"Wife and children hot on the bed" is the simplest and most intuitive concept of family in China.
Compared with women, men do not have high demands on family, as long as they have a virtuous and capable wife, a smart and lovely child, a family reunion, and harmony, even if life is a little bit harder, a man is a man. It doesn't matter.
A man can accept life’s poverty, can accept life’s setbacks, but cannot accept his wife’s betrayal. If the child is not his own, this is tantamount to sprinkling salt on his wounds.
Liu Yongchao is such a poor man. He discovered that his daughter who had been raised for 4 years was not his own. He burst into tears on the spot. His wife said: I just went out to vent once, and I always thought the child was yours!
Liu Yongchao had a failed marriage. He and his ex-wife had no children. He is a migrant worker in the city. He does not earn much money and has no skills, but he has never given up his pursuit of a better life. He hopes to start a new family and have lovely children.
He was introduced to Chen Qian 5 years ago. Chen Qian is outgoing, talkative, and loves making friends. She works in a foot bath shop and deals with many men every day. She has a good relationship with the opposite sex.
At that time, Chen Qian was divorced for more than a year. She was very beautiful and had good family conditions. She had seen many blind dates, and she couldn't admire them all. The family urged him tightly. She felt that Liu Yongchao was honest and reliable, and she reluctantly agreed to marry Liu Yongchao.
Liu Yongchao was naturally very happy to marry a wife like Chen Qian. When he got married, Chen Qian's parents bought a house with 280,000 yuan. Only Chen Qian's name was on the real estate certificate. Liu Yongchao understood this.
After getting married, Chen Qian's parents paid for a fish pond to support Liu Yongchao's entrepreneurship. Liu Yongchao raised fish and planted lotus root, but they didn't make any money. Chen Qian often complained that Liu Yongchao was incapable. Liu Yongchao knew that he was wrong, so he could only swallow his anger.
Later he found a stable job. He left early and returned to work at night, and every month he handed over his salary to Chen Qian.That's not a big deal. He took the initiative to take on all the housework. He felt that only by doing so could he make his wife happy and make his life more comfortable.
Liu Yongchao is not bad to Chen Qian, but what did Chen Qian do? She enjoys Liu Yongchao's various good things with peace of mind. When she is fine, she ran out to play mahjong and talk braggingly with her neighbors. She spends a lot of money and likes to show off in front of her friends. What she did made Liu Yongchao disgusted.
They often quarrel about these things, and the relationship between husband and wife gets worse and worse. Fortunately, a year later, Chen Qian gave birth to a daughter. Liu Yongchao put most of his energy on her daughter. Their conflicts were resolved a lot because of her daughter's birth.
In order to provide a better life for his children, Liu Yongchao uses his spare time to deliver food. Sometimes he works fifteen or six hours a day, and it is already late at night when he finishes work. It is not convenient for him to go home. He rents a simple rental house. As long as he can live a good life for his wife and children, he feels that no matter how hard it is, no matter how tired it is, it is worth it.
During this period, Chen Qian did not constrain. She mingled with Hupengou friends as usual, and quarreled with Liu Yongchao as usual. Their marriage lasted for 5 years in the quarrel.
They had a big fight at the end of last year. During the quarrel, Chen Qian said this: "Daughter is not your own flesh and blood!"
Liu Yongchao cares most about children, he only has his 40s. After the daughter, he poured all the love into his daughter. Chen Qian's words greatly stimulated his sensitive and fragile nerves. He went to do a paternity test suspiciously, but he was shocked.
The report shows that his daughter is indeed not related to him. Faced with this fact, he ran in tears on the spot. He took the appraisal report and went to Chen Qian for theory.
Chen Qian insisted that her daughter's father was Liu Yongchao, and she also threatened that all this was Liu Yongchao's conspiracy. She said Liu Yongchao didn't want to raise the child, and he deliberately used a fake appraisal report to slander her. She said: "No matter what the identification result is, you broke my heart by doing this!"
She also vowed to curse her daughter must be Liu Yongchao,Otherwise, she would be hit by a car when she went out. She speaks swearingly, but the appraisal report is clearly written, this is a fact that her red mouth and white teeth cannot obliterate.
Chen Qian refused to apologize but took a bite back. Liu Yongchao was completely irritated by her. He asked Chen Qian: "You used to be ambiguous with several men, and I won't pursue the past. That time you asked your daughter to call a man. 'Dad', is that man her biological father?"
Chen Qian denies that she insists that her daughter's biological father is Liu Yongchao, and while crying, she scolds Liu Yongchao for being ruthless. .
When things got so messed up, it suddenly fell into a deadlock. Under the coordination of reporters, Chen Qian told the truth.
After they got married, Chen Qian always felt that Liu Yongchao was not worthy of her. She said that Liu Yongchao didn't give her money and didn't care enough about her. She often interfered in her private life, and quarrels became commonplace in their lives.
After a year of marriage, they had a big fight. Chen Qian was depressed. She went out to vent once. She thought it was okay. She didn't expect her behavior to be pregnant with each other's child.
She said: "I always thought that the child's Liu Yongchao, if he did not do the paternity test, I would not know that the child is someone else's."
She described herself as innocent, her The argument is clearly untenable. If she didn't know, why would she say "the daughter is not your own" in the quarrel? If she doesn't know how can she let her daughter call another man "Dad"? This shows that not only did she know her daughter's life experience for a long time, it is likely that she has been in contact with that man.
Things have come to the ground. Chen Qian has indeed done things that I am sorry for Liu Yongchao, and his daughter is not Liu Yongchao's flesh and blood. Liu Yongchao cannot accept Chen Qian's betrayal, and he insists on getting a divorce.
All the money he has earned in the five years of marriage is given to Chen Qian, and he wants to claim this money back. He asked Chen Qian for compensation of 500,000 yuan, and he had to fight for half of the property. Chen Qian firmly disagreed, they did not reach a consensus on this issue.
Liu Yongchao has completely given up on Chen Qian,But he still couldn't let go of the child. He has no blood relationship with his children. After all, he has raised the children for 4 years, and he has developed a deep affection for the children. If they really divorce, Liu Yongchao will be the most reluctant to let go of the children. How will he get along with the child in the future? Does he want to keep in touch with the child? These are all issues he has to consider.
The marriage of Liu Yongchao and Chen Qian is so embarrassing. In this relationship, Liu Yongchao is a disadvantaged group. He strives to earn money, maintains family stability, and strives to win Chen Qian’s favor. Not only is Qian not appreciative, she is always awkward, and the relationship between her husband and wife is very stiff.
She obviously has a husband and a family, and she is ambiguous with other men. She also finds reasons to go out for fun and become pregnant with other men's children. What's even more exaggerated is that she was clever and wanted Liu Yongchao to always raise her child as her own daughter. Her wishful thinking was wrong. Now the truth is clear and everything has come to light. She has to pay for her mistakes.
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