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I have been a good girl since I was a child, because my family education is very strict, no matter what occasion I am very polite, such as eating with my elders, I will help them eat, go My friend's house will take the initiative to help them, and help them take the bowl after eating. In the eyes of my classmates and friends, I am undoubtedly the type of good wife and good mother.
may be this weak and docile character, which created my yearning for domineering general carrier. Zhang Qiang is such a domineering general carrier. Although he is only the manager of a small company, his performance is a bit macho. It's as romantic as a TV show.
Usually when no one is around, he is very kind to me. He will help me pull out a chair, feed me vegetables, open bottle caps, lift heavy objects, etc. He never bothers me. It stands to reason that such a thick and strong man can be considered careful, but in front of outsiders, he is completely different. He has a good face and always likes to pretend to be a parent and ask me to face it in front of my friends. His follows 100% , even if he acts like he is.
When everyone ate together, his usual intimacy was completely gone. He just talked and laughed with others, and ordered me to help him take this and that. Although sometimes his tone and actions are a bit exaggerated and I can't stand it, but I only regard him as a child's character and love to act. Of course, he will definitely apologize to me afterwards and give me some small gifts, so I don't care about his rudeness.
02
I originally thought that marriage is only a matter of two people, and Zhang Qiang and I only need two people to live well. He loves acting. I cooperate with him in acting. Family is so difficult, if Zhang Qiang's machismo has limits, then in his family, what I feel is not this kind of tolerable macho style, but real contempt, or An unequal treatment, I did not expect that there are people who are so serious about "macho" in this era.
After dating Zhang Qiang for a while, he couldn't wait for me to visit his house and meet his parents . Before he went, he asked me to say that his parents were good-natured people and liked kind and docile girls, and he asked me to be more diligent and leave a good impression on them.
In fact, I don't need him to say that I will do the same. Before, no matter who I went to as a guest, I would take the initiative to help, not to mention seeing the man's parents.
I and Zhang Qiang returned to his hometown in the countryside. I thought that what I wanted to see was just his family, such as cousins, younger siblings, such relatives. I didn't expect that as soon as I entered the house, I saw a crowd of black people, talking about his parents. It was only after Ba Tong's introduction that they found out that they had invited all seven aunts and eight aunts, just to see my "new daughter-in-law".
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After greeting everyone, Zhang Qiang winked at me, I immediately understood what he meant, and followed his mother to the kitchen. The dishes were already prepared by them, and there were chickens, ducks and fishes all over the table. I thought it was just to give his mother a shot, but his mother looked at me and said she didn't know what I liked to eat, so she had no idea what to do. Look at the meaning, let me be the chef! Now that she has spoken, I have no choice but to roll up my sleeves and start working.
was busy from the morning to 2 o'clock in the afternoon. I was so tired that I couldn't straighten my waist, so I made a large table of dishes. When I finished the last dish and brought it to the main room in person, I found that they had already started eating. There were many empty dishes on the table. My relatives and friends were chatting loudly. When they saw me, they all praised me. Stop and say that my cooking is delicious, my hands and feet are quick, and I will be a good housekeeper in the future! He also said that Zhang Qiang has good eyesight and found such a good daughter-in-law, woman , should be looking for such, diligent sensible , know how to honor the elderly.
Zhang Qiang and his parents all looked at me and smiled. In the future, mother-in-law saw that I had been busy all day, hurriedly grabbed a bowl, ate half a bowl of rice, and took a few chopsticks and dishes and served them to me. When I saw it, there was no place for me to sit. In the future, my mother-in-law also found out. She took out two stools from the back room and sat down outside the crowd. She pulled me to sit too. She said that she wanted to eat something and then stood up and took it. You're welcome!
Although no one gave me a face this time, they were all polite, but I still felt very lost in my heart. It doesn't mean that as a "new daughter-in-law", I'm going to receive some kind of hospitality. At least they don't take what I do for granted. Zhang Qiang doesn't help me at all on this occasion. He just sits and brags, right? He is complacent about other people's compliments. He has probably forgotten. I cooperated with him just to give him face and respect him. I won't let myself be wronged just to please anyone.
On the afternoon of the same day, I went back to the city despite Zhang Qiang's insistence, and never went back to his house since then. Of course, the story of Zhang Qiang and I ended here.
Concluding remarks:
The experience of the heroine is very common, and many traditional feudal families do not like to see women.By default, men eat and drink, and women cook and cook. If you really marry this kind of man and close the door, the male lead is her husband, but once someone comes to the house, or goes out to dinner with others, then the female lead is almost a servant. Not all girls can stand such " humble ", so it makes sense for them to break off the marriage.
In fact, the heroine does not need to cooperate so much at the beginning, even if she gives the face to the other party, it should be enough. For example, when you find that the other party is just using yourself as a tool, there is no need to lower your eyebrows and listen to your ears. If you turn yourself into a soft persimmon, more people will pinch you.
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