"Society is not complicated, what is complicated is people's hearts." Society is made up of people, like a huge network of relationships. The relationship between people is interdependent, contradictory, and influence each other.
For this reason, everyone will rely on the society to survive and gain benefits from the society, and in this process, there will inevitably be intrigue and intrigue... If a person is unfortunately bound by this environment, it is very likely that he will go to a dead end. .
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Tang Xiaolin was originally a talented woman from Peking University . She is quiet, shy, and talented. Since childhood, she has made her parents worry about her studies. She has one of the best grades in her class and is a veritable academic master.
And she is very interested in physics, and she has made corresponding efforts, and her grades are better than boys. In 2004, she was admitted to Peking University with a high score, majoring in space physics, specializing in the study of space environment and the impact on the earth's ecology, The interaction between space vehicle and celestial planets, etc., sounds very powerful.
She has a desire to travel in space since she was a child, she is full of fantasy about the sky, and hopes to explore the bright starry sky. In this major, and are at the world's advanced level. For this reason, after graduating from , she chose to study in the United States. After finishing her master's degree, she continued to study for doctoral degree in . She studied in the department of physics and astronomy, indicating that as long as she can obtain Ph.D. , can step into this field of science.
During her Ph.D., she worked very hard. friends can only find her in lab . She also told her friends that she was under a lot of pressure and did not have much time for her studies.
It stands to reason that such an excellent and hard-working Tang Xiaolin should be able to get a doctorate smoothly. But she has stagnated on this road. She has not been able to get a doctorate for 7 years.
Under such a situation, she became more and more impatient and suppressed . According to people familiar with the matter, it was not only Tang Xiaolin who failed to get a doctorate, but was delayed all the time. Many students were also suppressed by their supervisors for various reasons, and became Mentor's free coolie.
Like Tang Xiaolin, who has submitted 6 very qualified doctoral theses in 7 years, but her supervisor never nodded, dragged her on for 7 years, and still wanted to continue to oppress her.
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This is also a common phenomenon in American colleges and universities. Those tutors will try their best to squeeze the value of graduate students. As a result, no matter how hard Tang Xiaolin works, she will not be able to become a doctor.
In addition, her parents were also very anxious, hoping that she would get her doctorate sooner rather than waste time and work harder, which made her mentally stressed and very depressed, and finally chose to commit suicide, from Jinshan Bridge in the United States Jump down.
017 is her 7th year of studying for a doctorate in the United States. In late September, her friend suddenly couldn't contact her. For several days, no one could find her. Everyone could only use high gold to post a search online. People notice, turned out to be dead when she was found.
After studying hard for so many years, she has achieved such dazzling and results. The talented woman from Peking University who had a promising future passed away like this. The news was sent back to China . Netizens could not help but sigh and indignant, but her family and friends could not understand Why did she commit suicide.
Before committing suicide, she once told her friends that the Jinshan Bridge was beautiful and she liked it there. Maybe at that time she already had the idea of extreme , but everyone didn't expect her to make such a choice.
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In the face of Tang Xiaolin's suicide by jumping from a bridge, many netizens were shocked, thinking that her psychological endurance was too poor. From childhood to adulthood, she went smoothly on her way to study, and she went to extremes without suffering any setbacks.
In fact, she has worked very hard, and even submitted materials to her tutors at 11 o'clock in the evening, but in the United States, many tutors will squeeze students and let them do free coolies for themselves. No one knows when those tutors will agree nod.
Tang Xiaolin's fate is controlled by her tutor and school . She doesn't know how long she will endure, and she can't see the end with all her efforts, so despairs , she finally chooses to commit suicide, ended and should be dazzling life.
Some people may also think that Tang Xiaolin should give up her doctoral degree and return to China for development, but she has spent 7 years of youth trying to realize her dream. In addition to the pressure from her family, it is difficult for her to adjust her mentality in that situation. Make other choices.
When her tutor heard the news of her suicide, her first reaction was to delete all her information. It seemed that she had never appeared on that campus. Such behavior and various oppressive behaviors in the past were thought-provoking.
