wife, which is very unfair to my wife. I always feel that I owe my wife too much. Even if I don't earn much each month, as long as my wife has any requirements, I will try my best to satisfy her. Although it is very low-level and simple, this is how I love her.
Until one day, the shipyard had been off for ten days due to the flood season, and I suddenly went home, only to realize that over the past ten years, I had become a big joke.
I usually go back at a fixed time at the end of the month. I wanted to take this opportunity to go back and give her a surprise, so I didn't call in advance. When I suddenly appeared in front of my wife, not only was she not pleasantly surprised, she complained about why I didn't make a call in advance. There was a hint of panic in my eyes, and I had a very bad premonition at the time.
In the afternoon, I excused that my cell phone was out of power and wanted to use her cell phone to play games for a while. She refused to show it to me because it would affect the child's study. But in the evening, I suddenly gave me my phone, and I took the opportunity to look through his call logs, text messages, and WeChat. It was very clean, and I should delete everything that should be deleted.
I slapped coldly in my heart: "There is no silver three hundred taels here!".My wife's desire to cover up has deepened my suspicions.
After dinner, when I went out to take out the rubbish, it was probably because of the strength of my workmanship and practice that I picked up the rubbish bag and threw it to the rubbish pile too hard, and the rubbish bag broke. , The rubbish spilled out, among them the family planning supplies used before. Is this still a question? I was wearing a green hat, and my wife was 100% cheated. Because for a long time, my wife and I have been together for a long time, in safe times, and have never used this kind of thing.
To tell the truth, my heart was very angry, and I wanted to ask my wife to ask clearly, and I wanted to beat her up. Then I had a divorce with her in a stormy divorce. From then on, she would not let her see the child again, and retaliate against her, which made her lose face and made her feel unhappy for the rest of her life.
I smoked quietly outside for a long time, and I came home very late. My wife complained about how I threw a garbage out for so long. I could only prevaricate her by saying that I wanted to smoke, because I was afraid of affecting my children, so I hid outside to smoke.
In the early morning, I went through the ten years of my life like a movie in my mind, frame by frame.
Suddenly, my back spine felt cold. Maybe my green hat was already on before I got married.
I said to my wife the next day,Take advantage of the holiday to take the children to the big city for fun, and let the wife take care of the house by herself. Seeing my wife readily agree, my heart is cool and breathable. Sure enough, it was the one behind the scenes, and he agreed without thinking about it.
I quietly took my son and daughter to a paternity test center for a test. The results showed that my son was not my own. In retrospect, my wife should have been pregnant at the time, and she was anxious to find someone to take over, so she would marry me.
When I rushed to want a divorce, I thought about it for so many years and gave willingly. In the end, I just got a joke. But then I thought about it, wouldn't it be too cheap for her? Because once I do this, I will also be injured. What would the people in our village think of me, so that they would not sympathize with me because of my miserable experience! They would just get together and treat me as a myth, to amuse me! What should I do if my parents are sick? What will happen to the child? Even though the son is not my own, but after all, I have given him so many years of affection and hard work.
I decided to take revenge on my wife! I pretend not to know that he cheated. What should she do and what else should I do, I will never go to divorce with her, for the rest of my life, I will only use her as a tool person.
I only give my wife a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, and I save the rest of the salary by myself, and I never buy this or that for my wife.
His wife is very dissatisfied and often says that she has no new clothes to wear.For this reason, I even had a few fights with me, and I just said: "No money!". Gradually, I stopped making trouble with me, but I didn't see her lack of money to spend. I knew that it was another man who was spending her money. It doesn't matter if you use her as a tool person anyway, love someone!
To tell the truth these years, I have been working outside to earn money. My wife takes care of it both inside and outside the house. My parents and children have not been delayed. She has worked very hard. But I don't appreciate it at all. Deep down in my heart, she is no longer my wife.
To put it bluntly, she is now a complete tool man, because the family cannot do without her, she is still useful now.
occasionally feel uneasy inside, but when she thinks of what she has done, she should be punished and redeemed for it. This kind of revenge is far more than arguing with her and getting divorced. Much stronger.
I am now comfortable with this state of life, and there is nothing except to feel pitiful in the dead of night!
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