This is an era where the elderly rely on taking care of their children. At least there is an elderly person in the family who is helping them. Some people say, is it not good to hire a more suitable person to see the child if I have money? In fact, parenting is something that has to be done by the people in your own family, and everyone else is always worried. The second sister of our neighbor's neighbor's house was in charge of someone to take care of her child. As a result, in order to take care of her child, she actually put sleeping pills in her child's milk. If it weren't for the grandmother at home coming to visit and found the problem, it would probably be not only the child who was hurt, but also the originally happy family.
However, even if grandma takes care of the baby, there is no situation. In this regard, grandma takes care of the baby more sincerely. Grandma mostly takes care of the baby for the sake of the daughter, so she will think about the problem and start from the perspective of the daughter, but grandma mostly has to do so. Therefore, the process of raising children may be a little more self-centered.
Let me say that it is the duty of the elderly to take care of their children, but it is by no means an obligation. When the elderly do not sincerely take care of their children, we should not be picky, but communicate with the elderly from an understanding perspective. If we cannot communicate, we can also accept the elderly’s ideas, rather than being forced to insist on taking care of their children. In fact, we do not recommend the behavior of letting the elderly take care of their children, as this may affect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the future of children.
Reason 1: The elderly are not in good health
Most children are active, but the elderly are older and physically compatible. Whether it is flexibility or in all aspects, the elderly are not the first choice to take care of their children. Many families are unable to run because the elderly are in poor health, or the elderly cannot catch up, which leads to danger or tragedy.
So, if possible, it is better for the child’s parents to take care of the child.
Reason 2: The elderly are financially struggling
Some elderly people are financially struggling and cannot help their parents take care of their children. Therefore, the parents of children should start by paying attention to the survival problems of the elderly, rather than using this as a reason for the elderly to help us take care of their children. This will only make the elderly perfunctory in raising children, so that the children become victims.
Reason 3: The elderly’s three views are not correct
If the elderly in your family have a bad view, don’t let one of them take care of their children. After all, children need a warmer living soil. Only by having a person with a positive view can children grow up, become the responsibility of the family, and become the pillar of society.
In short, it is better for an elderly person to take care of his children than a mother Bao. The children born are their own. If you want to avoid the responsibilities to him, you will have to bear the pain he brings to us in the future. Therefore, raising children well is the future of a family and the happy old age of a pair of parents.
or above is for reference and learning only. Please do it under the guidance of professionals. On the road of parenting, we are all novices. How to better take care of children? You can follow me and discuss with me what happens on the road of parenting.
