On the eve of Mother's Day, my sister in the office next door received roses and carnations from her daughter. It was very beautiful. Another sister also received a lipstick from her son. I was so carefree that I couldn't sit still. Comparing is human. Nature, I am a careless engineering boy, I don't know if I can send a blessing to my mother on Mother's Day, but I'm actually looking forward to it quietly in my heart.
The next day happens to be Sunday, which is also Mother's Day. My husband is on a business trip, and I am the only one who wakes up in the morning to clean up, ate breakfast, and flips through the mobile phone boredly. Today's mobile phone content is overwhelmingly full of Mother's Day articles, check-in, A gift, a person is pacing in a quiet room, and his heart is suddenly full of unhappiness, which turns into anger.
so called my husband's phone
"I have a rest today, why didn't I sleep in?" Husband asked me
"How about Mother's Day",
"Ah, today is Mother's Day, I don't It doesn't matter if you don't know "
", don't forget to call the old lady, I gave the gift yesterday, the problem is that your son, after so many years, when will he grow up, never remember anything about me Holidays, Mother's Day, March 8th, birthday, this child really failed in education..."
......
"Bang bang bang", I shot my son at my husband with a small steel cannon Twenty minutes later, under the guidance of my husband's laughter, I hung up the phone, and when I came, I ordered my husband not to remind my son again, so as not to call and scold again, I know that they often have the habit of "being in trouble"
Just hung up the phone , my son's phone number came to
"Mom, who are you calling? It's been half an hour, and it's been busy at . "Well, at home, I thought you forgot?"
"Not this time, I made notepad many days in advance, you can stay at home, I will order you the of your favorite old horse's house. Saozi noodles , I will eat it at noon later, I will buy you a small gift, surprise, but it may not arrive until tomorrow "
" Oh..."
" Mom, then you have a good holiday, you can make an appointment with Aunt Chen in the afternoon Shopping!"
"Okay, the baby is the best"
Just hung up the phone, and then received another call from her husband.
Look, my son sent you WeChat blessings in our family group, this is not what I reminded .
"Oh! I see, my son called me, ordered takeaway and bought a gift"
Haha....
A false alarm!
was eating the shammy noodles from my son's takeout, and I was suddenly embarrassed. What happened today is typically that exposed 's shortcomings or flaws in its own character.
If you have any mistakes, you can correct them. It is a great improvement. I decided to remove these defects so that I can remind myself of
in the future. Blind comparisons, in fact, some comparisons are okay. The ability of others to do things better than me, the way of doing things, and the experience of interpersonal communication, these Effective comparisons can make oneself grow, which is okay, but it is totally unnecessary to give gifts like this, and it is an emotional comparison. Gifts and friendship are not allowed in this era of overflowing material. Equally, in the age of e-commerce, a gift sometimes only takes a few minutes, but the true meaning is not so superficial
Second, is impatient , I think this is a common problem of all mothers nowadays, in fact, children are sometimes like buds in early spring, yesterday they were bare branches, but one night of spring rain and today's sun exposure , but you can be full of spring branches and green mountains and rivers. The problem is that we, anxious and impatient mothers, were furious as early as yesterday for not seeing a trace of greenery.
Really, you can wait a little longer and give your children a time to react and grow up.
Three, thinks it is
Many years ago, I read a book on early childhood education. The book said that the misunderstanding of our parents is: You always I feel that you know your child very well, but the child doesn't understand you, but the truth is: the child can understand everything about you, even your good intentions, but you don't actually know what the child thinks
Yes, we are all parents who take it for granted. Children can understand us. It is our self-righteousness to think that they will never understand. In fact, they are growing. To mention a word, every mother is actually untrained, and is groping for her position as a mother.
Yes, since we are groping forward, then we may make mistakes, people are not saints , can be better than , and mothers will make mistakes. True.
A child is your first child, but isn't it our first time to be her mother? Only by growing together, making progress together, and correcting mistakes can we have the most suitable parent-child relationship.
