Love and marriage are pure and flawless, and they are also the cleanest feelings in the world. They cannot be mixed with any suspicions and interests. Otherwise, they will only make each other's love sour, and eventually they will only reap a fragmented marriage, but unfortunately, many people in When facing love and marriage, the first thing that comes to mind is not altruism, but self-interest, so that more and more people no longer believe in love, and even regard love as a plaything, but as everyone knows, only with an altruistic mentality can we truly Get happiness, because the feelings that one party pays are not true love.
With the development of the times and the change in the concept of love, the post-80s and post-90s are facing a great emotional crisis. They are self-centered in love and marriage and do not care about each other's feelings, resulting in a high divorce rate. Many people I no longer believe in love and marriage. Even if I get married and have children, I am unwilling to hold a wedding and get a marriage certificate, which makes people helpless and distressed. The protagonist of this issue, Zhu Linzhi, is facing the torture of love and reality.
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Tormented by illness, hope from the bottom of my heart
This 27-year-old woman is Zhu Linzhi. She looks beautiful and even healthy, no different from ordinary people, but in fact she is a patient who cannot take care of herself.
Zhu Linzhi can't walk independently, can't pick up chopsticks to eat, only mother takes care of throughout the day, coupled with the worsening condition every day and huge medical expenses, it is even worse for Zhu Linzhi , which caused her to be depressed, not wanting to take care of her own illness, and once had the idea of suicide. If it wasn't for the persuasion of her family members, Zhu Linzhi would not have received treatment at all.
With the torment of the disease, Zhu Linzhi no longer has hope for her illness, but she can't let go of one person. This person is the last softness in Zhu Linzhi's heart, and also her hope for survival. The reason why the sick man is reluctant to bow his head.
This person's name is Peng Yougen, a Chinese medicine practitioner and Zhu Linzhi's savior.
During the first liver failure , Peng Yougen served by Zhu Linzhi's side for four days and four nights without uttering a single complaint. You must know that at that time they were just a relationship between a doctor and a patient, he could do it This step moved Zhu Linzhi very much.
But now, Lin Zhi has been unable to contact him. Out of gratitude, Zhu Linzhi hopes that we can take her to see him.
But unfortunately, when Zhu Linzhi called Peng Yougen, he didn't answer the phone. Since he was a savior, why didn't Peng Yougen answer Zhu Linzhi's call?
When we asked for Zhu Linzhi's opinion and took her directly to Peng Yougen, Zhu Linzhi said that she was afraid of affecting Peng Yougen, afraid that Peng Yougen would be disgusted by her and leave a bad impression on Peng Yougen. It can be seen that Zhu Linzhi is very concerned about it. Peng Yougen's view.
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Looking for a benefactor
Looking at Zhu Linzhi's hesitant attitude, coupled with her seriously ill body, we decided to take her to find Peng Yougen, because we did not understand that Zhu Linzhi was seriously ill, and Peng Yougen who had been taking good care of her before Why did it suddenly disappear? Is there something else hidden in it? If it is a simple patient relationship, there is no way to not answer the phone!
However, before we could breathe a sigh of relief, Zhu Linzhi's aunt suddenly called and Zhu Linzhi disappeared.
Zhu Linzhi's aunt said that because she followed Zhu Linzhi back and forth all night last night, she basically never slept, and the three of them were already exhausted, so after they came here, they all slept very deeply, and they fell asleep as soon as they lay down. Fell asleep.
However, when they woke up, they found that Zhu Linzhi, who was unable to move, was not in the room, and they panicked. When we heard such an answer, we were also stunned, afraid that Zhu Linzhi could not think of it for a while, but fortunately, with the efforts of us and Zhu Linzhi's family, we finally found Zhu Linzhi. It turned out that she did not commit suicide, but just wanted to find a place to be quiet. She followed us to find Peng Yougen, and she was not at peace.
Early the next morning, Zhu Linzhi suddenly told us that she had received a message from Peng Yougen and asked to meet her, but when we went to Peng Yougen's workplace, we found that he was not there, so we had to follow Zhu Linzhi Went to Peng Yougen's house, but his friend told us that Peng Yougen had returned to his hometown.
Until then, we found out that Peng Yougen had been hiding from Zhu Linzhi. She had sent a message to meet her, but now she may have regretted it.
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In times of adversity, we will meet again
Just when Zhu Linzhi was emotionally broken, his family was anxious, and our hearts were aching, Peng Yougen sent a message again to make an appointment to meet Zhu Linzhi.
As soon as Peng Yougen saw Zhu Linzhi, he hurriedly asked about Zhu Linzhi's condition. Based on this alone, we can see that he did not have no feelings for Zhu Linzhi, and Peng Yougen always supported Zhu Linzhi along the way, but Look at the relationship between them, not the doctor-patient relationship.
