"The life and growth of children are issues that parents care about and care about. In addition to life and study, parents also want to know the inner activities of children at different times at any time.
Although this idea is from the perspective of caring for and caring about children, for children in the growth period, especially in adolescence, everyone gradually has their own little secrets, and these secrets cannot be known to parents. So parents of children in adolescence are also also for children in adolescence. "One head and two big ones" don't know how to teach correctly so as not to destroy the relationship between the two parties.
And the most troublesome problem among parents is naturally premature love. For children in adolescence, they are in a period of beautiful fantasy and ignorant . For them at this period, love is also innocent and beautiful. Many students also have the seriousness and persistence of the people they like during this period. but not Young parents regard early love as a "flood" and as long as they encounter "one-size-fits-all" it will inevitably cause many adolescent teenagers to develop a rebellious mentality. Compared with this thorough suppression method, parents might as well learn the mother's approach.
The younger brother found the first-year junior high school brother " Marriage Certificate ", the content is real and formal. After taking a photo, the mother quietly put it back to
This interesting little thing happened in a family in Shaanxi. By chance, my brother accidentally dug out the "marriage certificate" written by his brother who was in the first grade of junior high school while sorting out his own "marriage certificate" by his brother. This mother discovered the "marriage certificate" of the brother. The handwritten "marriage certificate" in was found in the brother's book, and it can also be seen from the picture that this "marriage certificate" is well preserved.
When the brother excitedly showed this red "marriage certificate" to his mother, the mother was also stunned at first. It was surprising, , but my mother also found that although it was just a handwritten "marriage certificate", she saw the neat handwriting on it, and the content was very formal. Not only did it mark the time, but it also had the handprints of two people. It seemed that both parties attached great importance to this "marriage certificate".
What is more touching is that although this "marriage certificate" is not formal, the above content touched many people very much. This "marriage certificate" seems to be a play-in-one "marriage certificate" on it. It says: You cannot divorce for 5 years during marriage, and if any of the two parties has illnesses, you cannot divorce and abandon each other. sees such a formal and true "marriage certificate", which reveals true feelings. The mother said: She will not ask about the child, and will secretly put it back after taking photos. Show him when she grows up.
and the mother also said that her child is a very self-disciplined person. Her academic performance has always been among the best. If it weren't for the brother's accidental discovery I am not aware of this. 's mother's approach has also attracted the recognition and praise from many netizens, believing that this approach to protecting the hearts of children and protecting the privacy of children is worth learning from every parent.
Early love during puberty is not uncommon, and the handwritten "marriage certificate" is a beautiful fantasy of teenagers about love
In fact, for teenagers in puberty, the phenomenon of early love is not uncommon for teenage boys and girls in puberty. This period is when boys and girls are curious about the opposite sex and are prone to good luck. During the period of feeling, likes someone because they want to be with this person for a long time. Even for small things like sitting in their seats, they can’t stand the sand in their eyes.
And like the "marriage certificate" handwritten by the first-year junior high school brother above, many teenagers who love early in adolescence also like to convey their love by confessing their love. After all, for young people, this seemingly childish way is also their best commitment and yearning for a beautiful love. Although love in youth is both beautiful and innocent, it is still unacceptable to parents. So, as parents, how should they view the problem of early love for their children?
Early love is not a disaster. Parents should also guide them correctly. They may gain a good ending in the future.
Teacher Huang Lei, who regards his daughter as everything, faces this topic during an interview: It is very normal for a boy or girl to have a good impression of the opposite sex when she is fourteen or five years old. It is a natural thing that people themselves have. What parents should do more is to remind and guide her to develop in a better and healthier direction.
In fact, Teacher Huang Lei’s words are the mentality that parents should have when encountering such problems. If they blindly accuse and abuse their children and think that they do not know how to cherish themselves, this will backfire and cause a bad situation. Instead, we should correctly guide , tell the children the problems they need to face and the responsibilities they need to bear when they fall in love, let them understand what they want to go, establish correct ideas, and guide and educate slowly. Only in this way can children spend their youth better! And maybe you will get a happy ending in the future!
[Author’s message] The brother’s “marriage certificate” was accidentally dug out by his younger brother. His mother’s heartwarming behavior attracted praise from netizens. This behavior of protecting children’s privacy and respecting children is worth learning from every parent!
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