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Fans asked: After my ex-husband and I divorced, he still cared about me very much and often bought me gifts, but once I proposed to remarry, he would not agree, what should I do? To remarry?
Fan message : Hello everyone, my ex-husband and I met in college, and many people said that we would break up after graduation, but we didn't, and we entered the hall of marriage. When I was in my senior year, I decided to fall in love with him. relation.
When we were in love, everything was beautiful.
After graduation, we stayed in this city. We were in love for two years, and we have been married for three years now. After five years in total, we got divorced. The reason for the past is because I was bored and divorced on impulse.
When we first got married, although we quarreled a lot, we were still in love with each other. We quarreled at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed. The husband and wife did not have any feud overnight. But later, we stopped arguing, not because the relationship was better, but there was no need to quarrel. .
Our relationship has fallen to a freezing point. He used cold violence against me, and sometimes ignored me for a few days. I really wanted to have a fight with him, but he would always run away, or he would run into the room, Lock yourself up.
Even if he treats me like this, I never thought of divorce him, because although we often quarrel over some small things, but I still love him, I really love him, I also know that he loves me too Yes, but he just kept silent.
Argument can be flirtatious if used well.
Suddenly one day, he asked us to divorce. I was stunned. When I woke up, I nodded and agreed, because I knew that living like this is not life at all. I buy gifts, I know he still loves me, but I want to remarry, he just doesn't agree!
I don't know what should I do to remarry, and I don't know why he doesn't agree to remarry, is there any good way? First, thank you.
Dugu's pen:
Hello, I read your statement carefully, from the lines, it is not difficult to see that you still have feelings, but your husband ignored you later, I think it must be tired of arguing, Wanting to escape the quarrel, he didn't want to continue this life.
Although you are divorced, he has not stayed away from you. You said it yourself, he will buy you gifts and take care of you every festival as before. The only thing that has changed is that his identity is different, which may make him feel that he is getting along with you. Get up without stress.
Then the problem is very simple. It is because of the wrong way of getting along with you. There are differences in the way of getting along, and then there is a quarrel, which causes your husband to divorce you in order to avoid the quarrel. Although he still loves you, But I don't want to live together, mainly I don't want to quarrel.
Both of you are quiet, give each other enough space, enough time to think about this issue over and over again, you still love your husband, and your husband loves you very much, but why are you divorced, the most important reason As mentioned above, it is a matter of lifestyle.
This kind of life must be a beautiful
As long as this problem is solved, there will be no problem. You can reconcile and get married again. You have changed yourself, let him know that you have changed, this is a good start, and there is a hope for remarriage.
I have said everything that should be said. What to do next depends on you. If you want to remarry, then change yourself. When you are tired, you have to take a break, and your relationship will also be tired. It’s just that maybe you don’t. You know, it's just emotional.
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