God cannot be everywhere, so he created the mother.
Mothers who are more powerful than gods are also helpless in the face of newborn babies, and often they can only follow the advice of the elderly: should give the child some sugar water when there is no breast milk at birth; the colostrum is very dirty and cannot be given to the child. Eat; girls are born to squeeze their nipples; when a child is born, the legs must be tied up , otherwise the feet will not wait for these nonsensical rumors, the result will actually harm the child. 
The newborn baby's weight increases by 30% , and it will be nearly eight catties at birth from six catties to the full moon; height increases by 10% , 50 cm at birth, and nearly 55 cm at full moon. The growth rate of
cannot be surpassed in any future period.
Accompanied by rapid growth and development is the rapid development of the child’s intelligence , the maturity of the child’s hearing and vision, and the gradual maturity of the child’s various systems.
If you want to prevent your child from losing at the starting line, you must master the three-character tactics of "diligence, strangeness, and things" during the newborn period.
In the neonatal period, as long as you master these three keywords, you can make your child healthier and smarter.
The first keyword: frequent sucking : breastfeeding every two hours to allow the baby to suck more.
change diapers frequently : in case the baby's butt becomes red.
Hold the child frequently and touch : increase the child's sense of security.
frequent hiccups : reduce the frequency and degree of vomiting.
sucking frequently
After the baby is born, try to breastfeed within half an hour. Early to suck the mother's nipple to the baby can stimulate the secretion of prolactin and oxytocin.
Prolactin can make the breast secrete milk faster, oxytocin can promote the contraction of the uterus. Baby
is the best lactator, recommends that breastfeed every two hours, so that the baby can suck diligently. It can make the mother's milk secretion more regular and help breastfeed smoothly.
frequently changing diapers
breast milk contains a lot of galacto-oligosaccharides and probiotics, which promote the baby's intestinal peristalsis , plus the baby's rectum is relatively short, and the ability to store stool is weak. causes the baby to eat more and more.
When urinating, the stool also comes out, so has to pull the stool n times a day, be sure to change the child's diaper frequently, put on the nipple cream when changing the diaper to protect the child’s delicate skin. Keep your child's butt dry and not easy to turn red.
frequently hugs the baby
When the cousin gave birth, the cousin’s mother-in-law said: children can’t always hug or spoil the child , and children will often have to hug them in the future. As a result, my cousin listened to what her mother-in-law said. Now the child is over three years old, and she often cries and feels insecure.
Psychology expert Gao Lan: Children can't be too spoiled before six months.
Before 6 months, the child's sense of security needs is extremely strong , at this time parents must not be stingy to hug the child, must hold the child frequently.
while holding the child while walking, let the child feel the same shaking feeling as in the mother's womb.
The child’s skin is in close contact with the mother’s skin, which helps the child gain a sense of security.
As long as the child is awake, hug the child more. When he hears the child crying, he should immediately meet the child’s needs, pick up the child, drink milk when hungry, change the diaper when he urinates, and want the mother to hold it. Hold for a while.
After bathing the child every day, put the massage oil in the heating room and give the child touches.
chats with the child while touching, tells the child to touch the big eyes when pressing the child's face, so that the child's eyes are big and bright, and the forehead becomes fuller by touching the forehead.
When touching the child's body and limbs: touch the belly, the belly is not flat, and the baby's digestion is better. Feel your little feet, which are long and straight.
can make children feel the beauty of the world, and children who are full of security will be more curious about the world and smarter.
frequent hiccups
The stomach of newborns is relatively shallow, and the stomach is horizontal , plus the part connecting the esophagus is relatively loose, and the part connecting the intestine is relatively tight.
And the child is easy to be irritable when drinking milk. When drinking air, the air and milk mix together to form bubbles. These bubbles slosh in the child's stomach and easily cause spit up.
