Leng Qingqiu's love with Jin Yanxi is a tragedy.
From free love to flash marriage and childbirth, the love between the two comes quickly and goes quickly; married into a wealthy family, Qingqiu, and the prodigal young master Jin Yanxi, only the chicken feathers after marriage are left.
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The TV series "The Family of the Golden Powder" created a pair of "resent puppets". Leng Qingqiu and Jin Yanxi did not have sweet days after their marriage, but they were endless Quarrels, cold wars, gunsmoke, and finally weary each other.
Until all good feelings are exhausted, full of regrets, and helpless.
In the end, Leng Qingqiu took the child to leave. Jin Yanxi looked for deserted autumn in regret but failed. The two missed each other, and each went to the end.
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Jin Yanxi and Leng Qingqiu's family background and personality, have long foreshadowed a mismatch: one is a wealthy young master, rich in clothes and food, does not seek to make progress, spends a lot of money , Loves to make friends with wine and meat; while the other is a poor school girl with a hard life and a quiet temperament. She doesn't like lively, she just likes to read and write.
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I was originally a person from two worlds, but in an encounter, Jin Yanxi fell in love with Leng Qingqiu at first sight and couldn't help himself.
Then Jin Yanxi went crazy in pursuit of Leng Qingqiu. Leng Qingqiu originally hated his dude's piety, but was slowly moved by his enthusiasm. The two began to date and travel frequently. You and I are extremely hot.
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When two people live together, their own ideas and habits,Will be exposed. Jin Yanxi spends a lot of money, walks too close to friends of the opposite sex, and often does not go home at night. These behaviors make Leng Qingqiu unacceptable.
She can't tolerate an adult man wandering around all day, relying on his parents to live his life; seeing Jin Yanxi really disappointed, Leng Qingqiu had to show up and find a job.
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This improper marriage is destined not to last for too long. In the magnificent Golden Mansion, she and her husband are not happy in the cold and peaceful autumn; The elder sisters and the aunts have almost no common language; Jin Yanxi did not bother to understand her. Leng Qingqiu, the young grandmother, is more willing to chat with the maid and become a sister.
In Leng Qingqiu's bones, she is actually very lonely. She stayed up all night waiting for her husband to come home, and her eyes were red from crying. For her birthday, she didn't know who to mention it, so she wrote a sad poem alone.
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Many people say that it was a mistake for Leng Qingqiu to marry Jin Yanxi. If she was with Ouyang Yujian, she would be happy.
But is it true?
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Ouyang Yujian has culture, passion and integrity. He likes writing poetry like Leng Qingqiu, unlike Jin Yanxi who uses other people's works in pursuit of coldness; The two literary and artistic youths understand each other and cherish each other; what's even more rare is that they have similar backgrounds and have almost the same perception of poverty.
But these are not the guarantee of happiness when two people are together.
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First of all,Leng Qingqiu's relationship with Ouyang Yujian is only a teacher-student relationship, a friendship, but no love
Leng Qingqiu likes romance, she has extremely high requirements for love, which can be seen from her attitude towards Jin Yanxi after marriage After coming out, she did not allow Jin Yanxi to have any shortcomings. Once he did something that did not meet her expectations, she would become hysterical.
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Although Ouyang Yujian really likes Leng Qingqiu, compared to Jin Yanxi, he is not bold and direct enough, and he will not change his style and make a cold date. Ouyang Yujian couldn't give the feeling Leng Qingqiu wanted. Two people like are together, and the marriage is like a stagnant water. There is no life at all.
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Secondly, the native families of the two were not satisfactory and both were affected by it
Ouyang Yujian had many complaints because of his bad background, he was in school When teaching, Jin Yanxi who came in casually replaced the course. Ouyang, who is truly knowledgeable, stays at home, but Jin Yanxi, the son of the son, who relies on his father's influence, can take the place of schoolgirls, which is really ironic.
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Ouyang Yujian once complained to his mother that he "does not have a good father". This kind of inherent feeling of injustice made him more criticized in the family. One or two can be glimpsed in his attitude towards his mother.
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But Leng Qingqiu is too poor to afford a pair of shoes, and her uncle has been forcing her to climb Jinyanxi high.
If Ouyang and Leng Qingqiu unite, it is undoubtedly that the difficulties of the two families have all piled up together. Then they will be full of complaints. How can they talk about happiness?
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Finally,The personalities of the two are easy to feel depressed
Leng Qingqiu is not good at talking, withdrawn, cold, inactive, and will not create a lively atmosphere; while Ouyang Yujian is the leader of the student movement. There is a clear understanding of the ideal gap, and there is a radical and resentful side. Two people like
are suitable for working together or being friends; if you really want to live together every day, the air at home may be suffocating.
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Leng Qingqiu fell in love with Jin Yanxi because he can drive her emotions. Jin Yanxi is passionate, high-profile, straightforward and generous, and Jin Yanxi is also very interesting , It is pleasant to fall in love with him.
Jin Yanxi has no pressure from the world; while Ouyang Yujian has shouldered too many responsibilities and sufferings, so he cannot fall in love carefree, and the woman with him must share him. Of burden.
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Leng Qingqiu does not love Ouyang Yujian. This is the root cause of the two cannot get together. If Leng Qingqiu will be with him, he must also Will feel it. A marriage without love is a prison for two people.
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