I often hear from many girls that the atmosphere of this era is getting worse and worse, and there are almost no good men. Many boys only play with women when they fall in love.
So I often reflect on this question myself: Why are there fewer and fewer good men in this world? may also have something to do with the environment of the times we live in. Everyone's material standard of living has been improved, and there is no need to worry about food or clothing.
But as the saying goes, "satisfying lust", coupled with the temptation of this colorful world, people have animal desires, especially men who are lured by beauties, it is easy to be unable to control themselves and make I'm sorry about my own woman.
But at the same time, I feel that perhaps due to the influence of the times, reliable men have indeed become rare treasures in our carnal society, but it does not mean that they are not there.
In fact, everything is opposite. Since there are bad people in society, there will also be good people. Similarly, if there are bad men, there will be good men around us.
What kind of man is a good man? This requires us women to distinguish themselves. A man has these three characteristics, which shows that he is very "reliable" and is worthy of being entrusted by a woman for life.
01. Will solve the problem after quarrel
Men and women dating, even couples who have a good personality, in fact, after a long time together, it is inevitable that they will encounter disagreements and even disputes. When quarreling.
Quarrel is sometimes very emotional, but it is really unavoidable. It’s just that some couples may be noisier,On the contrary, the better the relationship, which mainly depends on the attitude of the man and the woman after a quarrel.
Because most girls are soft-hearted, even if the quarrel is very serious, as long as the boys can put their faces down and take the initiative to coax the girls to reconcile, the girls will forgive the boys and let them go.
In fact, this kind of boy still really likes girls. Of course, a more reliable boy is not as simple as making girls happy after a fight. He will also solve the problems of the two.
After all, he really wants to have a future with girls, so he doesn't want the problems between them to affect their relationship. At the same time, he doesn't want girls to have any feelings about him because of this problem, or even let it become a cause that will cause them to break up. fuse.
02. Whatever you promise you will be done
Some men say it nicely, but they won’t do anything for you, promise your things, or promise you , Almost rarely did it, including what he said to you, seemed to be a play, never serious.
This kind of boy is definitely unreliable, he doesn't love you, he may just want to take advantage of you, or just want to play with you, so he is not willing to pay for you.
The boys who really want to live with you have obvious differences in their attitudes towards you. He will be more concerned about you. He will remember what you have said, and he will do what he promises you.
03. Boys who respect women are very reliable
People get along with people, including lovers. Respect is very important. Because only when we give each other enough respect can we show that two people are evenly matched in this relationship. No one between you and me looks down on each other, so that the mentality of the two people will not be out of balance, and the relationship is healthy.
It is a pity that many boys have machismo thoughts. They have a lot of prejudice against girls. They think that as a girl, you should have a husband and a child at home. After all, these boys treat women as their own private property.She did not fully respect the girl’s right as a human being, and allowed this girl to have her own independent thoughts and pursuits.
Therefore, when you meet a boy, he thinks you are free, you have your own pursuit, the career you want to do, he also supports you instead of attacking you, despising you, thinking you are a weak woman, You can't do anything.
In other aspects of life, boys will also listen to your thoughts patiently and treat you as a person. They will not discriminate against you just because you are a girl. They can communicate with you on an equal footing and allow you to be with him. Different ideas, when you express a good point of view, you agree with you, if you do not speak well, you will be respected, which shows that he is reliable.
It is said that marriage is the second reincarnation of a woman. There is some truth to this sentence. After all, a good marriage makes a tiger even more powerful, but a bad marriage makes people worse.
This is especially true for women, because women are weak in marriage. So before you get married, keep your eyes open and remember, men have these three characteristics that I said, they can be reliable, and they are worth your lifetime .
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