Love is like depositing a sum of money in a bank, and being able to appreciate each other's advantages is like supplementing income; tolerating each other's shortcomings is a modest expenditure. The so-called eternal love is from the love of beauty to white hair, from the love of flowers to the remnants of flowers. ——Bacon
Foreword
Love is a very wonderful thing, so many people have been searching for it in the world, and they have not found a trace of it after going round and round. . is a lot of people deliberately looking for it, but it has been reluctant to appear. Some unlucky people may have to find it for a long time, and even when some people are ready to give up searching Late appearance. Love is such an intriguing existence around us.
There are some lucky people who can quickly find their love when they are looking for love. It is precisely because of such luck that they always feel that this relationship is not so real and not so reliable. They are always skeptical of this easily available relationship. This is the different feelings of love for many people. Those who are looking for it will cherish it, but those who are too easy to get question it.
In fact, such lucky people are more inclined to women in their lives, precisely because most men express more directly than women in their pursuit of love. They are proactive and direct towards this,It is both surprise and fear , they are distressed whether the opposite sex really likes themselves, is the other party's curiosity for a while, or how can they see that the other party really loves themselves?
Girls themselves are naturally emotional creatures, They are also so sensitive and cautious about their feelings. They often choose to observe them for a period of time when they face their feelings. From the opponent's various behaviors and details of behavior , analyze the opponent's mind. Finally, to confirm whether the other party is really the one who is worthy of entrusting for a lifetime.
However, some boys are more reserved when dealing with feelings, which makes it difficult for many girls to see whether they really like themselves in their relationships. In fact, you can’t hide your liking for someone. Even if he doesn’t say he loves you, his liking will show through his eyes. In fact, from the many " small actions ," he can tell Are you sincere.
So when a boy has the following six "small actions" towards you, it shows that he likes you very much.
The first point: face-to-face shy
psychologists have studied,When a person is facing the person he likes, he will have a sweet sense of tension in his heart. Especially when two people meet for the first time, boys want to make a good first impression on the person they like, fearing that a small action will cause discomfort to each other, or that a wrong sentence will cause girls to hate it. So boys usually behave very cautiously and shyly.
Even if you have more contact with people you like, they don't know how to express their love and joy to you. If you have a good feeling for him, but want to confirm whether the other person really feels about you, you can try to see him face to face. If he shows blushing, restlessness, nervousness, etc. when looking at you, he can basically confirm that his heart is the same as you think.
Point 2: Get your attention
Most guys don’t usually express their meaning to you intuitively, because they are very subtle in their hearts and feel embarrassed. Or I dare not express it to you directly. But they will deliberately do something to attract your attention, For example, when chatting with you, he will often use some jokes to make you happy .
or he will use some popular stalks on the Internet to chat with you. In your eyes, his words and behaviors are a bit inexplicable, so you will ask him what these stalks are. meaning. He achieved what he wanted and aroused your curiosity, so that your attention will be on him. If you can perceive that his actions like this are attracting you,Then it is only a matter of time that you are off the order.
The third point: imitate your behavior
When we like someone, we want to know everything about the other person. Many people will start from understanding each other's life and rest, hobbies, and even small behaviors. After understanding the other party's life rules and preferences, slowly approach the other party, trying to get a good impression from the other party's hobbies.
In fact, when many men like a girl, even though they don't have to say it, their imitations betray their ideas. For example, if you smile at a guy, he will respond and laugh with you; if you blink regularly in front of him, then he will follow you to blink regularly Wait, there are many such subtle imitations, all showing that he is interesting to you.
Fourth point: take the initiative to give small gifts
boys all know that girls like to receive small gifts, , especially if they don’t know what gifts are. Their hearts are as excited as they are opening a blind box. This approach is very popular with most girls, and it is precisely because of this kind of like,When many boys like a girl, they will grasp this point to win the girl's favor.
When boys take the initiative to give small gifts to girls, it also shows that boys are throwing olive branches to girls. They use small gifts to imply their own hearts and to please you. If you have a boy you like, who happens to give you a small gift to imply you, then you must accept it, so that your approach is to give him your consent.
Fifth point: say something ambiguous
When a boy likes a girl, most of his first reaction is to want to chat with you. actively and frequently chats with you, whether face-to-face or on the Internet, it can be said that he is chatting with you 24 hours a day except for: eating, sleeping, bathing, and going to the toilet. . Because he likes you, he is willing to spend more time with you. And he will start talking around your hobbies, and then talk about your emotional experience.
will send you good morning every morning, and don’t forget to send good night at night. He also uses some ambiguous words, such as: " I often suffer from insomnia at night when I didn’t know you. After I met you, I can sleep well every day.", "You are so cute, who wants to be lucky? Your boyfriend is really enviable." etc. When these couples only say things, on the one hand they express their love for you.On the other hand, you are slightly testing whether you dislike him. If you are not disgusted, then believe that he will soon be unable to hold back his confession and tell you clearly.
Sixth point: Will have physical contact with you
When a boy likes you in his heart, he will try to approach you and attract your attention. Sometimes it is verbal teasing that wants to get your attention, but more often it wants to use physical contact to get your attention. For example: When you passed through the corridor after class, he happened to be next to you and patted your shoulder with his hand, or he stretched out his foot to trip you on purpose. These are all to use more physical contact to get your attention.
Most of the contacts are deliberate. When you turn your head to look at him, if he has an unintentional expression on his face, it means he is waiting for you to talk to him. Even if you pretend to ignore his behavior, he will still make " unintentionally " contact to attract your attention. You may think his approach is boring or even annoying, but you don't know that his intention is to like you to do it.
These are the six "small actions" that boys like you, .I believe that many people have also learned after reading it, whether boys like themselves in these usual hints. Some little girls are afraid that their thoughts are affectionate, and they dare not ask the boys directly, especially in front of the boys who are in their hearts, and they dare not ask what the other person means. In fact, feelings are the same thing. If you miss him in your heart, he will have a clear heart.
It depends on whether you two can grasp your fate and opportunity. If you understand each other’s careful thoughts and small actions, then you can quickly respond. Don’t hold a doubt Look at it with your own heart, it is very likely that your doubts will make the other party lose their trust and enthusiasm for you. What is most needed in a relationship is mutual trust and understanding between two people. If you never leave him, he will depend on you for life and death.
Concluding remarks
Many mature, rational, and excellent men have evolved from the shy little boy back then to pursue themselves, and their girls like _strong14. The child racks his brains and uses various "small routines" and "small movements" to attract the other's attention and get the other's favor. Their silly love experience and the process of chasing girls are the old ways young people now walk back and forth. For those beautiful women who have finally married, how many people’s experiences are fond memories and shy youth in their hearts.
