One day, the old monk took the young monk down the mountain to travel. On the way, he encountered a river, but there was no bridge nearby. Seeing a woman thinking about crossing the river, she didn't dare to pass. The old monk took the initiative to carry the woman across the riv

One day, the old monk took the young monk down the mountain to travel. On the way, he encountered a river, but there was no bridge nearby. Seeing a woman thinking about crossing the river, she didn't dare to pass. The old monk took the initiative to carry the woman across the river, then put her down and continued on the road with the little monk. The little monk couldn't help but mutter: What's wrong with Master? How dare you carry a woman across the river? Forgot whether men and women can teach each other or not? What's more, we are still monks? I couldn't figure it out all the way, but finally I couldn't help it and said, "Master, have you broken the precepts? Why did you bear the woman?" The old monk sighed, "I have already let it go, but you can't let it go!"

In the past, there seemed to be a song called "Let go", which sang: "I have loved, hated, let go, have pain, see through..." However, all living beings in the world are bustling with each other for profit; the world is bustling with each other for profit. Who can let go easily?

Yes, it is not easy to carry it, but it is even more difficult to let go. Xiang Yu cannot let go of . "Strive to pull the mountain and the aura is beyond the world." Xiang Yu can be regarded as a man who can bear it, but it is difficult to let go. The fourth year of the Chu-Han fight between , Han Xin and him started the duel at Gaixia , and began the famous " Battle at Gaixia ". Finally, Xiang Yu fell into Han Xin's ambush. Everyone felt that the situation was hopeless and his confidants had escaped. Han Xin also composed Chu Ge and sang it to the soldiers every night, so that they had no intention of fighting and just wanted to go home. This is the celebrating all sides. Xiang Yu knew that he was out of power and felt even more indebted to Yu Ji . He knew that his wife's fate would become so miserable after death. He sang the last lyrics of "Strive to pull out the mountains and the spirit is vast, the time is not good, the horse will not pass away; what can you do if you don't pass away? What can you do if you don't pass away? What can you do if you don't die?" It is indeed sad. Yu Ji could sacrifice her life for her husband, and then said, "The Han soldiers have already broken up and are surrounded by enemies. The king is exhausted. How can I live a bad life?" With the enemy in front of him, Xiang Yu was actually inferior to a woman in a desperate situation. In order to eliminate Xiang Yu's worries, he drew his sword and committed suicide, but Xiang Yu couldn't let go of his love for his children. "What can Yu Ji and Yu Ji do?"

Look at Huaiyin Hou Han Xin's evaluation of Xiang Yu:

Xin congratulated again and said, "Please tell me about King Xiang 's human beings. King Xiang saw that people were respectful and kind, and vomited, and they were sick, so they cried and shared their food and drink. If they made merits, they should be awarded the title, and they would be too impartial to give it to them. This is what is called the kindness of a woman. What does it mean? That is to say, King Xiang treats people with respect and kindness, gentle words, and sick people cry with heartache, and share their own food with them. When some people make military achievements and should be awarded the title, they should put the engraved seal in their hands to play with the loss of grinding. After leaving the edges and corners, he can't bear to give it to others. This is what is called the kindness of a woman. What Xiang Yu couldn't put down this replay is profit. But what Liu Bang could let go of Liu Bang at the Hongmen Banquet was fame. Xiang Yu couldn't let go of his children's love and fame and fortune in his life, but he finally let go of the world. On the other hand, Liu Bang was a master who could let go of everything.

King of Han , and then he drove away. Chu cavalry chased the King of Han, and the King of Han was anxious and pushed him under the chariot of Xiaohui and Lu Yuan. Gong Teng often downloaded it, and there were three such things. He said: "Although it is urgent, you can't drive it away, so why not abandon it! "So he got rid of it.

Look, at the critical moment, he didn't even want his own flesh and blood;

At this time, Peng Yue turned against Liang and cut off the food of Chu. King Xiang was worried about it, so he put it on the high stake and placed it on the top of Taigong, and told the King of Han, "I won't hurry now, I will cook Taigong. "The King of Han said, "I and Xiang Yu both received the order from the north to King Huai, saying, "I am a brother." My old man is like an old man. If you want to cook, you will be lucky to get a share of my pie. "King Xiang was angry and wanted to kill him. Xiang Bo said: "There is no way to know the world, and those who are the world do not care about their family. Even if it is useless to kill, it will only bring disaster. "Xiang Wang followed this.

" You and I become brothers, my father is your father. When cooking my father, give me a bowl of soup. "Liu Bang really can let go of the enemy, and his own father can't take care of it.

In fact, the reason why people are troubled is that they have too good memory, too many desires, too much thoughts, remember those things that they shouldn't remember, and can't let go of things that they can't.

There are as much desires as you have in life, as much pain as you have, and as much tolerance as you have, you will be as much happiness as you have. If you can't let go of your heart, it will naturally become a burden. The more burdens you have, the less happy life will be. Then, why do we have to seek troubles and hurt others and ourselves?

The clearness of water is not because it contains no impurities, but because it is about knowing how to settle; the transparency of the mind is not because there are no distracting thoughts, but because it is about understanding choices; the leaves fall to the ground, not giving up or betrayal, but to kiss the earth and another kind of life. If you don’t have any worries about it, it’s a good time in the world. Without mediocre people disturbing themselves and having nothing to do in their hearts, it is a calm attitude towards life. Do not use other people's affairs as topics, do not worry about things that you can do without unnecessary tedious concerns, and you can live a comfortable and peaceful life.

Of course, we are not like Liu Bang, who can let go of anything. The bottom line, red line, principles, and responsibilities must be kept in mind.