Left-behind children are a problem facing families and an eternal social issue.
When survival and companionship can only choose one of two, helpless parents can only reluctantly make a choice, closer or far away from the child. If the basic survival is unsustainable, the happiness of the company will also appear heavy. Nowadays, with the faster and faster pace of life, the pressure to earn a living is increasing. Left-behind children are not limited to poor rural and mountainous areas. Some children in county-level cities will also be forced to become members of the left-behind children for various reasons. .
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. However, staying behind is neither sad nor terrible. The sad thing is that the children who stay behind all the year do not expect a baby from their parents. The terrible thing is that the long-term lack of parental love and maternal love leads to a long young heart. The days are dark and barren. Therefore, when your child stays at home, please do your best to maintain communication with your child. The distance of space cannot stop the transmission of love. Let us explore some ways to give your child more love.
One. If your child is a school-age child, please try to explain to the child the reasons why parents cannot be with them. When a child sees other people's parents by his side, he will be envious and disappointed. At the same time, he will also wonder: why other people's parents and children are together, but I am not? Your explanation gives the child a chance to understand. He may continue to admire and feel sad, but he understands more and is respected.
2. Contact your children regularly every day. Long-distance space will dilute the children's attachment to their parents, and long-term lack of contact will make children weaken their willingness to communicate with their parents, intentionally or unintentionally.
3. Always tell your children that I love you. Hugs are very warm and can enhance the relationship between the child and their parents. However, when reality does not allow, saying more warm words is also a good way to make up for and maintain love. Children's words and deeds always have the shadow of their parents. When you often express love, your children will also give you the same warm words.
4. Understand the child's school situation. Today, with the exception of remote and poor mountainous areas where the Internet is not widespread, families in most areas can still communicate on mobile phones. The school has also established parent groups to facilitate communication between students and parents. Many parents talk about the "discoloration" of the parent group, but for parents who are away from home, this may be the only effective way to understand the situation of their children at school. When you pay attention to tasks or homework given by the teacher, you and your child will have more conversations. Participating in children's learning does not require you to have a high degree of cultural education to guide, just let the children feel that no matter in life or in learning, even in the distant place, parents are involved.
Five. One hundred methods is not as good as one companion. If possible, go home and see as often as possible, give your child a hug every time and watch him smile like a flower. All
are always out of love, some people leave for a better life, some people return for better company. We are all working hard.
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