Have you ever wondered why people should live? A capable person influences others, and an incompetent person is injured. Truly powerful people have these four "wish powers", which invisibly or tangibly affect a person's life.

Have you ever thought about why people should live?

Chinese studies master Zeng Shiqiang said: "The ultimate value of life lies in improving and thinking ability, not just survival."

A capable person affects others, and an incompetent person is injured.

Really powerful people have these four "wish powers", which invisibly or tangibly affect a person's life.

There is a question on Zhihu: "What kind of life is a good life?"

There is a highly praised reply saying: "A good life does not need to be compared with others, but it must be better than before."

The highest level of life is not extrovert, but introvert.

Really powerful people have these four "wish powers" that invisibly or tangibly affect a person's life.

1. Flexible and resilient turning force

" Zhouyi ": The name of the new day is called virtue, and the name of life is called Yi.

is natural, and everything in the world is constantly changing. Adaptability is level, and flexible turn is practice.

As the ancients often said, keep the green mountains and don’t worry about burning firewood.

In life, don’t wait until you hit the south wall to know the change. Flexible turns and timely adaptation may lead to different results.

Mr Zeng Shiqiang said: When things develop to the extreme, changes will occur. The sixty-four hexagrams of the Zhouyi will change. As the change progresses, there is a chance to turn the peak.

fortune gives you a lower starting point than others, which is to tell you that you will spend your whole life fighting a story of life in the Jedi.

The success or failure of a thing usually lies not in the starting point, but in the turning point.

What really determines the height of your life is not the starting point, but every major turning point in your life, and your turning point.

2. Resilience of self-healing

In our lives, we will encounter countless difficulties, which will cause us to fall into anxiety passiveness. Is the problem of solving anxiety surrendering to it? Or deal with the uneasiness it brings?

Maybe avoiding it can let us relax for a while, but it will be painful for a lifetime. If you avoid anything, you will accompany your life like a maggot.

Therefore, to solve the uneasiness and solve the turmoil, you cannot choose to stop, you can only solve it, refactor it, and change it.

Mr. Zeng Shiqiang said: "When challenging work outside of the psychological comfort zone, his experience will soar after experiencing work that may not be able to do."

1 While improving life experience, it will inspire innate recovery ability. If you dare to hone your life, hardships will inevitably make you stronger.

Life requires the courage to become braver as you setbacks, and the courage to become braver as you fight. Learn to face and accept reality, and find the true meaning of life in times of crisis, and you will find that your true self is much stronger than you think.

3. The loneliness that does not go with the flow

Mr. Zeng Shiqiang's early academic achievements were not accepted by everyone, and they were even labeled as "supercreative activities".

solved the public opinion problem, and Mr. Zeng Shiqiang did not defend himself. Like most people, he chose to sneak in silence.

As Mr. Wang Yangming said: If you are famous in the world, you will not persuade the world, and you will not be frustrated.

If you choose to integrate into it, choose to integrate into it, and follow the trend, then you will only become countless ordinary people; but if you can persist and move against the current "the trend" will go against the current, then you can be talented from it and become one with more than tens of millions of people.

Loneliness will not destroy you, on the contrary, it can make you successful. Every day that no one cares about is a good time for you to take root.Enjoy the time alone, and in the time of loneliness, you can reap a better self.

4. The self-control of absorbing desires

Mr. Zeng Shiqiang said: People should control their own desires and their needs. Once people use their impulses, they lose their self-esteem. People who are truly strong are often people with strong self-control.

Behind many people’s ineffective efforts, they often lack a persistent heart. You must have heard of it. The story of "freshing day and fickleness".

In fact, people's hearts seem to be "monkeys", wanting everything, but often in the end they can't get anything. If you want too much, your level will be shallow and your pain will be intensified.

The correct way to do it should be to reduce the weight in your heart, concentrate on pursuing "same" objects, ensure delicateness and legitimateness.

Reduce the desire of the mind, improve the ability to control yourself, and make up your mind to gain the true meaning of life.

In life, if you don’t live well, you must improve yourself.

Each of us is the driver of our own life. Only by constantly adjusting the direction can we drive to the fast lane of life.

Only when things are adapted can you find the direction of development;

Only when things are not allowed can you ignite the flame of success;

Only when things are lonely can you unlock learning skills;

Only when things are done can you make up your mind to gain the true meaning of life.

Wang Anshi Poem: How can you get the fragrance of plum blossoms without going through the bone-cold cold?

What truly makes you do is not the earnest teachings of others. It is the definition of yourself in your heart.

May you make these four "wish powers" for the rest of your life, and the flower of life will bloom for you.