Actually, the reality I want to talk about is that most girls in
end up marrying mediocre honest people.
There are many girls who get married early as well.
Because, in this world, there are always only a few good people.
Let's take a look, what kind of men do most girls (not just older leftover girls) like?
Through a lot of observation, I found that
they don't want boys to be rich, but at least they must have a certain economic foundation, so that their lives can be guaranteed;
They also don't want boys to look good, but at least this guy must be clean , Dress appropriately so that they can feel;
They require boys to be able to chat and chat happily, which is a manifestation of their demand for emotional value, and they need boys to chat in the way they like , but most girls do not have the ability to provide emotional value in reverse, because it will make them feel that they are not valued and cared about;
At the same time, they also need men, mature, stable, and emotionally stable;
Getting along with men In the middle of the school, men should talk appropriately. When problems arise, men can solve problems instead of accusing and venting their emotions. This will make them feel at ease and safe, and it will also make them feel that this man is powerful and reliable.
Did not find it, I dare say that 99% of the older leftover women will like such a man.
And such men are basically the top match of ordinary women. Actually, the reality I want to talk about is that most girls in There are many girls who get married early as well. Because, in this world, there are always only a few good people. Let's take a look, what kind of men do most girls (not just older leftover girls) like? Through a lot of observation, I found that they don't want boys to be rich, but at least they must have a certain economic foundation, so that their lives can be guaranteed; They also don't want boys to look good, but at least this guy must be clean , Dress appropriately so that they can feel; They require boys to be able to chat and chat happily, which is a manifestation of their demand for emotional value, and they need boys to chat in the way they like , but most girls do not have the ability to provide emotional value in reverse, because it will make them feel that they are not valued and cared about; At the same time, they also need men, mature, stable, and emotionally stable; Getting along with men In the middle of the school, men should talk appropriately. When problems arise, men can solve problems instead of accusing and venting their emotions. This will make them feel at ease and safe, and it will also make them feel that this man is powerful and reliable. Did not find it, I dare say that 99% of the older leftover women will like such a man. And such men are basically the top match of ordinary women. In first- and second-tier cities, is married to a woman with an annual income of more than 500,000, a middle-class family, a height of 175 or more, a mature, stable, and mild-tempered business man. There are three possibilities: When a woman is married to this man, the man has no income of more than 500,000 yuan at all, and a maximum of 100,000 to 200,000 yuan. That is to say, when such a man gets married, he has no idea that his income can exceed 500,000 yuan. million. It has to be said that the women around such men, in fact, I have talked to them, and they are not rushing to this man to earn millions in the future, but rushing to this "man". For example, is a man who communicates well, respects people, is considerate and so on. Of course, these women also know how to respect and understand, don't do it, and then get married naturally. After getting married, a man's career has advanced by leaps and bounds, and he has become a perfect man in the eyes of others, but in the past, this man was not perfect, and some men even had some shortcomings, such as short height, average family background, average education and so on. And what these women thought when they got married was that even if the man didn't earn that much money in the future, he could accept it, and the man who was pictured when he got married, not the man who could earn 500,000 or one million in the future . I used to know a director of a listed company. He was 180 in height and well maintained. He only got married at the age of 38, and his wife had eaten with him three times before. , ran away as soon as he paid for the meal. This situation is left on other girls, don't think about it, it will blow up long ago,So this golden bachelor does not belong to women with poor patience and high self-esteem. This type of golden bachelor man will set up many obstacles for women in determining a relationship, and not only that, they are also very picky about women's conditions. Just think about it, if the golden bachelor is so easy to handle, why would it be left to you? Other women can't handle it, how can you handle this kind of man with ordinary methods? Think about it and know that it is impossible. When you can't stand the shortcomings of this man and other women can't stand it, you and this man will not have a future. Actually, some girls who came to me after 7 years of emotional counseling tied this man up when they were in school. At this time, Gao Fushuai has not yet entered the marriage and love market, and they have a lot of love experience. Less, will be greatly influenced by the worldly concept of love, and will not pay too much attention to the conditions, but will pay more attention to the quality of the relationship. And girls are the best age when they go to school, and the difference between girls is mostly small. At this time, it is much less difficult to bind such a man than after entering the society, but most girls of this age do not have this awareness. The three methods I mentioned above are the most common ways to get good men. However, in terms of the overall number, the vast majority of women in end up marrying mediocre and honest men. If you don’t believe me, you can take a look at If most of your classmates are still doing it Duplicate work from years ago; the neighbors at your door,Have you lived in front of your house for decades, because they have no money to buy a bigger house; Do most of your relatives still live in the same place and drive the same car; The people around you Are the vast majority of people still holding the same salary as in the past; and so on. Therefore, do not create anxiety, let alone fall into anxiety easily, keep a clear head, you can enjoy the current life, otherwise the mentality of comparison will make you lose your original happiness. end up marrying mediocre honest people.
1) An affordable man before marriage, who grew into a warm-hearted "overbearing president" after marriage.
2) Those women who can win 35+ golden bachelors are all human beings, not ordinary women can do it.
3) During school, I got this man before graduation and got married early.
The third is the easiest, the second is the hardest, and the first depends on luck.
This kind of situation is left on other girls, don't think about it, it will blow up long ago, so this kind of golden bachelor is not a woman with poor patience and high self-esteem.
This type of golden bachelor man will set up many obstacles for women in determining a relationship, and not only that, they are also very picky about women's conditions.
Just think about it, if the golden bachelor is so easy to handle, why would it be left to you?
Other women can't handle it, how can you handle this kind of man with ordinary methods? Think about it and know that it is impossible.
When you can't stand the shortcomings of this man and other women can't stand it, you and this man will not have a future.
3) During school, I got this man before graduation and got married early.
Actually, some girls who came to me after 7 years of emotional counseling tied this man up when they were in school. At this time, Gao Fushuai has not yet entered the marriage and love market, and they have a lot of love experience. Less, will be greatly influenced by the worldly concept of love, and will not pay too much attention to the conditions, but will pay more attention to the quality of the relationship.
And girls are the best age when they go to school, and the difference between girls is mostly small. At this time, it is much less difficult to bind such a man than after entering the society, but most girls of this age do not have this awareness.
The three methods I mentioned above are the most common ways to get good men.
The third is the easiest, the second is the hardest, and the first depends on luck.
However, in terms of the overall number, the vast majority of women in
end up marrying mediocre and honest men. If you don’t believe me, you can take a look at
If most of your classmates are still doing it Repeated work many years ago;
Do your neighbors live in front of your house for decades, because they have no money to buy a bigger house;
Do most of your relatives still live there In the original place, driving the original car;
Are most of the people around you still holding the same salary as in the past;
and so on.
Therefore,
do not create anxiety, let alone fall into anxiety easily, keep a clear head, you can enjoy the current life, otherwise the mentality of comparison will make you lose your original happiness.
