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Many women who are in love and even in marriage are still struggling with themselves Does his man love himself, how much he loves himself.
In "War of Emotions", a mentor once said to a female friend with relationship problems: "Don't ask how much the other person loves you. Does she love you or not, can't you feel it?"
Yes Love is like coughing and poverty. Even if you cover your mouth, it will show through your eyes. Whether a person loves you or not, the details can't deceive people, and it feels like they can't deceive people.
Whether he loves you or not is actually hidden in the details of how you get along.
Below, the most direct way to recognize how much a man loves you is to see if he has these three actions in getting along. If a man loves you or not, these "three actions" in getting along will tell you that he can't deceive people. Come and see together.
involuntarily "caring"
Although we often say that feelings do not require vigor and vigor, it is plain and plain, but if a man's feelings for you are so plain that even caring for you is rare, then you Can you ask for how much he loves you?
A few days ago, I watched an Indian movie called "Indian Partner". A man made cushions for his wife for the sake of his wife’s health and safety. Everyone around even thought he was crazy, squeezing him out and laughing at him, just Even his closest family despised him and wanted to stay away from him, but he still did not give up.
In order to make a better product, he personally experienced it. As a result, his crotch was so embarrassed that he jumped directly into the river. Everyone in the village accused him of polluting the river. Her wife was also caught by his two brothers. Brought back to her natal home.
In India at that time, because of high import tariffs, only 12% of women could afford pads, while the remaining 88% of women could only rely on a piece of rag to survive the aunt. More terrible than this is that everyone is willing to spend 55 rupees to pray for the blessing of the gods, but they are not willing to spend 52 rupees to buy a pack of sanitary napkins.
The doctor said that every month, more than 20 girls come to see the doctor during menstruation. They are all using some unclean and unhygienic rags. Some people use leaves or even furnace ash to dispose of them. It also caused many girls to be unable to have children at a young age, and even died for this.
This man even dreamed of his wife’s abdominal pain in the middle of the night and was sent to the hospital. He swears that he cannot let his wife get sick and leave him. He must let his wife use a safe pad, and he has paid a lot for it. The big price can almost be said that the people betrayed their relatives, left their homes, and even owed debts.
Fortunately, the ending is perfect. He invented a simple machine and successfully started his business. He helped thousands or even hundreds of millions of Indian women and used cheap and safe cushions.
In my opinion, this man is the ultimate expression of loving and caring for his wife.
The original intention of making cushions is for the safety and hygiene of his wife. Those who care about his wife's life and safety undoubtedly want his wife to be safe, and that two people can join hands for more years.
This kind of love is the highest level of care, and this kind of care is an expression of loving each other to the fullest.
Knowing whether a man loves you or not is actually very simple. It depends on whether he involuntarily cares about you, your mood, your body, your health, and your future.
"Talking" unsuspectingly
It is not surprising that a man with a lot of talk talks to the other half, but if a "sullen", dull, introverted person is even very introverted in the eyes of others There are few men who speak words, but in front of their wives, they have to share their daily knowledge and say something that is not painful. Then I think this man must love you.
I once saw a celebrity post on Weibo: A woman who lives in happiness can easily become verbose and nagging. I deeply agree that this sentence is also true for men.
If the relationship between husband and wife is not good, if no matter what you say, the other person is negative and disapproving, if you do not give timely feedback for your long-winded and nagging each other,So where do you share and express interest?
I have written many times about my parents. I remember the family sitting in front of the TV and watching TV. My mother was sitting next to my father, and my mouth would talk about things that had nothing to do with the plot. My father was all "Well, oh" responded, and occasionally expressed his own opinions.
My sister laughed and said loudly to her father: "Dad, aren't you annoying? Why are you talking so much? I'm tired of listening." My father smiled and replied, "Well, I'm used to it." At that time I think the relationship between my parents is really good.
After I often turn off the lights and go to bed, I hear my parents chatting and chatting in the room. Sometimes they get up early in the morning to see that they have not gotten up yet, but they have started a new day in the room." communicate with".
The ancient Greek poet Menander once said: For people, language is a doctor who heals troubles. Because only it has the incredible power to heal the soul. And ancient wise men called language "magic medicine".
I once read a marriage story. The wife asked for a divorce because she listened to a recording for her husband. The recording was at night when the house was so quiet that even the sound of mopping the floor could be heard clearly. There was almost no communication between the couple. The wife said: "Did you not notice? The house is too quiet, it is not like a home."
The smoke in a family, in addition to the hot food in the kitchen, there should be harmony and joy among people Communicate, listen, talk, and even make noise. It is said that couples who have quarreled all the year round are still quarreling, because quarreling is also a way of communication. I am afraid that those feelings of zero communication will really suffocate people.
A woman sees whether a man loves you, it depends on whether he is willing to confide unguardedly, about his family, about his weakness, about his career, about his relationship, about his most proud and shameful things , About his growth experience and future plans...
If he can tell you everything about him defenselessly, and can talk to you as soon as he encounters troubles and difficulties, then there is no doubt that you It is his closest, trusted, and favorite person.
can’t help being "lewd"
the love that people longed for in ancient times,It's the passion but the courtesy, just like a secret love, it's the want to touch but then retracts the hand. But that kind of love is one-way, and there is no way to make love.
The true love between two people not only meets each other, but also meets each other.
Regardless of whether a man is to a woman or a woman to a man, there will be a kind of "lewdness" to the other person that is different from the other opposite sex. Because I love you, I can't help it, and the other person is also because of love, so I accept, cooperate and enjoy.
Platonic spiritual love can hardly exist in real life, or it is the kind that cannot be loved.
In a real marriage relationship, if there is no physical communication between the couple, then the relationship will sooner or later have problems, or problems have already occurred just because the children are perfunctory without tearing their faces.
I remember a writer said that the radius of love is very narrow, because it only allows one person to enter, and when the object of love is only one person, it can be considered loyal. If there are more people, then it is not love. .
We can’t say that a man who is “lewd” to you loves you, but you must know that a man who is willing to spend money for you does not necessarily really love you, but it must be someone who is not willing to spend money for you Do not love you the same. People who don't have "eroticism" towards you in their relationship, don't doubt, he must not love you, or he doesn't love you anymore.
The ancients said: "Food sex is also." Now it is not the age of "talking about sex change". When we talk about sex, we can't talk about sex like the old Indian men, women and children treated "pads". , They all said it was dirty.
Love is a natural and natural thing. "Laughter" is also human nature.
Therefore, a man who truly loves you will definitely be "lecherous" towards you. It is not because he is perverted. On the contrary, it is precisely because he loves you that he will act on you. It is also because of his loyalty. Be lustful to you and automatically block other women.
Above, wanting to recognize whether a man loves you is actually very simple. It depends on whether he can involuntarily "care" for you, unsuspectingly "confuse", and can't help being "lewd".
"Caring", "Talking" and "Laughter" are actually expressions of love for you.One is reflected in daily life, one is reflected in the exchange of ideas, and the other is reflected in the communication of the body.
May you be warm in winter, may you meet your beloved, and may the men you meet give you a sense of security, may you not ask men whether they love or not, but in every detail of your daily relationship, In every action of a man, you can feel full of love.
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