Little Xiong's introduction:
In many cases, people's hearts are as mysterious as ghosts and gods. Many people who seem to be close to us are likely to be replaced with faces we have never seen before. As a person grows up, he will wear more and more masks on his face. We will always behave differently in front of different people. Through the way one treats us, one can see how one treats us. The more people who look down on you, the more they will treat you in these three ways, but many people don't know it.
1. Always avoid you deliberately.
People always say that thirty-six tactics are the best tactics, not to be offended but they can be avoided. Therefore, when people face danger or some helpless situation, or even face some people they don't like, they instinctively choose to escape. Escape is really the easiest and best method in the world, and to a certain extent, it can avoid a lot of trouble. Therefore, many people like to use this evasive method to treat people they don't want to treat or look down on, and find troublesome. If you find that there is someone around you who is always avoiding you, avoiding you, and avoiding you, then he should just look down on you or hate you.
Second, deliberately mock you, ridicule you.
The nature of human beings is to bully the weak and fear the hard, and to bully the weak. A person does not dare to treat someone who is greater than himself in terms of status and rights, but he can attack the weak. Therefore, most people worship and flatter those who are better than themselves, better than themselves, and more capable than themselves, but they will despise or look down upon those who are weaker than themselves. So when you find that there are a few people around you who are always deliberately mocking you, ridiculing you, no matter what they say, they will point to you as if they are in the words, you can be sure that this person doesn't look down on you at all.
Third, treat you as the air and ignore your existence.
Respect is the most basic concept in the interaction between people. Only on the basis of respect can people establish other social relationships. Whether it’s family, friendship or love,All these relationships are built on respect. And if there is always someone by your side, no matter what you do, he will ignore your existence, treat you as the air, and not put you in his eyes, then obviously he does not respect you at all, let alone treat you Seriously.
Xiao Xiong's conclusion:
As the saying goes, the way is different, and it is not the same. If two people are inconsistent with three views, personalities, pursuit of ideals, etc., it is indeed difficult to come together. Therefore, if you find that there is someone in your life who doesn't look down on you at all, or even bothers to be friends with you, then you don't have to deliberately please him. Everyone has everyone's pride, he can't appreciate your goodness, and you don't have to be with him.
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