#计划留# #Break-up Reason# #深思理思# #情头条#
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saw a question on the Internet: "Why do I want to stay after regretting, but the other party can go so resolutely?"
In fact, a sentence that has been popular a long time ago is The best answer: "Because every farewell is a long-planned thing."
Their departure is not a destiny. It's just that disappointment has wiped out all the love once, so they chose to be separated in the crowd.
1. They, once loved
When a friend moved, he asked me for help. Among his belongings, he found a valuable camera. For that camera, my friend hadn't had a good meal for more than two months.
At that time, he was going to class while working part-time, and the living expenses provided by the family couldn't wait to split the money in half, in order to buy that camera and use it to take pictures of his beloved.
The two met from the university club. We always thought they would go to get married, but in the end they did not escape the graduation season. One chose to go back to his hometown, and the other chose to stay there.
I asked my friend, why is such a good camera not used? Isn't this wasteful? After all, it's my own hard money. If you don’t want it anymore, you can resell it,
friend said,Inside are all memories of the two people's past. Even if I know I won't touch it again, I still feel reluctant. After all, that was the only proof that the girl had ever existed around him.
Many people say that falling in love can defeat everything. However, reality tells us that compared to love, many people have chosen their own lives. It's not that they don't want to love, but they are sure that each other can only be once.
The feeling is probably: "I am sure that you are not the person in the second half of my life, but I am willing to write your name on all my youth. To meet and love each other is our fate."
2. People who want to leave, you can't keep
In fact, many people have tried to stay. They regretted what they had done to the other half. They fully understood what they wanted to make up and repent, but why did the other party refuse to give themselves this opportunity?
I heard a story a long time ago. Before a girl and a boy fell in love, she once said to him: "I prepared a bottle. Every time you let me down, I will put a paper crane in it. If you can't let it go, I will leave you."
At the beginning, the boy agreed disapprovingly. At that time, he really thought he could do what his girlfriend did not seem difficult. However, on a sunny day, he found a letter left by his girlfriend.
girlfriend actually made many compromises and changes for him. At first he would be complacent, but then he would take it for granted. When the bottle was filled with paper cranes, the girl fulfilled her promise.
People who want to go will actually pack their luggage before leaving. They will rearrange and summarize those past memories, whether they are sad or sweet, and take away those that belong to them, and leave behind those that belong to you.
It’s not that he didn’t give you a chance, but that many people are used to the patience and retreat of others,Treat it as something that should be divided. It was because of their disapproval that contributed to the final result.
So, when you use the past to try to keep the other person, it's like giving a doll to an adult woman who was expecting Barbie dolls when she was young. .
3. You have to give hope to love.
People who really want to leave will never make a big fight with you. He just chose a sunny day, opened the door and disappeared into the crowd. From then on, you are different and happy.
Once, this person loved you very much. Love so much that it can become humble for you, it can learn to be forgiving for you, and even become less like himself. But when he decided to leave, everything was over.
Maybe, she can find your avatar for the first time in a group chat of hundreds of people. Maybe you can still see her on a certain street corner, but you won't have any unfinished stories.
Because, for a period of disappointment that can only bring me infinite, even desperate feelings. No one will choose to carry it through to the end. Love that does not grow up can not bring the future that anyone wants.
So, if you want to protect your feelings, please let the other person see hope. You have to learn to change, not just accept it.
Don't wait until you lose it before you regret it. At that time, no one can help you anymore. You can only regret it.
4. Disappointment, there is no way to remedy it.
You can comfort each other immediately after the fight, and he will forgive you. However, you can't always rely on this way to hurt her, slap a sweet date, there will always be a day of failure.
When the love balance is insufficient,We can think of ways to remedy it. But if you let a person who loves you deeply disappointed, there is absolutely no way to remedy it.
Human feelings are really weird sometimes. When you think it exists, it may be just a few small actions that can instantly make it disappear. Therefore, please be sure to learn to cherish.
Above, I wish you a good dream and good night.
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