The Buddha said that in our lifetime, it is destined to meet who we meet, and who we are with is already destined. Everything is an arrangement of fate.
And our marriages in this life are also closely related to our previous lives. As the saying goes, the cycle of cause and effect in life, the cause of the past life, the effect of this life. There is a very philosophical saying that the lover is the debt of the previous life, and the wife is the grace of the previous life.
1. The lover is the debt of the previous life
Why do you say that the lover is the debt owed in the previous life, because this life needs to pay off the debt, the previous life owed the other party, so the other party has been entangled, but because it is a debt, the other party will ask for it , So it is necessary to use the identity of the lover to make up.
When you make up enough, the fate between you will come, so we can find that we have paid a lot for the lover, but we can't make it to the end.
This is because the relationship between debt and debt is short-term. Once the debt is paid off, all the fate will no longer exist.
2. Wife is the benefactor of the past life
And the wife who is married in this life is the benefactor of his previous life. There is no way to repay each other in the previous life, so in this life, it takes a lifetime to love and repay each other. At this time, you have formed a husband and wife, because only husband and wife are the ones who can go through a lifetime.
This kind of kindness is different from debts, debts can be made up, but kindness can't be made up, even in this life, it may not be able to make up, so the fate between husband and wife is constantly being dealt with, if it is easy If you choose to give up, you will have to repay it in your next life.
Concluding remarks: The fate between husband and wife is much deeper than that of lovers. Lovers are temporary visitors, but husband and wife are partners for life. It is easy for lovers to meet and to leave. It is not easy for husband and wife to meet, and it is not easy to leave. A truly happy couple will go through their lives hand in hand. This is the return of each other's kindness and happiness in the next life.If you have to be with your lover, and abandon your wife, you will eventually mess up your fate, and you will get retribution in your next life.
All actions are like dreams and bubbles, like dew and electricity, and should be viewed as such.
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