The drama is on. You have to experience these things when you have a child!

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was recently released by his partner Amway in a Korean drama: "Postpartum Treatment Institute", saying that the slots are full. Usually I don't watch these short dramas in parents, but it is really hot, and some public accounts have used it to bluff people.

Then I'll try it with reluctance. It doesn't matter if you don't look at it, it makes me feel quite ups and downs! Although

has good parts, there are too many bad parts. How can it behave like this? Doesn't that scare away friends who have not had a baby?

first remind everyone that watching the drama pass the time, just relax, the film and television drama works are not credible! After watching an episode of

, I found the top 10 misunderstandings of the baby! As a midwife, I saw these films and TV dramas filmed like this, to borrow from Teacher Li Chengru's words:

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is like a thorn in the throat, like a thorn on the back, like sitting on pins and needles! ! !

It is said that in the dramas I have watched, only Minglan in "Knowledge" in 19 years gave birth to a child, which makes people feel comfortable~

Next, let's follow the plot and simply chat this first episode of high-energy Output!

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first talk about the good places ~

husband involved in the pregnancy process

start is quite good, keep working during pregnancy, the husband participates in the whole pregnancy, to attend classes for the mother. The husband is commendable for participating in the whole pregnancy and childbirth!

Of course, we recommend that the couple join the course together, have discussions, and synchronize information. How can

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make the husband feel more involved in pregnancy? The following points can be referred to:

● Make decisions together

Let your partner participate in all important decisions (choose a hospital, choose a childbirth class, take a delivery together, do a childbirth plan together, etc.);

● Go to class together

The partner will find out that the pregnancy is happening There is so much knowledge to understand and learn, you are not pregnant alone;

● do your homework together

discuss the knowledge you have learned, discuss the changes in your body, and your concerns;

● let your husband massage

at this time When you train an exclusive masseur, encourage him more, and you will find that maybe you are more intimate than before;

●Develop a sleep ritual

for about 20 weeks, you can feel the fetal movement, and interact with your baby! Read your favorite book to your baby! Let the love flow ~

interact with your baby during pregnancy

will be able to hear your baby at around 24 weeks ~

Although we don't know how much the baby can hear, we should talk and interact with the baby more and get familiar with you gradually. Voice, the baby can distinguish familiar voices after birth ~

Studies have shown that this is beneficial to the baby's search for milk and the establishment of attachment relationships. As the play said: "It turns out that it's safe here, mom and dad are there!"

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The fetus can respond to the mother's voice, heartbeat and body vibration, which shows that the fetus has been able to hear sounds and feel. . No matter where

is, when a hungry baby hears the mother's voice, he will turn to the direction of the mother's breast (Noirot & Algeria, 1983, cited in Rovee-Collier, 1996).

fetus seems to be able to learn and remember. In an experiment,

played recordings of three stories to babies who were just three days old. It was found that the babies were more likely to suck on their pacifiers when they played recordings of stories that mothers often read aloud during the last six weeks of pregnancy.

It is obvious that the baby recognizes the sounds that have been heard in the womb (Decasper & Spence, 1986). The

delivery started, calmly dealt with

chasing after the customer to sign, and then breaking the water, the section is simply too rusty. The client asked when your child was born? A. There are two days left. The voice just fell and the water broke~

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Ps: The film effect, the amniotic fluid flowed out too much, in fact, there would not be so much amniotic fluid~

everyone stayed, and the pregnant mother called the hospital very calmly and calmly . Well done here~

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arrived at the hospital, the husband panicked and asked: "What should I do?" The pregnant mother turned it aroundComfort: "I'm fine, calm." A calm pregnant mother like

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, it is worth learning ~

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confirmed signs of childbirth-fetal membrane rupture (ROM) and amniotic fluid gushing is also called broken water, early water break at term, waiting for nature Intensified contractions are just fine. Usually, contractions start naturally within a few hours or tens of hours after breaking the water.

breaks the water prematurely, the following principles should be followed:

●Record the time of breaking the water

observe the color, smell and flow of amniotic fluid. Under normal circumstances, amniotic fluid is transparent and odorless.

● Rest on your side, observe the fetal movement

After breaking the water at home, rest on your side and observe the fetal movement to observe whether there is bleeding or cord prolapse. Fetal movement is normal, you can rest at home first, and then decide whether to go to the hospital for examination according to the situation.

●Do not place foreign bodies in the vagina

Do not try to control the flow of amniotic fluid, do not touch it with your hands, otherwise it will increase the possibility of infection.

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After being admitted to the hospital, the pregnant mother recalled what she had learned, and delivery is divided into four major stages of labor. This part is still the correct information.

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According to the physiological changes at the time of popular science

, childbirth can be divided into different stages of labor:

pre-stage (progressive uterine contractions): It can promote cervical ripening, regression, and advancement of the cervix, and ultimately make the contractions last longer and more frequent. More powerful.

The first stage of labor (cervix dilation): Start at the same time as the contractions and continue until the cervix is ​​fully opened.

Second stage of labor (descending and delivering the fetus): The cervix is ​​fully opened until the fetus is delivered.

Third stage of labor (placental delivery): from the delivery of the fetus to the delivery of the placenta.

Fourth stage of labor (recovery): 1 to several hours after the placenta is delivered and the maternal condition is stable.

So far, the good part is over.

cheer up! Here comes the top ten misunderstandings!

Misunderstandings: Enemas are required for delivery

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Misunderstandings: Pubic hair must be shaved

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These two points together, enema and shaving are not necessary!

The 2018 World Health Organization's recommendations on childbirth care for a positive childbirth experience clearly indicate that pubic hair removal and enema are not recommended.

enema may cause infection, and shaving is not helpful for childbirth.

