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How much does a month’s living expenses cost to spend in college? The topic of
has always attracted everyone's attention, but there are many different opinions. In fact, the followers are either college students themselves or their children are in college, and everyone has a say in this topic. Why do people have different opinions? This requires considering the actual situation, such as the consumption level of the city where the university is located, the level of the school, the family economic conditions, the students' own situation, etc.
So it will be different. Families with better conditions generally do not care. Parents also try their best to meet their children's requirements. After all, children are studying alone in other places and parents cannot accompany them, so they will provide the greatest material support.
Of course, some parents will intentionally exercise their children's ability to "suffer and thrift" and cultivate their children's correct consumption concepts, so they will put some constraints on their children.
There are also parents who treat their children separately, such as the concept of "girls raise children with wealth and boys with poverty", which will make some male students more financially in school.
Also, the family conditions are not very good, and the children are not sensible, they just ask for money, and in the end the parents will become more tired and the children will not meet the requirements. Of course, there are also more sensible students who will spend as little money as possible and add less burden to their families.
So, this topic is also a big deal. There will be various situations in the world and all kinds of situations. Although the standard cannot be achieved, it is still more meaningful to establish and cultivate a better consumption concept for children.
Let’s first look at a case. On a social platform, a freshman’s mother “complained” her son’s situation - she rejected the requirement of her freshman to increase her living expenses. She didn’t have a life of her son and was unhappy with her husband’s illness. The planned monthly living expenses of 2,000 yuan were in urgent need of her. She also took grades like high school to seek rewards. Times have changed. This trick is not suitable for the present. The grades of a subject English test are still 100,000 miles away from being admitted to the postgraduate; I can’t break the vicious cycle without being cruel. I can’t refuse like this. What methods will you use to deal with children who increase their living expenses? Is the living expenses of
2,000 yuan enough?
For cities with relatively high consumption levels such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen and Jiangsu, 2,000 yuan is not enough? But students are different. Students don’t have to pay rent because there is a dormitory, and the biggest expense is daily meals, clothes, etc.
Considering that the students are boys, I think the living expenses of 2,000 yuan are still enough. No matter how expensive the school meal is, it will cost up to 50 yuan a day (mostly twenty or thirty yuan), which will cost up to 1,500 yuan, and there will be 500 yuan in wealth. If you attend a dinner twice a month, each AA costs 100 yuan, and there is still 300 yuan. I don’t buy new clothes every month, so 2,000 yuan is already enough.
If the city he is in is a place with a low consumption level, it can be said that 2,000 yuan is very rich. Then, for myself, 1,000 yuan was left in 2015. Times change, but not too much.
What if it is a female classmate? This is really hard to say. After all, it is not a girl. I can’t understand what aspects are necessary and what aspects are not very necessary. I can only listen to some investigations and interviews. The answer is not certain. Some students say that 1,500 is enough, while others say that 3,000 is a bit urgent.
consumption methods are diversified and family income is unstable.
The above is just a theoretical analysis, and we must also combine it with the actual situation. The author mentioned his 15 years of college life, but at that time, we were not as good as escape from the secret room, nor did we go to the script to kill, at most we could drink and sing. Therefore, society is developing, and now college students' consumption methods have become more diversified.
Taking this into account, and it is understood that the consumption of scripts is generally not low. Under the influence of this factor, the emergencies of university living expenses seem to become more common and reasonable.
On the other hand, netizens will say, since the expenses are so great, why not make money by yourself?
combines the family’s income and this issue, let’s discuss it again.
We cannot ignore the factor of "mask", let alone this impact.
Under the influence of this factor, the income of many families has become less stable than before, and there are fewer ways to increase their income. Therefore, this creates a problem - children's demands have increased, while family income has stopped moving forward or even sluggish, and conflicts have emerged.
Let’s talk about work-study and study. Under the influence of this factor, there are fewer ways to work-study and study. Before, students in college could leave the school at will, and even in the early morning, the guard would not stop him. More free management will bring convenient conditions to students.
Some students will work as tutors, or send flyers, or go to the mall to be dolls in the atmosphere group, or... Nowadays, leaving school has become a problem, and the ideas and sources of income in this regard have become unknown.
always has many effects. Since you can’t leave the school gate, it means that you have fewer opportunities to go out for fun, so your consumption will also decrease accordingly.
But why are there still things that are not enough to spend when it is good or bad?
I think it is still a question of consumption concept. In the long term, people have developed certain habits. It is easy to go from frugality to extravagance, but it is difficult to go from extravagance to frugality. When you are rich, you often go out to eat or order takeout. When you are nervous, you are still used to ordering takeout. Order delicious food, and you can often cost 50 or 60 yuan per meal.
So, this mom who complained said that the era of using grades to seek success has passed, and we should not be abusive to the "young master's illness" and we must be cruel to break the vicious cycle.
is right to have this idea, but whether it is feasible still needs to be based on your own situation. For example, if the child has a paranoid personality, such practice will undoubtedly cause family conflicts and increase misunderstandings between parents and children.
So here I am still trying to attract attention. It is important for children to establish and cultivate a correct consumption concept in college. But more importantly, parents should consider what methods to solve this problem. It is best to communicate well and let their children understand this practice, so that they can lay a solid foundation for cultivating correct consumption concepts. Otherwise, the contradiction will intensify and the effect will not meet expectations.
At the end of the article, I also want to tell the students who are studying, you must try to understand the difficulty of your parents, and make money by your own efforts. You will understand more clearly that "a thread of thought should be hard to come by."