Sincere treatment of each other in marriage has become a responsibility. However, not everyone can adhere to principles and guard the family. Some people cannot withstand outside inducements to make extraordinary things, "Gender Psychology" ": Men can't forgive women for physical cheating, women can't forgive men for mental cheating. Men pay more attention to the exclusivity of the woman's body, and women pay more attention to the possession of the man's soul. Women can accept men with stories, and men generally don't like women with stories. Whenever you really fall in love with someone, you will suffer from emotional cleanliness, and you will not be able to bear the slightest emotional uncleanness of the other person, whether physically or mentally.
01 The better a man is to a woman, the more likely a woman is to cheat.
The better a man treats a woman, the more likely this woman is to cheat, just use the examples around me to bargain!
Wang Ming is a really honest boy. In addition to working hard every day, he talked about a girlfriend some time ago. The other party was fair and beautiful, with a voluptuous body. For this reason, Wang Ming treated her like a jewel in his hand.
She is reluctant to do housework every day, no matter whether it is at home or outside, he takes care of it alone, while the woman is in the house. At first, the relationship between the two is sweet and separated like a magnet.
But after a long time, Wang Ming found that his girlfriend seemed unacceptable to his own attitude. Either he was emotionally fluctuating, or he was picky.
One day, he discovered that a woman was entangled with other men. The two were hugging and kissing in the park. When Wang Ming questioned her, she said: "It's just a simple hug, fuss, and careful man!"
was originally someone else If you make a mistake, you will be taught a lesson. This is the tactic that some women are accustomed to.
These women, enjoying the warmth of their boyfriends, but leaving their affection to others,It's so sad!
02 The physical derailment is serious, and the mental derailment is also uncomfortable!
Ms. Ji has been married to her husband for more than 10 years, but since having children, the relationship between husband and wife has declined extremely. From the flirtatiousness at the beginning to the current widowhood marriage, she feels the life of walking dead .
She and her husband have no feelings for a long time, for the sake of the family and children, she had to make do with it slowly!
In her heart, other men have been stationed for a long time, and even when she had sex with her, she was thinking of other people. This feeling can only be understood by people who have experienced it.
Physical derailment is only temporary, but mental derailment is a long-term mental annihilation, which consumes oneself and is also a torture to oneself.
The feelings that are barely together are like castles in the air, just empty shelves. Derailment is a kind of ignorance and selfishness. Noble sentiment comes from strong self-discipline. Any derailment is only a reality after spiritual sustenance !
03 Women are in need of cheating and men cheating are fresh
I love the writer "Lu Qi" and his book "Writing Span 80span 81" "Men get married because the women they meet are so good, and men cheat because the women they meet are too fresh. ”
There is a middle-aged woman in our village who works outside and has lived with other men for more than a year. The lover sent a photo of them to his husband,For this reason, it was disturbed.
Most women cheat for two reasons: One, material satisfaction , has not been released from vanity at home, after going out, other men give money to cater to her heart at this time. Secondly, is the spiritual satisfaction , physical needs, separation from her husband, or emotional disagreement, which leads to cheating outside to find a lover, etc.!
A man cheating is just the opposite. A man actually has a steelyard in his heart. As the saying goes: " men are animals that think in the lower body ," cheating is only the freshness of him. Afterwards, I found out that the wife of the family is the wife of the chaff. My lifelong partner, is this kind of behavior excessive?
In fact, regardless of whether a man or a woman cheats, it is a kind of venting of selfish desire, and the essence is that it is not good for oneself!
Whether it is a mental derailment or a physical derailment, it will cause fatal blows and injuries to the family. In the face of various unhappy marriages, you can choose to divorce or face it without being depressed. For yourself, life is short and live for yourself, but you must learn to think for others. I really like what Li Gongjun said: "Crazy thinking is not a woman's patent, and having an affair is not a man's privilege." In fact, as a normal family, cheating is a shameful behavior and is not worth promoting. Cleanliness is the self-protection. The best way!
What do you think about this?
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