In fact, every child is a gift from God to parents. When the child is young, it can always bring unlimited joy to the family, but often after the elementary school, the parent’s "pain" will come, because at this time parents Not only do you have to watch your children do their homework, but you also have to worry about your children's studies.
Sometimes the teacher will call to talk about some minor problems of the child at school. Every time I listen to it, I don’t feel like I will beat the child. I am sorry for his recent performance.
and now it’s only going to elementary school, what should I do after going to junior high school or high school?
In fact, elementary school is a watershed. If there is no good education in elementary school to help children develop good learning habits and correct learning attitudes, they will only get worse and worse when they reach junior high school and high school. It's too late to train children.
In addition, primary school is also the eve of puberty, and it is the best stage of personality cultivation. If the correct education of the child is not done at this time, the future impact of the child will be significant, especially when it comes. It's hard to think about it after middle school and adolescence.
As a famous Asian singer, Chen Meiling had the same fame as Teresa Teng. Instead of continuing to develop in the golden period of her career, she chose to study abroad and pursue a doctorate in education from Stanford University, a world-renowned university.
And while she was studying and working, she did not slack in the education of her children. Finally, with more than ten years of hard work, she finally sent all three sons to Stanford University. This achievement can be said to be the greatest achievement for her mother. Recognized.
and wrote her own parenting experience in a book called "50 Educational Laws, I Send Three Sons to Stanford", and in this book, Chen Meiling also said: After the child goes to elementary school, Not all things are pushed to the teacher, because the entire responsibility of education lies with the parents. Personality formation is such an important job. If it is thrown at the school, how much impact will it have on the growth of the child?
Homlinsky once said: "In a person's life, family education accounts for 75%."
Therefore, parents should pay more attention to the education of their children, through the analysis of Chen Meiling's parenting experience And understanding, I have summarized a few educational methods, suggest that parents collect!
1. Cultivate children's self-confidence and let them be sure of themselves
Self-confidence itself is a manifestation of a person’s mental health. People who are confident in life tend to be more daring to try and believe that their abilities can bring better results, so self-confidence is often It can help a person realize his life aspirations to the greatest extent.
And everyone’s self-confidence is accumulated little by little since childhood, so parents should focus on cultivating their children’s self-confidence from an early age, which is more helpful to help children grow up healthy and happy, and give them more in daily life. With some encouragement and affirmation, a child’s heart will form a self-confidence quality over time. Once a child has such a quality, he will have the courage to try whatever he faces in life. Such children often have more opportunities , The possibility of success is also greater.
You must know that giving up before trying is the biggest failure in life!
2. Cultivate children’s interest in learning and make them fall in love with learning.
Learning has been regarded as a chore since ancient times. Therefore, there is also this classic story: "The book mountain has roads and diligence is the path, the learning sea has no end to work hard", However, Chen Meiling never thinks that learning is a painful thing. On the contrary, she believes that learning can also be very happy. She has applied this kind of happy learning method to children and achieved good results.
In Chen Meiling’s view, learning and playing do not conflict, because you can learn while playing. For example, through various building blocks, children can better understand the concept of “geometry” in mathematics, and through interesting English scenario picture books. To help children learn English better, to raise children’s interest through famous classic stories. Learning is not a rigid class. Through these entertaining and entertaining methods, children’s learning interests can often be better improved and children fall in love with learning. I'm still worriedIs the child's study bad?
My children are particularly interested in mathematics, and what I prepared for them is a set of "German Curious Dogs Learn Math Enlightenment Game with You" that has been popular in Europe for 30 years. Compared with ordinary math enlightenment games, this set is more authoritative. , Not only introduced advanced teaching concepts from Germany, Austria, Switzerland and other regions, but also closely integrated mathematics enlightenment knowledge with various games that children are interested in.
It is understood that the content of this game book is the character characteristics and learning abilities of preschool children. It sets scientific learning steps professionally, and gives the children sufficient hints and assistance during the math game, from shallow to deep, step by step Guide the children to take the initiative to step into the wonderful world of mathematics.
Faced with such a good set of books, I started with decisiveness. After I got it, the children also liked the content of the book very much. Starting from the topic, I didn't even play computer games! With such a fun way to let children learn mathematics, should we worry about their poor math?
3. Help children develop good learning habits
Learning habits play a key role in the improvement of children’s performance. Good learning habits often enable children to learn more efficiently and continuously improve themselves during the learning process. The development of learning habits is the same as the development of living habits, and both must be done when the child is young.
First of all, good study habits can allow children to learn independently, without worrying about the situation that they don’t learn without watching their children. Second, good study habits can make parents more worry-free, without worrying about children’s procrastination in doing homework and slipping numbers in class. If it happens, can such children still have poor grades?
If you didn't help your children to do this well in elementary school, then it would be too late to regret it in junior high school or high school.
