I am 46 years old, a middle-aged woman with a young mentality. Although I am a very optimistic person, what I didn’t expect is that my life is so tortuous and bizarre. Sometimes I admire myself, how did I persevere in such a life.
I am a sweet-looking, mature and temperamental woman, even though I am middle-aged, but the traces of time have not left too many imprints on me. I still have fair skin, a slender figure, and a round face, but I am more charming.
said that my life is bizarre because I was a person who got married late and lost love very early. I got married when I was 30 and lost my husband when I was 40. If it wasn't for my beliefs, I don't know how to live.
I have been single for 6 years, my husband left me early due to an accident at work, leaving only a pair of children and I to live with each other. In order to give my children a good living condition, I chose to go out to work.
Under the introduction of a friend, I entered a company canteen to work. I have been working here for several years, but my emotions and gradually fade away under the busyness of every day. I seem to be open to my life at work and relieved. However, it was not until the appearance of a young man three years ago that completely broke the tranquility of my life and made waves in my heart.
He is an employee of this unit. We don’t have any intersection in our work, and we don’t know much about him. Since I am a person who likes to put a smile on my face, I treat everyone with and . Looking at them, but it was his inadvertent behavior that made him fall in love with me. He kept in touch with me, and every time he took the initiative to say hello to me, we slowly became friends. .There was nothing unusual at the beginning, but gradually his various performances surprised me very much. He was very concerned about me. As long as I had any difficulties, he would take the initiative to help me.
Until one day, he confessed to me and , I was very surprised, I said to him: "We are not suitable, don't look at me young, I am much older than you, I have two more It's absolutely impossible for us, child." But his first reaction was "As long as you can really accept me, I don't care about this."
In order to make him give up on me, I even asked for leave for a long time and did not go to work, But this never stopped his pursuit of me. In the face of his sincere dedication to me, my heart has also changed, but my reason told me "I can't fall in love with him, we are not suitable", I am very entangled now, in fact, I don't want to be in touch with emotions again, no Thinking that a smile of my own will make me fall into emotional entanglement , what should I do?
@萱yingxiu There is no age limit for emotions. Whether the two are suitable depends on the emotional foundation of the two. The emotional door that has not been opened for many years has really met true love, and you can try to accept it. How do you feel about this emotion? Comments are welcome.
