Some time ago, CCTV's popular TV series " Big Test " can be described as a documentary of the college entrance examination under the epidemic, telling the story of the senior high school students in Jinhe County growing under the severe test under the background of the 2020 new crown epidemic.
People say that the post-00s are so miserable that they didn’t catch up with the good times. The children born in Sars and taken in New Coronavirus , in this drama, they finally completed the big test of their life - the college entrance examination, and moved towards a better future.
Several of the families show the different sweetness and worries of ordinary families, giving a look to the audience of parents. Among them, Zhou Bowen's comedy family with strong and weak father left a deep impression on people...
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"Big Test": Internet addiction father and academic master son
Senior high school student Zhou Bowen is an excellent student. At his age, other students are troubled by being nagged by their parents, but he has become the "head of the family".
"Internet addiction" father Zhou Meiren has been addicted to games all year round, he is idle and does not do his job at all, and the burden of the family falls on his mother's shoulders.
His mother is another very gentle, kind and hardworking woman. She blindly accommodates and indulges in her husband.
The family’s income source is entirely based on the mother who runs the small restaurant alone. The giant baby-like father + love-brained mother. Such a configuration makes people laugh to death!
So, Zhou Bowen had to act as a "parent" and wanted to help his mother discipline his father.
In order to control his father, Zhou Bowen tried his best to do so. He changed his father's game account and dismantled his computer. He just started to do it if he didn't listen to good words.
The key is that his son Zhou Bowen is about to take the college entrance examination. Zhou Meiren not only doesn’t care, but also plays games with a computer all day long.
Dad doesn't care about his son, but his son takes care of his father instead. Zhou Bowen first changed Zhou Meiren's game account and then dismantled the computer host.
This trouble is simply a life-threatening for Zhou Meiren. Once she becomes addicted to the Internet, she becomes unwilling to eat and not thinking about it, and she is completely "demonic"! He didn't dare to blatantly confront his son, so he asked his mother to communicate.
But from another perspective, their family is an equal and democratic family environment. Although the father is controlled by his son, he does not use his own authority to suppress his children, but instead is managed wisely.
Weekly Bowen grows so well, but it is inseparable from the good education of fathers and mothers. For children, this is the best growth condition.
Zhou Bowen was dissatisfied with his useless father and even wondered what his mother liked him back then, but she was still shocked by her parents' love.
Parents are open-minded and have a harmonious relationship. What they bring to their children is not only happiness in their youth, but wealth that benefits their lives, which will affect their future studies, career, love and marriage.
Weekly blog post parents know how to put their children on an equal position and not use parental authority to suppress their children. This is a very open-minded approach.
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Daddy loves mother is the best teaching for children
American family therapist Satya said:
"A person's personality traits, life views, spiritual character, way of thinking, and living habits are deeply influenced by his original family. In the various thoughts and behaviors of children, they can see their faces the same as their parents."
Daddy loves mother is setting a good example for their children and telling him who is the most respected person in this family.
Star Du Jiang family is such a family atmosphere. The program records that they hugged and kissed in front of their children countless times, expressed "I love you" countless times, and expressed their attachment to each other countless times.
Let children live in a loving family from an early age, and it is also inheriting "love".
Du Jiang once said in some interview programs: has the lowest status in the family, Huo Siyan is a little princess and the boss of the family.
When he said this, he did not feel ashamed, but was full of pampering and pride, and even willingly admitted it.
Once Du Jiang said to umhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh A role model for forming important abilities and values. "
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The father's pattern has a great impact on the child
There was a question and answer on Zhihu: "Does the father's pattern have a great impact on the child? "
There is a praiseworthy answer: "It's very big, the father's pattern determines the child's life."
Loving families will give them countless courage to start over when they encounter difficulties and problems countless times on the road to growth, not fearing difficulties, and not retreating easily.
How many parents are there, under the banner of "for your good", interfering in their children's choices and ignoring their hearts. If you are disobedient, your child will bear the infamy of being "disobedient" and "ignorant".
might as well try to let go, give him a sense of trust and security, and believe that he can achieve the results he wants, and perhaps he will truly have a sense of accomplishment.
If you want your child to grow into a happy, generous and fearless person, then the child needs to get warmth from the surrounding environment, and this warmth can only come from the love of the family.
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