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a. It is integrated from the advice on prenatal care provided by the World Health Organization for a positive pregnancy experience.

b. Integrated from the recommendations of the World Health Organization on the prevention and treatment of perinatal infections in pregnant women.

Misunderstandings three childbirth analgesia

This place probably wants to express that childbirth is very painful, and the mother cannot bear this kind of pain and can only use painless needles.

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However, childbirth is more than just enduring pain and having painless injections. Regulating breathing, focusing, listening to music, massaging, walking around, changing positions, etc. can all help relieve pain.

Nature designed our women to be pregnant and give birth. It will certainly not make us die. Think about how women gave birth many years ago when there was no medication for pain relief.

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The childbirth class suggested earlier is useful here. Understanding the mechanism of labor pain can better accept the pain itself. Pain is not a bad thing. We can use various physical methods to reduce labor pain. For example, getting out of bed and walking around ~

has pros and cons to fight painlessly. About labor analgesia, Dr. Ma has written an article, you can search "What you need to know about labor analgesia!" "Z2z

Misunderstanding Four times vaginal examinations

This part makes me really angry!

mothers have dignity. Without telling them, they will queue up for vaginal examinations. Anyone who changes will feel humiliated.

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vaginal examination can help assess the cervix, fetal presentation, vagina and pelvis.

When medical staff think it is necessary to perform an examination, they should explain to the mother the importance of obtaining information from vaginal examination, rather than unintendedProceed with its permission.

After obtaining the mother’s permission, explain each step of the vaginal examination and perform gentle operations.

Misunderstanding 5: Lie down the whole time and walk around

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Friends who watched the show know that the mother has never got out of bed since she was admitted to the hospital. Can this give birth to a child?

can!

can give birth to a child, but it is as painful and long as she described, almost taken away by death.

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free position to understand?

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in different stages of labor, according to one's own instinctive feelings, adopting a comfortable position and using different postures to help us promote the birth of the baby and relieve various pains.

Of course, bed rest is also a very important resting position to help mothers save energy.

Misunderstanding Six Guidance Force

at this time has reached the second stage of labor.

"Strive like a stool to push the child out." May I ask the doctor, are you here to be funny?

Although the head of the fetus is about to come out, there will be a sensation of stool. But having a baby is definitely not pulled out like a stool.

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at this time can change the lying posture, using gravity. During the delivery of the fetus, downward force may cause the birth canal to stretch too quickly and damage the vagina.

During this time, the parturient should not hold her breath. When she feels she wants to exert force, lift her chin and breathe slowly.

Of course, this is not an easy task, because the urge to exert force is very strong.

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Misunderstanding Seven: abdominal compression

I am stupid seeing this. Frightened silly!

is 2020, and there are abdominal compression operations, doctors in the drama, it's time to learn!

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Popular science moment:

abdominal compression may cause the risk of uterine rupture! ! !

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This is also an operation not recommended by the World Health Organization! ! !

If you have encountered it, please refuse! ! ! Misunderstandings of

Eight pseudo-kangaroo care

wrapped the baby and put it next to the mother, call kangaroo care?

is funny again! ?

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Kangaroo Care is also called skin-to-skin contact. The baby lies on the mother’s chest with naked bodies without clothing in between.

Skin contact has very important meanings:

● Stabilize the baby's blood sugar, blood pressure, heartbeat, prevent hypothermia;

● Stabilize the mother's hormone level, the baby contacts the mother's body probiotics, which is beneficial to establish their own probiotic system as soon as possible , You can also get the initial sense of security;

●At the same time, skin contact promotes the newborn’s milk-seeking reflex and helps newborns crawl on the breasts until they reach the breasts. If

mom can't do it, then dad can do it too~ It is recommended to search and read

"What can a postpartum dad do?" This trick must be learned! "Z2z

" Warm crying | Special period, post-90 male doctors give kangaroo care to premature infants"

"The first health gift for babies turned out to be this! "Z2z

Misunderstanding 9 Drink kelp soup and get milk

See here, do you have huge doubts? So does Korea have to drink soup and milk? Do you have to drink soup after giving birth?

no! ! !

This is a big mistake! ! !

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Friends who know the principle of lactation will know why what to eat has nothing to do with "whether there is milk" or "not much milk"!

directly review Dr. Ma's article:

"The Mystery of the Century!" Does drinking more water or soup really increase milk? "Z2z

"Worried about the lack of nutrition in breast milk? These ten questions can help you! "Z2z

Misunderstandings Ten: You can’t cry or eat ice after giving birth. After giving birth, the heroine

was born with emotion. "My daughter is experiencing life and death." When the heroine of

saw her mother say this, she felt understood.After being forced to show emotion, she cried and called to her mother. What a warm scene, I didn't expect it, my mother said: "Don't cry, hurt your eyes." Although it is also loving, it can ruin the atmosphere.

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Before pregnancy, a cup of ice American is the hostess's sustenance to relax. Now that I have finished giving birth, I also want to have a cup. But my mother said: "You have to lose your teeth if you drink it cold now."

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"Do you lose your teeth after drinking a cup of ice coffee?" This is not only a question from the hostess, but also many mothers' questions.

saw this, and had to sigh, it really was a neighbor! The customs are the same!

Do all these customs have to be followed? Are they all right? It is worth thinking about.

tears in popular science at any moment

is a kind of emotional expression and one of the ways to release stress. I don’t know if crying hurts my eyes, but I suppress my emotions and hurt my body!

We have been committed to nurturing popular science. Can

eat ice? Can you drink coffee? Can you eat chili? You who have been following us will be able to answer easily.

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