From an adult orphan who is inferior and confused, to a strong and brave mother of a child, I was moved by her changes. Life is long for decades, and happiness may be late, but it will never be absent. When she was young, she was an orphan child living in Shanghai Children's Welfare Home . Because of disability, he was sent to Shanghai Second Social Welfare Home (hereinafter referred to as Erfu Home) for upbringing after adulthood. As she grows older and rehabilitation work advances, her various abilities have been improved, and she has begun to be full of hope and concern for the future like an ordinary person. At that time, I was a "rookie" social worker who had just entered the society and was full of energy. We two girls of the same age soon became friends.
"I'm so happy to chat with you, you make me feel that we are equal," she said. I found that she has been actively participating in the activities of Erfuyuan. She is also looking forward to love and marriage when chatting, but she is a little resistant to the activities related to marriage support in the hospital. "Maybe because I am afraid, I am still a little inferior."
is obviously a very brave girl, but she is so entangled. I think I have to take her to see the world, contact people in society, and let her feel the beauty of society. She learned haircuts in the hospital, but the volunteer service in our Youth League branch happened to be short of barbers, so we hit it off. In this way, we started volunteering, and for four years.
"That was the first time I helped someone else, and I felt I was needed," she said. Helping others and helping themselves, from being a helper to help others, this change made her very happy and also made me very happy. While she was helped, I felt that I had grown a lot.
Four years of volunteer service have made her happier and more confident, and finally have the courage to take the first step. Many people introduced their partners to this smart girl, but after more than ten blind dates, she never met the right one. She began to doubt herself again and was depressed for a long time.
"I want to wait, but I'm afraid of missing out." She looked at me embarrassedly. During our communication, she became clear and decided to wait: "I want to meet the real right person and have a warm home." I encouraged her: "Good thing, you are beginning to know what you want." As for fate, you really need to wait.
Later, the caring team paired with Erfu Hospital sponsored her to undergo a cleft lip and palate repair surgery. During the days when the Ninth Hospital accompanied her for the operation, I felt the hope she ignited. After the operation, she practiced vocalization in the room every day and had a weekly re-examination. I accompanied her through that hopeful and expectant day.
She finally found the other half she wanted. Listen to her telling the little secrets of two people's love, listen to her share the scenes of her first date, help her choose a gift for her future mother-in-law, and watch her openly accept a love... From being ignorant of youth to learning to love, from being loved to knowing how to be grateful to repay love, I suddenly felt very moved and very accomplished, and I participated in and witnessed a process of transformation in my life.
On the day she got married, we, as family members, arranged a wedding for her and sent her to get married. The dean's mother held her hand through the car window and said reluctantly: "We must be fine in the future." The friends who lived together carried the dowry prepared by Erfuyuan to send her off. Her face was filled with a happy smile and she smiled and said, "Teacher, thank you. I feel so happy!" At that moment, I once again felt that my work was particularly meaningful. How lucky I could influence others like this!
The next year, she gave birth to a beautiful daughter. When I went to visit her during confinement, her eyes were filled with a smile: "I will be a good mother!" She adapted to the new role very quickly. Her past experiences did not affect her education of her children, but instead gave her children more company, care and care. I found that she was very adaptable to the role of mother, and the way she looked at her child wholeheartedly was really touching. When discussing how to take care of the baby together, she always gives me a lot of tips and tips. After two years as a full-time mother, she found a job: “You said that you must be yourself first to be a good mother."
I think she is no longer the inferior and helpless girl back then. She is a mother and a member of the family who can work together. Happiness finally knocked on her door. This is the life she wants! After more than ten years of contact, she regards me as a family member and friend. I have also seen my own growth from her growth. Life is colorful, not only with worries, but also with joy. ( Lu Tingting )
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