There is a kind of people whose life is unhappy, not because God refuses to treat them kindly, but because they have fatal flaws in their own characters.
Because of this nature, even if you have a good fate and meet a good opportunity, you will lose it and get rid of it without exception!
Therefore, they are people who cannot bring happiness to the other half around them in an absolute sense. If they encounter them, they must avoid them in time or stop their losses and leave.
In this regard, the following person has a deep feeling.
She said: "Three years after the divorce, my husband begged me to remarry. But at this time, I am glad that he divorced early!" Reasonable.
Talk to people: Ms. Tang
The biggest problem with my ex-husband is that he is arrogant and arrogant.
At least in my marriage, when I get along with me, such a trait is undoubtedly revealed.
This kind of character that has been habitually suppressing and ridiculing me has led to the fact that although there are no extramarital affairs, mistresses and other betrayal of marriage and partners, I still feel that life is still very difficult.
is really not me being sensitive and hypocritical, he has reached such a level that he is quite out of line in this regard and completely disregards my self-esteem and face!
Usually the two of us get along in private, and it’s okay to treat me like this all the time. The most unacceptable thing about
is that no matter if my best friend, friend, colleague, or my parents are present, he always scolds me if he wants; So we often quarrel.
Because of him, my public image has been greatly affected, making others dare to look down on me and make fun of me.
This really made me unbearable, and finally decided to end it with him!
At first I couldn't figure out what his purpose was.
It was only later that he almost figured out what he was thinking: it was because he believed in himself that he had some money and status, and his self-confidence was overwhelming. Not everyone would look at him outside and act in a way, and he could not stand out for no reason.
When I got home, I found a way to show my advantage by suppressing my other half!
The personality of a man like this may not be easily changed, but it would be quite uncomfortable for a woman to live with him!
Even if I still thought at the time, maybe he did this to me because he saw that I was too soft-hearted and didn't like me too much, but I didn't have the will to endure it any longer and decided to let myself be free.
Really, after leaving him, I sighed in relief, and no one bothered me for no reason or deliberately belittled me.
Since I divorced him, my mood has improved immediately.
Three years have passed, and I am still single until now.
Of course, it's not that I still have any nostalgia for him, but that I have encountered such a man once, which made me linger in fear and dare not accept other men easily, and I still need to adjust.
I didn't expect that, not long ago, when I insisted on leaving him, I was still talking about it, saying: "With a woman like you, I want to find a good man after leaving, it's just wishful thinking.It's me, looking for someone better than you is as easy as the palm of your hand! ”, but suddenly came to my house and knelt down and begged for mercy, saying that he knew he was wrong, and let me give him a chance to start over. He also experienced two extremely short marriages.
But those women all left him because of his liking to maliciously degrade the nature of the women around him. Now, he is left alone...
This is still It's not the most direct reason why he will look back to me, but the most important thing is that his career development is seriously hindered, and his fame and fortune are gone.
Maybe after thinking about it, I know that I am the only one who really loved him and endured his He had a bad temper for several years, and only after knowing my goodness, did I turn around and admit my mistake!
But I am glad that I left in time. After the divorce, his behavior and the experience of repeated setbacks in love and marriage proves that he is helpless. Therefore, I rejected him unceremoniously.
It is not because of his desperation, but because he knows that if he finds such a man, he will not be able to save himself for the rest of his life! It will show such a way of picking on their partners with an extremely harsh attitude.
Really good men, they know how to respect their wives, they can go to the society and use their abilities to prove themselves, so , will be very confident, very open-minded and generous with a kind of empathy, discovering the advantages of others, and affirming the advantages of others.
, on the contrary, is a man who has always been accustomed to nitpicking, is very cunning, poisonous, unkind, and cannot even treat the people around him favorably.
is very likely to cause endless pain to his partner, and at the same time, because of his personality, it will seriously affect his career and future development. As the saying goes: character affects fate, the truth lies in this.
The only way for a woman to meet this kind of man is to recognize the reality and seek relief as soon as possible.
You need to understand: it is not because you are not good that the other party dislikes you, but the other party does not understand your value and dares to speak out!
Since this is the case, if we make do with it, we can only get more contempt and blows. Why bother holding on to our hearts and enduring our whole life in exchange for suffering?
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