What is a middle-aged couple: As the name implies, between 35-45 years old
What is asexual marriage: As the name implies, those who have sex for more than one month
A blockquote12 "blockquote p0 The increase in the number of times, the sexual maturity blooms slowly like a flower. The sexually mature flower of a man has already bloomed for the first time, and as the number of A-doing increases, the sexual pleasure becomes less and less. This is the couple. A big irreconcilable problem in sexual relations"-from the author Junichi Watanabe's book "The Husband" 
The famous Japanese love master-Watanabe Junichi
Only get close to her husband nine times..."In Lili, where a man can be described as a white woman, we should discuss the influence on the premise of excluding Lili’s husband’s physical defects and suspicion of extramarital infidelity. Unfavorable factors for the sexual well-being of middle-aged couples emerge endlessly
"Why do middle-aged couples have asexual marriages? 》
Disadvantage one: From middle age, most men are full of energy at work and are the busiest and busiest period. Therefore, they spend more time at work every day. At this time, women have children at this age, and they are very busy caring for and educating children, and some women have to take care of the family while working, which can be described as physically and mentally exhausted. In this case, the husband is exhausted to work, and the wife is exhausted to raise children, and the couple's sex life becomes natural.
Lan Lan confided: Since I have a child, I have truly experienced being a mother. I am cautious in the workplace during the day, and go home to wash and cook and take care of the children at night.When everything is in place, you are already exhausted physically and mentally and just want to fall asleep, so there is no energy to wait for a man.
is on the kitchen under the hall, a tired woman
Disadvantage two: We have to admit that the first reason for men to marry is to "get stable love with them." Relationship female . And male from newlyweds, the husband is like a child who finally gets the toy that he has longed for and can play with at will, and he spends his time with his wife, but this freshness is transformed with the affectionate daily life , The passion reaches its peak and then slowly fades. "Men love because of sex, women love because of love" , I have to admit that men all want to have polygamy. Men are different from women on different occasions. The way the relationship takes place brings different pleasures to men.
A Wei confided: When I first met my wife, I wanted it every day. It’s really not like every three autumns. With the daily intimacy, I feel the need for this. Not so rare
Disadvantage three: It is said that men have forty-one flowers and women have forty-forty tofu. If this sentence is used as a metaphor for career, it can barely make do, if it is used Sex and physical strength should be the cart before the horse. Although men in their thirties will not show obvious aging in appearance, their basic physical strength is undoubtedly decreased. This can be seen from the habit of middle-aged men who can’t stay up late and like to walk slowly. In the same way, the stamina in this area has also diminished a lot. But on the contrary, women’s ability in this area has reached its peak at this age. This asymmetrical overwhelming development law,It will make men feel that they have lost their masculinity, and will gradually reject them.
Juanjuan confided: At our age, it is not uncommon to call it in native dialect. It is men who develop us, and it is also men who retreat. My husband is always stubborn. In the end, I realized that in order to be afraid of losing face in front of me, he was physically fit recently. The same, it should be ED.
The middle-aged man does not delay his family career, and his physical strength is significantly reduced.
Disadvantage four: Only the so-called German and artistic double xin will be respected, and the husband and wife relationship will have both physical strength and skill. Liked by others. It is impossible to expect every male (female) to have superb sexual skills. For one of them, the sexual skills are too poor, and over time the other will have a sense of contempt and disgust for sexual behavior.
A Bin confided: Every time I get close to my wife, she always has an expression, as if I am completing the task step by step. I can't see the ecstasy like the heroine in the adult movie. I have always wondered whether it is me. No or she can't
Disadvantage Five: The influence factors of the external environment should not be underestimated.
For example: often in the same place, at the same place, at the same time, doing the same thing often does not make people feel very excited. It can also cause emotional changes and become disgusted with each other
Marriage is like a marathon,Some people pulled it down, some insisted on running to the end. When you see others admiring old couples and wives at dusk, you might as well settle your mind.
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