Until then, we didn't understand that Zhu Linzhi and Peng Yougen were still lovers, and she was looking for Peng Yougen this time for the purpose of reconciliation.
This middle-aged man is Peng Yougen, a 47-year-old Yueyang Chinese medicine practitioner. Seeing the long-awaited person finally arrives in front of him, Zhu Linzhi hugged Peng Yougen and cried bitterly, but when Zhu Linzhi was looking for reconciliation, he was rejected by Peng Yougen , so what happened to the two of them? Why do two people who clearly love each other suddenly separate? This also starts with Zhu Linzhi's tragic marriage and illness.
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After the tragic marriage, with the true love
It turned out that Zhu Linzhi was married at a very young age. At that time, she had a husband who loved her and a happy family, but five years ago, she was suddenly diagnosed with the disease , which led her husband to withdraw from the battle at a critical juncture, proposed to her for a divorce, and kicked her out of the house.
The reason for her husband was that Zhu Linzhi was ill and could not have children.
In desperation, Zhu Linzhi could only divorce her husband, return to her parents' home, and live with her mother. In the face of high medical expenses, her mother's hard work, and her increasingly serious illness, Zhu Linzhi originally wanted to end life , left this indifferent world, but until a person appeared, completely changed her life, let her regain hope, this person is Peng Yougen.
As Peng Yougen took care of her for four days and four nights, Zhu Linzhi was very happy with this savior, so they came together naturally, and lived happily while seeing a doctor.
Zhu Linzhi told us that although Peng Yougen is 20 years older than her, she doesn't care about the age gap, but only cares whether he cherishes herself or not, and the fact is just as she thought, facing Zhu Linzhi's confession, Peng Yougen finally He chose to accept it. In the following treatment, Peng Yougen did his best and never complained. He had already regarded Zhu Linzhi as his wife.
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Do not want to get involved, or use it?
However, the relationship between Peng Yougen and Zhu Linzhi is obviously very good, why did they leave suddenly?
In the text message conversation Zhu Linzhi showed us, we finally saw some clues. In and , it is not difficult to see what happened between Zhu Linzhi and Peng Yougen, and even the two sides had promised each other. and eachother , that is to say, although Zhu Linzhi is seriously ill, and although Peng Yougen is old, they have never disliked each other, but regarded each other as the only one in their lives.
But now this relationship seems to be on the verge of ending for some reason, so what is the reason?
In Zhu Linzhi's heart, Peng Yougen has become the pillar of Zhu Linzhi's survival, but when we heard Peng Yougen's attitude and true feelings in our hearts, we were silent.
The reason why Peng Yougen left Zhu Linzhi was just because of a very small matter.
Peng Yougen said that although Zhu Linzhi was seriously ill, he never hated her from beginning to end, and he even treated her sincerely, but what about Zhu Linzhi? When Peng Yougen proposed to get married many times, Zhu Linzhi was just perfunctory and never agreed.
Zhu Linzhi's ruthlessness and perfunctory made Peng Yougen completely disheartened.
But Zhu Linzhi said that it is not that she does not want to marry Peng Yougen, she just does not want to drag her down. If she is not treated well, her death will not have any effect on Peng Yougen; if she is cured, she will wear a wedding dress and become the most beautiful bride. Marry Peng Yougen.
Today, Peng Yougen's attitude seems to Zhu Linzhi that everything has become meaningless. Seeing the figure of his former lover gradually drifting away, he has always believed that the idea of surviving has become dispensable.
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Peng Yougen's attitude
Peng Yougen looked exhausted. Seeing the disheartened Zhu Linzhi, he said that he could help Zhu Linzhi to cure the disease. For this love full of doubts and suspicions, he can no longer bear it.
In the end, Zhu Linzhi agreed to give Peng Yougen some buffer time. After parting with Peng Yougen, considering Zhou Lingzhi's physical condition, we brought Zhu Linzhi to the hospital to see if there was any possibility of her condition being cured.
The doctor told us that although Zhu Linzhi's condition is very complicated, there is still a possibility of cure, but it requires huge medical expenses.
After our interview, Peng Yougen also sent us a message. Between the lines, we can still see his concern for Zhu Linzhi, but where will this relationship go? Now we can only look at each other's fate. I hope that when Peng Yougen takes care of Zhu Linzhi in the future, the two will run in with each other and slowly change their attitude towards each other.
At this point, Zhu Linzhi still has a long way to go to save her lover, but it is still possible to start all over again. When she recovers from a serious illness and appears healthy in front of Peng Yougen, maybe Their lives have only really begun.
Living is a kind of practice. No matter what posture or state you appear in, it is a unique experience in life. For Zhu Linzhi, the pain of the body is only part of it, and it is more from two heavy emotional trauma. In the
interview, Zhu Linzhi asked us more than once whether people like her are not worthy of love? We tell him for sure, no! So do you think she deserves love?
