It seems that when people are young, they are looking for the person they like, and feel that the others are not so important. As long as one person can really like it, it is enough.
After reaching a certain age, what you want will no longer be so simple. In addition to what you like, you also need to have other things, such as being suitable, because a person who is suitable for you will become your own "soul mate "When two people get along, they will be particularly comfortable, and there will be no awkward feeling.
Often when you think you don’t want much, it’s hard to get what you want in your heart. It’s not difficult to want someone to like yourself, because there are so many people in the world, there is always someone who will Put you in your heart, there is always someone who will truly appreciate you.
To meet someone who really understands you, there are really very few people who can become a "soul mate" with you. Therefore, if you meet such a person on a certain day, he can say whatever you think. He doesn't need you to speak, he knows what you are thinking in your heart and understands you better than anyone else.
You always have the same hobbies and lifestyles, no matter what you like to eat or where you like to go, you will have a tacit understanding between you and you will be surprisingly consistent.
They always get along well together, they will know how to cherish each other, tolerate each other, and will not talk about little things.
When you meet such a person, you must cherish it, because those who can do these will become "soul mates", and two people will get along well together.
Whether the other party is your "soul mate" or not, look at the three "places"
What you think, you can say
tacit understanding, maybe it is not the same in people's eyes This is a rare thing, because as long as you spend a long time with one person, you will gradually understand the other person and know what the other person likes. Even two people who live together for a long time will gradually become similar in many things. , Naturally there will be a tacit understanding. If the other party likes it, he will naturally know it, and he will know it without him opening his mouth.
In fact, what people show is easy to guess, and what people don’t show, few people can understand themselves.When two people are together, it is impossible to say everything. Sometimes they can't say what they worry about, what they like, or what they want.
And the person who really understands you, he doesn't need you to say, he will know what you want with the look of your eyes. It is probably this kind of blessing to meet such a person.
Have the same hobbies and lifestyle
Life is actually very boring, especially when you are old enough to support yourself, you lead the same life every day.
I leave early every day and return late every day. Every day I go to get off work, get off work, and then eat and sleep. If you live a long time like this, you will probably feel that life is meaningless.
In order to add some fun to themselves, people always change the way to please themselves. Every day they want to eat something delicious, buy some good things to reward themselves, and then make themselves as comfortable as possible.
The pursuit of people is different. Some people want to live a high-quality life, and then they are not afraid of suffering and tiredness, while some people just want to live comfortably.
So, when you find someone who is almost the same as you among people with different lifestyles and hobbies, it shows that you are really connected.
Tolerance is the basis for you to get along
There are not many couples who have no conflicts in their relationship. No matter how vigorous the first love is, how much eachother has had, how much love will be lived over time Diluted by the chai, rice, oil and salt. Therefore, there is actually no person in this world who has always loved you and has not changed you at all.
Someone will only be the one who is always willing to tolerate you, because he understands that love is true love at the beginning, and it will gradually become family affection. If you really love someone, you must love to the end , Must not love halfway and stop loving.
So,Although it won't be too crooked, tolerance is the normal way for you to get along. Your relationship will become particularly harmonious because of your tolerance. Although it is plain and plain, it is absolutely happy.
Conclusion:
In fact, people are constantly trying no matter what they do, try which way is more suitable for them, and what kind of talents are best for them.
Love also requires constant experimentation. Although there will be many people in this life, and there will be more than one person who will fall in love with, but if two people are inappropriate together, there is no common hobby, and there is nothing comfortable. The way of getting along with each other, do not understand each other, do not understand, then such feelings will eventually break up, because people will have a choice, and everyone chooses the person who suits them.
Therefore, feelings are cherished. When you meet the person who really suits you, you can cherish it. Maybe you miss it and you will never meet it again.
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