Puppy love is a behavior that the school expressly prohibits, because puppy love will distract students' energy and affect their learning. But now the phenomenon of students' puppy love is repeated, and the teacher is also worried about this. Recently, it was reported on the Internet that the head teacher of a middle school in Shuangyashan, Heilongjiang found that two students in the class were in a puppy love, and angrily abused and slapped the female student. In the
video, in a corner of the classroom corridor, a boy in a school uniform is standing by, and a female teacher is sternly questioning a girl: Why are you so shameless? Lean on people, this is the classroom. Is this your home or hotel? After he finished speaking, he slapped the girl.
The female teacher kept questioning the girls, slapped the girls in the face, and asked angrily: How did I teach you, do you still have me in your eyes? Do you want to lose face? The girl who was beaten apologized to the teacher, saying that she was wrong, but the female teacher did not accept the apology from the female student, and was still accusing and abusing the girl, and her words were quite ugly.
In response to this, the staff of the Disciplinary Inspection Team of the Shuangyashan Municipal Commission for Discipline Inspection and Supervision stationed in the Education and Sports Bureau responded that they already knew about this matter, and the bureau has been involved in the investigation, but the specific situation is still unclear.
This matter has caused great controversy on the Internet. Puppy love for students has indeed become one of the most difficult problems faced by teachers. It should be discovered and corrected in time, but the teacher used such a violent method to treat a female classmate. , is indeed too much. Moreover, he abused the students with aggressive language, which would hurt the self-esteem of the students.
Teenage is the adolescence of students, full of curiosity and impulsiveness towards the opposite sex. Once the red line is crossed, the consequences will be very serious. If a student is found to be in a puppy love, both teachers and parents should give correct guidance, rather than forcefully breaking it up in a rude way. If violence is used, it may cause students to have a rebellious mentality.
When dealing with students' puppy love, teachers should first respect students, and then communicate with them, understand them with reason, and move them with emotion, so that they can understand the advantages and disadvantages of puppy love, and let them weigh the benefits by themselves. It will be better than the "force" to stop it, protect the self-esteem of the students, and let them know the stakes.