Breastfeeding every two hours, and burp the child every two hours , put the child's chin on the adult's shoulder when burping, while holding the child's spine, cervical spine, with the hand With one hand tap the child's back from bottom to top with the empty palm, let the air in the stomach spit out through hiccups.
can reduce the baby's vomiting volume, make the food that the baby eats better digest and absorb, and promote growth and development.
The second keyword: Strange
There are seven strange things in newborns. Parents must learn to be strange and understand that these strange things are normal for children.
The first strange: young and old pimples
newborns will grow some yellow or white, pimples-like rashes on the nose or face. Also called baby acne.
may be caused by the baby's in the mother's womb. The sebaceous glands are stimulated by hormones. Parents should not use their hands to squeeze, and does not need any medicine to rub.
clothes and sheets for children, do not use washing powder to wash, but use special baby laundry detergent. is more gentle like this.
The second strange: The breast milk sucked out a few days before birth is yellow, it seems a bit dirty
From the seventh day of the child’s birth, the mother’s breast milk is called colostrum, which is yellow, looks thick and seems a bit dirty Dirty, but mothers shouldn’t give it to newborns because they feel dirty.
The content of lactose and fat in breast milk colostrum is not too high, but the protein content is very high , and these proteins contain a lot of immune factors, can improve the child's immunity.
Colostrum is the first big gift a mother gives to her child, mother must not waste it.
The third strange: children will dance and dance
when they sleep, for example, children who fall asleep, can speak or move their feet, mainly because the nervous system of newborns is not well developed, and sometimes the brain is still in the sleep.In active , there will be trembling of limbs, or sound.
This is normal, not sick, parents don’t worry too much.
The fourth strange: The false menstruation
is a very small amount of false menstruation in the baby girl’s birth week, which is reflected in a little red blood on the diaper. Parents should not be too nervous. This is during the prenatal period, is affected by the mother’s body Caused by the hormonal influence of the virus, it will be fine after a day or two.
The fifth strange: baby’s nipples are swollen
This is also a normal physiological phenomenon, do not listen to the words of the elderly to squeeze, but it will harm the child's skin.
Sixth strange: a gray-black skin on the child’s buttocks or body, also called Mongolian spot
, is a common birthmark among Asians. As the child grows up, it will gradually fade away, usually until the age of two or three. Will disappear. No treatment is required.
Seventh strange: The child’s hands and feet like to shrink into a ball
The fetus grows up in the third trimester, and the mother’s uterus is relatively narrow, so the fetus’s hands and feet are all shrunk into a ball. After birth, the child still maintains the posture in the womb. It's a bit like a frog. Mom doesn't need to tie the child's hands and feet straight, as the child will slowly become straight after walking.
The third keyword: things
In addition to daily clothes, what mothers need to prepare during the neonatal period, other items that are easy to leak are generally prepared in the third trimester.
Breast pump that promotes smooth breastfeeding
The baby sometimes sleeps, and mothers can consider using a breast pump to suck a part of the milk, which can stimulate the continuous secretion of prolactin, so that the baby has enough milk to drink .
Body oil used for touching
, such as olive oil , can be used for touching the baby to prevent the rough skin of adults from hurting the delicate skin of the child.
The neonatal baby’s nervous system is immature, and when he sleeps, he does too many unconscious movements. If it is too big, he will wake himself up. Therefore, parents should prepare a quilt for the child and wrap the child , Not only can give the child a certain sense of security, but also make the child sleep more comfortably.
diaper cream
prevents the baby’s delicate PP from being stimulated by excrement and urine.
black and white books
face, square, circle graphics, mainly in black and white. Newborns’ eyesight develops slowly, and they especially like to see such black and white contrasting patterns.
When teasing your baby during the day, you can put these books at about 20 to 30 centimeters away from the child, let the child watch , stimulate the child's vision development, but also stimulate the child's intellectual development.
The growth and development speed of newborns is very fast, mothers must grasp this time to give the child more stimulation and better care, which is conducive to the baby’s mental and physical development.
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