I am the mother of two babies. Dabao is 4 years old and Erbao is more than 1 year old. As the children grow up, I feel more and more that the state of the expectant mother during pregnancy really affects whether the baby is good or not.
Since I had no worries when I was pregnant with Dabao, my mentality was relatively peaceful, and my daily routine was very regular. As a result, my Dabao was born very well. I can sleep all night in a few months, and I rarely cry. When I was pregnant with my second treasure, I sometimes felt irritable because I had to carry the big treasure. As a result, my second treasure was very difficult to carry when I was born. I felt a little uncomfortable and kept crying.
One, why some babies are easy to carry, and some are not easy to carry.
There may be many expectant mothers who are curious. The same is the fetus born in October. Why do some babies sleep and eat? band. And some babies cry constantly no matter how they are coaxed, so it is difficult to bring them? In fact, the reasons why newborn babies are good or bad are mainly related to the following factors.
1, the baby's natural personality (genetic factors)
Whether a newborn baby is good or not has a lot to do with the degree of nerve impulse. To put it simply, some babies are naturally gentle and quiet, so they will be easier to take with them after they are born. Some babies are more sensitive and have a bad temper. They usually cry more easily, which makes it difficult to take care of.
2, the emotions of people around (environmental factors)
babies are unfamiliar with the surrounding environment when they are born, and more importantly, they already have a certain ability to perceive. If the family members are depressed or in a bad mood at this time, they will let Babies are more insecure and cry more easily. And if the mood of the people around is very good, the baby can perceive it, and he will be particularly obedient.
3. Development during the fetal period (influence of habit)
In addition to the above two points (genetic factors and environmental factors), whether the newborn baby is easy to carry is actually related to the various habits of the expectant mother during pregnancy. relationship. If during the fetal period, expectant mothers often do not go to bed on time, or even stay up late, it is easy for the baby to sleep upside down day and night after birth, making it particularly difficult to take.
4, other
Of course, whether the newborn baby is easy to take is also related to some other factors. For example, some babies always cry, which may also be caused by physical discomfort. Usually at this time, parents will take the baby to see a doctor.
Second, what should be done during pregnancy to give birth to a good baby
, regular work and rest, and develop good habits : Good habits for expectant mothers during pregnancy will help the fetus to have a regular schedule and rest after birth. It makes people feel better. The so-called regular work and rest mainly include the expectant mothers to eat regularly during pregnancy (balanced diet, try not to picky eaters, partial eclipse), early to bed and early to wake up (not staying up late, less lazy bed), avoiding overwork and so on.
, on-time check-ups, adhere to prenatal education : Correct prenatal education can not only promote the development of the baby, but also help the baby develop good habits. The most important thing is that persisting in prenatal education can also enhance the baby's ability to adapt after birth and make the baby better.
, avoid mood swings, and maintain a happy mood : If you want to have a good baby, the mood of the expectant mother during pregnancy is also very important. If the mother-to-be can maintain a peaceful and happy state of mind, the baby will also be affected and become more gentle and peaceful. On the contrary, if the mother-to-be has a grumpy temper and great mood swings during pregnancy, it will be more difficult to bring the baby after birth.
In fact, most babies cry when they are just born. Parents must be patient when bringing them. Of course, the baby basically eats and sleeps a few months before birth, and it is better to take it with him.
Conclusion
In short, although the baby's personality is closely related to heredity, but if you want to have a better baby, expectant mothers should pay attention during pregnancy. In addition, during pregnancy, expectant mothers can also read more books on infant care in order to prepare for the birth of the baby.
