Throughout the ages, love seems to be a topic that will never be outdated. For human beings, they hope that love will be eternal. In the vast sea of people, if you glimpse that person, your heart will be stable since then.
likes a poem very much: "As soon as the golden wind and jade dew meet, you will win, but there are countless people in the world."
When a person encounters and really loves , he must not be indifferent, because the instinct of love will make him change obviously.
, especially women , when they encounter true love, it is very obvious. After all, women are born with delicate emotions, and they are prone to sentimentality.
So some women have doubts, why is he not cold to me? Why can't he make a change for me? Does he not love me at all?
In fact, while women have these doubts, they are not sure whether the love is real or not, because a man completely emotional , there will be obvious changes, and this change must be able to make the other party perceived.
1: Become unconsciously gentle
Many women like gentle men, but men's natural thick linesIt is often difficult for women to feel gentle. However, when a man meets the person who really makes his heart move, he will definitely become subconsciously gentle.
The rich genius Zhu Shenghao is the high-cold literati in everyone's eyes, born in a rich family, but is a diligent and intelligent genius, plus not good at talking with others, so Zhu Shenghao makes people feel very bad Get along, even if many girls love and for him, they dare not express it.
is such a cold-hearted man, but he treats the woman Song Qingru differently. When his eyes are timely, the tenderness in his eyes makes people envious. It turns out that this genius knows gentleness, but it just depends on who he is.
is like this. When a man is completely moved from the bottom of his heart, he must be willing to be gentle with this woman, because he is afraid that will wrong , and that he will not give his full love to a woman.
, like Song Qingru, seems to be a weakness given to Zhu Shenghao by God. He can be tough with outsiders, but not with her, he just wants to give her all the tenderness.
Gentleness is the expression of a man who loves a woman so much that even because of this tenderness, he feels that the world has become more beautiful and lovely.
2: Become afraid of losing
Some women in love may feel wronged: "Why does he seem to care so much about me? Isn't he afraid of losing me at all?"
It is true that some men are always the "fearless" "Attitude, even in the face of women's crying, they are not moved, they feel that love is just optional, even if it is lost, it is nothing.
In fact, this is just an expression of not enough love, because if a man is really emotional, he will become concerned about gains and losses, and be afraid of losing.
When a man really falls in love with a woman, a man will cherish the time they spend together more , and will try his best to make a woman happy when they have the opportunity to meet, such as eating what women like to eat, and accompany women to do what she wants to do.
Because men put women in the most important position in their hearts, and even include women in their future lives, they will be very important to women.
If it is only superficial liking, men will not take women so seriously, and they will not show special care about women's sadness, grievances, or even leaving.
So sometimes a woman finds out after a deliberate disconnection that the man didn't notice anything unusual, and he didn't take the initiative to contact her, which is enough to show that he doesn't occupy a very important position in a man's heart, and that he is not the person that a man cannot lose.
But if a man really loves this woman, he will definitely be afraid of losing her, because he wants to spend the rest of his life hand in hand with a woman, whether it is sad or happy, he wants to share with her.
Therefore, the man who is afraid of losing is actually in love, not indecision. Women should cherish the man who is afraid of losing herself.
3: Start to change your bad temper
When a man is willing to change his bad temper for you, then there is no need to doubt, he must really love you, and will willingly make a lot of changes for you, because He doesn't want you to be unhappy.How many love affairs of
are ruined by the bad temper that is not restrained by to ? There must be a lot of them. Because of their bad temper, it is less likely that two people can communicate well. In this way, even if some problems are not serious, the lack of communication will gradually deepen the rift in the heart, which will eventually lead to Emotions are breaking down.
A man who is really in love with a woman will understand how much harm his bad temper can bring to a woman, and he is not willing to use his own shortcomings to hurt the person he loves deeply.
Therefore, when facing the woman he loves, a man will unconsciously restrain his bad temper. He hopes to show his best side to women, and he hopes that women can also feel their own changes because of their changes. Sincerity.
My friend Alei is a resolute man, very loyal, but the only shortcoming is that he has a bad temper. In our opinion, he is easy to lose his temper when he is a little impatient. At that time, we also laughed at him for not being able to find an girlfriend. .
However, after having a real beloved woman, Ale's transformation left us stunned. When we were having dinner together, we saw that A Lei took good care of the girl, he didn't even dare to speak loudly, and he was gentle and considerate throughout the whole process.
Since then, we have come to know that a man can really make a big change for the woman he loves. If Ale hadn't really loved that girl, how could he have changed his temper for her over the years?
Therefore, when a man has undergone some obvious changes, women should not regard it as invisible, let alone cherish it, because that is precisely the manifestation of men's deep love for you.
Because he loves you, he is willing to soften the thorns on his body, and he is willing to give you all his tenderness, and he is more willing to choose to accommodate everything for your happiness.
When choosing a lover, some women will pay more attention to whether a man is rich or powerful, and always feel that external wealth can bring them happiness.
However, although these external wealth can bring a momentary good life, they are not the most important, because a man is the most important thing to your heart, and a man who is willing to make changes for you is the man who loves you deeply. , and because he loves you, he will work harder to give you a better life.
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