宫 said: If you don’t change your mistakes, this is called a mistake.
is said that the world is devastated and the world is suffering. But life is already so difficult, but some people just like to make things difficult for themselves, get into dead ends, and never look back without hitting their heads and bleeding.
In life, not all persistence will have a rainbow after the rain. Knowing how to change is sometimes a kind of progress.
If you are tired, just change your path, especially when you are middle-aged. You think everything is a fixed number, but as long as you work hard, you will make a big difference. Never force yourself too tight.
Confucian said: "If you have a mistake but don't correct it, it is really called a mistake."
What is "fault"? It means that a person has made a mistake but cannot correct it. It is "fault". " Disciples Rules " says: "If you can correct mistakes, you will be left to nothing; if you hide them, you will increase your innocence. " can correct mistakes, but it is not a mistake. If you don’t think it’s too much and you still have to conceal it and refuse to change it, this is “no mistakes” and add to the mistake.
If we have greed in our hearts, we must correct this greed. If you have anger, arrogance, jealousy, etc. in your heart, you must correct it. When we correct a fault, our self-nature light can reveal a little; if we correct all the faults, the self-nature light will fully appear .
Although "people are not sages, who can do without mistakes? If you correct them, there is no greater goodness", as an ordinary member of the vast number of people, I also find that I have many shortcomings.
writer Shen Congwen When he was a child, he skipped class and ran to watch puppet show "Sun Wukong crosses the Flame Mountain". He saw the sun set in the morning and returned to school reluctantly. At this time, the students had already returned home from school.
The next day, as soon as Shen Congwen entered the school gate, the teacher sternly asked him why he missed classes. He blushed and hesitated and couldn't answer. The teacher was so angry that he punished him kneeling under the tree and scolded loudly: "Look, this Nanmu tree grows up every day, but you are not motivated and willing to be a short man with no ambition."
Another day passed, and the teacher said to Shen Congwen: "Everyone is studying hard, but you sneaked to watch the show. Although I humiliated you yesterday, it is also for your own good. Only by respecting yourself can one get respect from others. "
Teacher's words moved Shen Congwen to tears. He secretly swore that he must remember the lesson this time and be a respected person. Since then, Shen Congwen has been strictly demanding himself and eventually worked hard to become a famous writer.
"Who can be without mistakes?" The key is not to be wrong, but to be corrected, and to ensure that the same mistakes will not be repeated in the future.
It is not scary to make mistakes. What is scary is to insist on errors and not correct them. Confucius used the concise language of "not changing mistakes is called mistakes" to tell people the truth and correct mistakes. This is the only correct attitude towards mistakes.