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I believe that parents who have given birth to a child have felt this way before. When the baby was picked up for the first time, the whole heart became very soft. Use your shoulders to support the whole world for your baby.
However, many people of the older generation believe that the first person to hold a child is very important, and when the child grows up, he will have a personality similar to the first person to hold him. This statement is generally called " Picking Health".
Therefore, in order to have a "good omen", the baby who has just left the delivery room will be especially careful about who will hold it, and some elderly people will even supervise the whole process.
1. Pregnant women are not suitable for holding newborns.
Zhang Li and Xiao Wang are good sisters. Coincidentally, the time of their pregnancy is very close, and the expected date of delivery is less than five months away.
After Zhang Li gave birth to the baby, Xiao Wang came to the hospital to visit the mother and daughter. When she wanted to hold the baby, Zhang Li's mother-in-law stopped her. According to Zhang Li's mother-in-law, pregnant women cannot hold their newborns, otherwise they will cause diarrhea.
Zhang Li felt that this statement was really unscientific, but considering the inconvenience that the good sister had a big belly, she did not let her hug it. Although the statement
is a bit superstitious, it is not completely unreasonable. Doctors generally do not recommend that people who are pregnant hold a child, not because it will cause diarrhea in newborns, but for the safety of pregnant women. The behavior of
newborns is not controlled. If you accidentally kick the pregnant woman's belly, it is easy to cause the pregnant woman to abort. On the other hand, many pregnant women have not had the experience of holding a baby, and the body of the newborn is very fragile, and improper holding posture can easily cause harm to the baby.
2. People with relatively weak resistance should not touch newborns.
The immune system of newborns is not mature when they are just born, and when they are exposed to the complex environment outside the uterus for the first time, their resistance will be very poor and they are vulnerable to threats of various germs. .
At this time, if a person with a cold comes to hold the baby, the health of the newborn will be harmed. Therefore, it is best not to let people with weak resistance to hold the baby to avoid infection by germs.
3. People who smoke for a long time do not hug their newborns.
There are more and more people who smoke now. Everyone knows that people who smoke for a long time will have a lingering smell of smoke. It is best not to let such people come into contact with newborns, so as not to be affected by "third-hand smoke".
The so-called "third-hand smoke" refers to the residual tobacco compounds on the skin, clothes or furniture. This compound is caused by A and is harmful to infants without any benefit.
Therefore, parents should not feel indifferent to the first person to hold a child. After all, safety comes first, so be careful.
Who is the right person to hold the newborn? You will understand after reading the following points.
Experienced people
How to hold newborns is very particular, improper holding posture can easily hurt the delicate body of the baby, so the first hug can be given to an experienced person, such as elders with childbirth experience or Professional confinement . The correct holding position will make the baby feel safe and comfortable.
warm people
babies have just come out of their mother's womb and feel very disturbed by the external environment.
The low temperature in the delivery room is different from the warmth in the womb and can also cause discomfort to the baby. At this time, if you let a warm person to hug, the baby will be more easily comforted.
A patient, meticulous, and calm personality
It is obviously not a wise choice to let a handy person carry the baby. It takes enough patience to hold a baby. If a person with a calm personality can give the baby the "first hug", it will not only be reliable, but also give the baby a sufficient sense of security.
In fact, the most suitable person to hold a child is the mother. If the mother’s physical condition permits, the mother can be allowed to hold the newborn child.
The mother and child are connected. The first hug can establish an attachment relationship between the baby and the mother, and the baby will be more emotionally satisfied.
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youWho was the first person to hold the baby when he was born?
