In your busy schedule, if you can click on my article, it must be a deep fate. Please click "Follow" in the upper right corner, welcome to my emotional world and enjoy your life.
Few husbands and wives, old companions, companionship is the longest confession of love. Loneliness is hard for the elderly who are single in their later years. The times are progressing, and people's views on marriage and love are more open. It has become a common thing for the elderly to find their wives.
has experienced the vicissitudes of life and the vicissitudes of life. The elderly have seen through many things, and they will not simply believe in love like young people. Looking for a wife in old age, love is still the foundation, but companionship and care are more important.
The elderly want to get company, and the form is no longer restricted to remarriage. Some elderly people like to live with a partner, some elderly people choose to talk about a warm evening love, and some elderly people tend to have paid nanny-style companionship, such as Uncle Cheng.
Confidant: Uncle Cheng / 65 years old
I am a career-oriented man, and I have done a lot in the workplace. I was once a powerful person. There is no perfect all-around man in this world. I have strong career ability, but I am a novice who knows nothing in life. Thanks to my wife who can go to the hall and go to the kitchen, she keeps my life in order and I live a very comfortable life.
day unpredictable situation, people have good and bad luck, not long after I retired , my wife passed away suddenly. The departure of my wife made me very sad, and no one took care of my life. I lived a decadent and embarrassed . My only son was abroad. When his wife passed away, he came back for the funeral and accompanied me for two months and went abroad again.
The deceased has passed away, and the living must continue to live. My old friend advised me not to be too sad, and to be realistic. Since I need someone to take care of me now, I can find another wife.To be honest, I do need someone to accompany and look after, but that's about it. I don't want to find a wife, because my feelings are all given to my deceased wife.
If I remarry, just to find someone to take care of me, and I have no feelings for her, it will not be a torment for my heart. After weighing it, I decided to spend my later years in the form of paid companionship of nanny . I have someone to take care of and accompany me, and the nanny can also get paid. It can be said that has the best of both worlds.
First of all, of course, you need to find a nanny who is reliable and willing to accept paid company. I asked my relatives and friends if there was such a suitable lady. She was similar in age to me, preferably a few years younger. She had to be single, otherwise it would affect her family. Others should be kind, have good character, and cook well. Eating will take care of people.
's hard work pays off, and Xiao He, who was introduced by a friend, fits my conditions very well. She was 56 years old and her husband passed away. Because of family reasons, she needs to make money to support her family. She is kind, smiling, hardworking, and considerate in taking care of people. After meeting Xiaohe, I decided to hire her and give her a salary of 8,000 yuan per month.
I also explained to Xiao He what my paid company is. In addition to taking care of my daily life, she also needs to accompany me to chat, walk, exercise, travel, and do things I like. I simply need someone to accompany me, like a friend, I don't ask for anything beyond the bounds.
Xiao He is very happy, because my request is reasonable and she can accept it. After getting along, Xiao He and I have a lot of common topics. We are more and more like confidants, caring for each other sincerely. Life is not enough to know yourself, this is the company I want. Paid nanny company, I think it is more comfortable and happier than looking for a wife.
Conclusion
Whether it is remarriage, living with a partner, or a paid nanny-style company, there are advantages and disadvantages, but the one that suits you is the best. The way that Uncle Cheng can find someone to take care of and accompany him and spend his old age in peace is also based on his actual situation and needs. As long as you follow your heart's choice, you will always find a suitable partner and retirement method for you in your later years.
