Psychologists believe that:
"A person must have three factors of high IQ, high EQ and high frustration quotient for successful career."
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The ability to resist frustration.
There are often people in life who will give up when they encounter a little setback.
Writer Yu Hua also said:
, there are very few outstanding people in China.
In fact, this is because the frustration quotient is too low.
People with low frustration quotient, encounter setbacks, haven't tried, so they are ready to give up.
People with high frustrations understand that no matter how difficult things are, there must be a way to solve them.
Life is alive, and no one can live a life of ups and downs.
Unsatisfactory things in life, nine out of ten.
The quality of life depends on the person's frustration quotient.
The famous American scholar Paul Stotts believes:
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People with low frustration quotient have the opposite.
They are in life,I often say: "I can't do anything, I'm not as capable, I tried it."
Some criticism and frustration can make them runaway and despair.
Travel writer Kerouac once shared his story:
5 p5p , I was in a bad mood and started to lose my temper when I got home.
When his mother told him to eat, he scolded his mother, and his father gave him juice. He also made a fire. The puppy at home ran over and rubbed his calf. Kicked away and kicked the puppy onto the balcony, but accidentally fell off and died. Kairouac suddenly cried dimly.
This dog is his beloved dog for 3 years.
Dad touched Kerouac’s head and said softly:
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Later Kerouac wrote in the book " on the Road":
I have to control the consequences of certain things. I can't ruin all of my life just because one thing is bad. "
We also can’t let one bad thing ruin other good things and our lives.
is famous for social psychology. : "10% of life is made up of what happened to you, and the other 90% is determined by how you react to what happened.
We cannot control the 10% in the front, but we can grasp the 90% in the back.
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We can choose the life attitude of high frustration quotient, and we can enjoy the scenery on the roadside even if it is full of wind and rain.
Zhao Erdai said in "The Journey of Life":
"On the journey of life,There is Yangguan Avenue, and there is also a small wooden bridge.
Only an immersive person can experience it with his temperament.
When facing oneself, only accept, but cannot escape. "
Life ups and downs, everyone’s life is not satisfactory, but there is always someone who can live out their own splendor.
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Konosuke Matsushita said:
People who have passed the test of adversity only have precious opportunities to temper the environment. Can be regarded as the real strong.
Since ancient times, most of the great men have struggled from adversity with an indomitable spirit.
Highly inverse quotients can clearly recognize the causes of adversity and are willing to take all responsibilities, can take effective actions in time, learn from the pain, and climb up again where they fall.
Kazuo Inamori once shared an experience of his own in the book.
Kyocera manufactures and provides artificial knee joints for medical purposes without obtaining a license.
This incident was widely reported by the media, and Kyocera has launched a fierce criticism.
In front of Kyocera’s headquarters, there were rows of cameras in front of Kyocera’s headquarters for several days, and footage of him bowing his head apologized was repeatedly shown on TV.
, exhausted physically and mentally, he went to the mage to ask for guidance.
Master made the tea as usual and listened carefully to Kazuo Inamori.
Then he said to Kazuo Inamori:
"Very good, when the disaster strikes, it is when the karma that was created in the past disappeared. Karma can be eliminated, so we have to celebrate."
Kazuo Inamori thought he would be comforted by the master,Unexpectedly, the Master would say so.
He chewed this passage carefully and suddenly understood a truth.
There are no people who have never encountered disasters alive, and disasters will strike in unexpected forms at unexpected times.
At this time, you can't fall into depression or fall into the abyss of despair.
Faced with a difficult situation, instead of complaining about loss, it is better to try to solve the problem.
A true wise man can accept all the sufferings of life calmly.
Luo Zhenyu in " wonderful to say " said:
"grow what you subjectively The gap between the world encounters the objective world,You fell in, called frustration, climbed out, called growth.
A person who is a good inverse quotient, he will cheer himself up in the face of setbacks: Although it is difficult, there must be a way.
_spanspan_spanspan_spanspan1 This sentence:"A person is like a machine, and the handicapped is like some parts damaged. The whole machine cannot be destroyed because of this. The usable parts are still of great value. "
Life is always under the mud and sand, sometimes heavy rain and wind, sometimes sunny.
When she was 5 years old, she suffered from high paraplegia due to spinal hemangioma , and she was accompanied by a wheelchair throughout her life. After 3 major operations, 6 vertebral plates were removed, and finally high paraplegia.
Active age,But I can only lie in bed all day long.
She missed the campus, but she taught herself college English, Japanese, and German, and studied university and postgraduate courses.
On the hospital bed, she can only use the mirror reflection to read a book.
In 1983, she began to engage in literary creation. She has translated hundreds of thousands of words in English novels and edited books such as "Questions of Life", " Dreams in a Wheelchair ".
She is Zhang Haidi.
Zhang Haidi said in her article:
"I don’t let myself become weird and rebellious because of the sickness. No one else.
In fact, no one knows what troubles or misfortunes will be encountered. It is like going out and encountering a big mountain. You can't complain, but you can only find a way to turn over.
Facing difficulties, complaining It’s the weakest language. I’m sad but never despairing. I can live hard days and good ones.
I make myself bold and straightforward,I never care what others think of me, but I will torture myself to make myself upright, decent and majestic. "
God gave her a bad hand, but she achieved the best result with her own efforts.
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To live wholeheartedly.
When we can face setbacks with a smile, it is the most beautiful scenery in life.
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"When is struggling with , it can be unwavering. This is the extraordinary thing about a truly admirable person. "
Although many people in this world tell us of the beautiful scenery in the distance, no one can take us on the night road.
br11ppan_span ,Without fear of setbacks, the heart is at ease.
May we all have high inverse quotients, even if we move forward with a heavy load, we can lift the weight lightly, and there will always be the wind in front of us.
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