Children's fragile heart, who will educate?
has always made a lot of efforts in caring for the physical and mental health of children, both parents and relevant education departments, but it seems that children’s hearts have become more vulnerable now.
In April 2020, Xu Moumou, a senior high school girl in Pinli County, Ankang City, Shaanxi, was discovered by her family in her home house and passed away. The circumstances of the incident have had results, but the young lives have been irretrievable.
have to say, why do children today have become so vulnerable?
Some people may say that it is caused by too much school homework; some parents may say that it is caused by the results announced by the school; others blame the "competition" for too much pressure...
However, no matter what the reason is , Can not change the fact that today's children, on the contrary, with more and more attention, the psychological becomes more vulnerable. Once because of children’s problems, the school’s performance rankings have been cancelled, but the problems continue to appear, and even the children’s psychology has become more vulnerable.
's excessive "spoiling and care" in education has made children who had learned to be strong lose the opportunity to grow up in frustration. Perhaps this kind of educational "care" can help them spend their time in high school and even school, but when they enter society, who should pay for the future of these psychologically vulnerable children? The original intention of
education is to shape a person, and the purpose of education is not just this period of school, but to affect a person's life. However, the “spoiling care” of teachers, schools and society is more like the safety of the school, but it ignores the safety of a child's life.
once said: Rome was not built in a day.
So, the psychological construction of children cannot be built in one day. Perhaps, children’s psychological emotions also need to experience some setbacks, and such setbacks should also be experienced and grown up slowly from the campus. It is a pity that the “spoiling care” of education today does not give children the opportunity to accept setbacks.
Looking back on the "happy education" advocated by many people, perhaps it is indeed important for children to have a happy teenage time, but the experience of "failure" should also be an indispensable part of their happiness. Today's children are getting "happiness" from all aspects. However, many people have overlooked one point. Without "unfortunate", then happiness is simply a "lie". Because they don't understand "happiness" at all.
The author believes that current education should teach students how to face heavy pressure and how to face a bleak life. Isn’t this exactly what Mr. Lu Xun said as a “real warrior”?
Regarding the misfortune of the child, it is regrettable.
However, parents should also understand that the character of a child is not developed in a day, and the growth of a child is not a matter of a day. But in education today, the most lacking may be frustration education. The original rankings now seem to be only part of the child's frustration. The growth of
children should also grow in temper.
may be "spoiling" care, which can give children short-term happiness, but it also makes it difficult for children to bear a setback. For educators, they should also jump out of "responsibility", let education return to the essence, and think about how to cultivate a healthy student, instead of always wandering in the struggle to reduce "responsibility."
Behind the passing of each and every life, it is not only the psychological problems of the students themselves, but also the educators and even related departments. Can you think about education in China from the perspective of developing a complete personality?
Certainly, for such a thing, some people may find a hundred excuses for education. However, the real responsibility is not a certain person, but the educational problem hiding behind the person.
Perhaps, when the kindergarten begins to instill in children: "We must say, what others love to hear, and what makes others happy", it is doomed to the direction of school, education and society.
At present, our education should reflect!
