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01 recently got cheated from her husband for more than a dozen years, and she has received help from a third visitor. After more than ten years of relationship, she has been tortured.
The husband refused to divorce, and he did not want to cut off contact with the third party. She snot and tearfully asked:
"Why did he stay with the third party for so many years? At that time I thought they were just having fun, so I chose to open one eye and close one eye. As a result, they entangled like this for more than ten years..."
Although most of the extramarital affairs are short-lived, they will go away with the passion. End, but in fact, there are still extramarital affairs that have lasted for more than ten years or even decades.
This situation is actually very strange. In our thinking, if a man has such affection for a third party and spends a lot of time, then he can divorce and marry the third party. What kind of man will maintain long-term contact with the third party?
Weiqing Marriage Counselor summarized the past cases and summarized the following points:
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14 Mr. Qi is a successful man,The environment of his native family was not very good. His parents divorced when he was very young. His mother left him behind and he was raised by his grandparents. After graduating from university, he followed the wishes of his grandparents and quickly got married.
He always believes that as long as you love each other, it doesn't matter what the relationship between the two people is. Many times, Mr. Qi feels that marriage is not a harbor, but a bondage, which restricts his life and restricts his footsteps to the distance.
Therefore, Mr. Qi chose to stay away from his family and applied to work in other places. Mr. Qi has been with his lover for six years. He said: "The lover knows that I will not divorce, and the wife knows that I will not divorce. The three of us are living well now."
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Second, I am sincere to my lover
Mr. Yan is a teacher, he has been very obedient to his parents since he was a child. After graduating from college, he returned to his hometown to be a teacher and married his wife. , A line at three o'clock every day. He always leads a step-by-step life, fulfilling, but it seems that something is missing.
Until Mr. Yan met his lover, it was a young and lively woman. After a period of contact, the two were attracted to each other. In the beginning, Mr. Yan wanted to divorce and marry a lover very much, but his parents disagreed, and his wife had done nothing wrong with the family for many years.
In the end, Mr. Yan turned his extramarital affairs into the underground, which lasted for six years. In the end, the third party couldn't stand the feeling of not having a future, and chose to take the initiative to leave.
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Third, threesome
Mr. Liu Snack is the owner of a dozen or so restaurantsHis wife took care of the children in her hometown and maintained a relationship with her lover for five years.
At first, he just had a playful mood, but he did not expect to get deeper and deeper in this relationship, and even felt that his relationship with his lover was deeper than marriage.
On the one hand, Mr. Liu is reluctant to run his own marriage for many years, nor does he want to affect his position in the hearts of his children, on the other hand, Mr. Liu is reluctant to be separated from his lover.
In the end, Mr. Liu chose to maintain the three-person marriage carefully.
Mr. Liu said: "Hey, the three people look happy, but they are actually very stressed. I really don't know how long I can hold on."
Message from the Weiqing Marriage Consultant:
Regardless of the last resort, as long as a man maintains a long-term relationship with a third party, it means that he must be an unclear and extremely selfish man.
Fish and bear's paw can not have both.
No matter which woman, she can't stand the passing of time.
I hope that the original wife who is caught in this kind of relationship can bravely guard her marriage, and if necessary, she can seek professional help in time to persuade the third party to save the marriage.
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